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Bad tempered people and petrol queues.

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Namsnanny Tue 28-Sept-21 10:41:27

According to the papers it's very localised SueDonim.
Sarnia Thinking of him sat there made me chuckle. Perhaps he was collecting information for an organisation about the problem?
I dont know, but some people seem extraordinarily cross or interested.

The behaviour towards us was definitely worrying jackiebeel

I'm wondering how much the press is to blame for winding the situation up TerriBull?
As SueDonim pointed out, there could just be a few hot spots of slow service.

Dottynan Tue 28-Sept-21 10:40:43

Joined a queue of about twenty cars yesterday. When we got to he head of the queue there were bollards across the forecourt with a gap for one car. Assistant checking all petrol pumps and told us which one to go, when free. So so civilised and working so well. No anxiety. Well done Sainsburys.

GagaJo Tue 28-Sept-21 10:34:06

An ex student of mine, now a nurse, has been driving around this morning after coming off night-shift, looking for petrol. I feel sorry for her having to do this, after working a 12 hour shift. And if she can't get petrol, she won't be able to get to work tonight.

Own goal, Brexit.

Ladyleftfieldlover Tue 28-Sept-21 10:31:13

A lot of people are on edge. The Pandemic is not going away any time soon, Brexit is not proving the wonderful exercise it was supposed to be, fears of another ruined Christmas … and I’m afraid that some people just don’t have the wherewithal to be patient.

TerriBull Tue 28-Sept-21 10:13:52

There was a picture yesterday of a woman filling up numerous plastic containers, which I gather shouldn't contain petrol anyway, holding everyone up behind, and presumably after she had filled the tank of her vehicle as well. Really selfish "I'm alright Jack" behaviour which is bound to make even the calmest people bad tempered.

JackieBee1 Tue 28-Sept-21 10:01:06

Disgusting behaviour.
(Them, not you!)

Sarnia Tue 28-Sept-21 08:30:59

I was in a very long queue on Sunday, waiting for fuel. The gauge was teetering on red, so I needed to fill up. I was amused by a gentleman sitting on a fold-up picnic chair on a small island at the junction of 3 roads. He seemed perfectly content and I daresay he was getting some entertainment from all these petrol crazy drivers around him. I wondered why he couldn't find something better to do on a Sunday lunchtime rather than sit amongst heavy traffic inhaling all the fumes.

SueDonim Mon 27-Sept-21 20:14:36

We bought fuel today. Everything was calm and no unpleasantness that I saw, even though some of the pumps weren’t working.

Namsnanny Mon 27-Sept-21 20:03:34

AGAA4 Thats terrible. I presume someone else wanted the space, and thought they were more needy?

Well exactly Lincslass so not really anything to do with any perceived fuel shortage. But that was how it seemed to be viewed by others.
It didn't make any sense at the time or now.

AGAA4 Mon 27-Sept-21 19:44:44

People seem to be more aggressive now. My poor neighbour who is disabled had abuse hurled at her for parking in the disabled bay.

Lincslass Mon 27-Sept-21 19:42:26

If a tanker was emptying into the tanks, for safety reasons the forecourt has to be closed under ACOP and should be done under DSEAR guidelines. Very dangerous not to do so and can be reported to the relevant authorities, ie Police and Local Health and Safety.

Namsnanny Mon 27-Sept-21 19:21:31

Whilst sat in the forecourt of the petrol station, waiting to fill up, we've had 3 different people come up to the open window to hurl abuse at us! Why?

"F**** ridiculous, F**** idiot" said one accompanied with a few hand gestures.
Which to be honest I couldn't help but laugh out loud at, out of shock. At first I didn't realise he was meaning us.
Until he came up to the window (now closed) and said it again.

Then a women came along side and said could we move as she needed to get petrol? I pointed out there were bollards stopping anyone from entering the garage as the tanker was filling the pumps.
To which she said she was an off duty nurse and shouldn't have to waste her time queueing, so could we move?
I pointed out we were jammed in by her car behind, and the bollards in front.
Plus, she was second in the queue, so sorry but we were all in the same boat!!
She glared for a few seconds then stomped off.

A couple thought it was their prerogative to come up to the passenger window to enlighten us, that if we thought we were going to get any petrol we would be lucky, (even though they could clearly see the tanker delivering fuel for themselves).
Said we should have topped up earlier, then left clearly enjoying their clever repartee, and giggling at our perceived misfortune.

It was a sunny day and lots of people were out and about, and should have been enjoying themselves. Clearly not but why the open hostility?
Have I missed something?

BTW we have filled up there before, and we were on our normal shopping routine.