My BIL had Parkinson's and a carer came to his home one morning per week in order to provide my SIL with some respite. They also had someone come in mornings and evenings to get my BIL up and put him bed.
My own Mother developed pre senile dementia when she was 53. A few years later it was diagnosed as Alzheimers. In the early stages she realised that something was wrong but she thought that she had cancer. At first people realise that they are ill and as they reach a plateau and then deteriorate some more they gradually lose their reasoning and sense of what is happening to them. Watching someone with this disease is dreadful for the family as they lose their loved one but can be a relief too because the loved one is not aware.
My Mother was assessed over a two week period at UCL and then referred to a geriatric doctor in her home town. When I visited him I discussed what we should do and his response was that you'll know when the time comes. Very helpful! But he also warned against trying to care because it was very difficult and, especially when a relative is the sole carer, after the Alzheimer's sufferer died it was often necessary to then care for the carer. Or "pick up the pieces" as he said.
My Mother lived for about 10 years after the UCL diagnosis.
A large part of that time was in a residential home and they kept there and cared for her rather than send her to a nursing. The staff were very kind. When I visited I used to take my two dogs and most of the residents were very pleased and vied with each other to pet them. One or two moaned but most of them had had pets of their own and loved seeing them.
I was in my early thirties when she had her UCL diagnosis. My father had died of cancer two years earlier and we were all very glad that he did not live to see my Mother deteriorate.
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