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Decided to give up my car

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Franbern Fri 29-Oct-21 15:27:00

I have owned a car for the nearly sixty years.
For a long time I actually described myself as being like a Tortoise - only really feeling complete within the safety of my car.

With lots of children, I would spent many hours (and covered many many miles) driving them around to appointments, clubs, social occasions, sports training, etc. etc.

Could never imagine myself without a car.

HOWEVER......when I moved down to Weston-super-Mare (two years ago today), I realised that I would need the car far less than I did when living in a London suburb
As I have limited mobility for all sorts of reasons), and use a lovely mobility scooter for getting about. WsM is a small enough place for me to be able to use this to get to virtually all my U3A, etc group meetings as well as the local High Street, Park, Beach, GP surgery, library, etc. etc. Buses stop right outside the flats going to my favourite supermarket (Sainsburys' and the local hospital).

I thought I would keep the car for use for long distance journeys (ie visiting back to London), but have found that I now find that journey too daunting for me by myself. (Would have done it without thought there and back on same day in years past). Now prefer to do long distance journeys by train (station less than a mile away).
So, the car sat in my garage, being taken out once a week for a five mile round tripto Sainsburys!!!
Had a bad puncture on one of those journeys and since them have found I am much more tense when driving as I am listening for unusual noises, etc. etc.

I had always hoped I would be sensible enough to know when the time to stop driving had arrived and not have to wait until I had either a bad accident or a series of small ones.

I also worked out that keeping it in the garage was still costing me not far under a grand a year (insurance, RAC cover, Servicing and occasional small repairs/tyres, etc) THis would be increasing as Insurance companies put up their prices when a driver turns 80 years whatever their previous driving and non-claiming background is.

So, I tided it up, said a fond farewell and have now sold it. I am carless - could claim this is due to being an Eco-Warrior, but not really true.

I know I am fortunate, that I have a daughter and Son-in-Law very close by who will take me out for days, etc. and I have joined my local Community Bus (Dial-a-Ride), started getting Sainsbury's home deliveries some weeks, getting to know my local bus routes.

I actually feel total relief, more room in my garage, and not having to worry about anything to do with the car any more. I feel that I ought to feel more upset about being carless than I do at present. I am sure there will be times when I regret not having my own vehicle - but at present I feel great about it.

Oopsadaisy1 Fri 29-Oct-21 16:11:13

The joys of living close to all amenities!
I wouldn’t want to drive from WSM to London either, far better to take the train.
I have to drive 4 miles to a bus stop, but I can see myself in 10 yrs or so wanting to move closer to the shops, chemist etc.

GrannySomerset Fri 29-Oct-21 16:28:29

Well done, Franbern. It takes courage to know when to stop driving and you have wisely so organised your life that you can manage without a car. I admire and salute you.

Grandmadinosaur Fri 29-Oct-21 16:57:01

I can sense that relief Franbern . I think you’ve made a wise decision.
I love WSM by the way. Spent many happy holidays there as a child.

NotTooOld Fri 29-Oct-21 18:30:01

Well done, Franbern! You've made an excellent decision. I also love WsM and envy you not needing a car. Train is definitely best for longer journeys. Good luck!

Jaxjacky Fri 29-Oct-21 18:43:17

Admirable Franbern I hope I have the sense to do the same at the right time and feel the same way.
We stayed in WsM a few weeks ago, loved it.

Lovetopaint037 Fri 29-Oct-21 22:31:27

Been discussing this of late and have thought that the money saved on insurance, servicing etc would pay for a lot of cab fares as we have a good cab firm nearby. As said before there are deliveries, buses and trains. There are some disadvantages such as the inability to undertake certain longer journeys not easily made without a car and those are the only situations causing to hang on for a while.

welbeck Fri 29-Oct-21 22:34:48

GrannySomerset

Well done, Franbern. It takes courage to know when to stop driving and you have wisely so organised your life that you can manage without a car. I admire and salute you.

ditto.

Urmstongran Fri 29-Oct-21 22:37:14

Well done Franbern. ✅
Not only ‘good for the environment’ but good for you too. A wry sensible and well thought out decision.
Money saved can be spent on taxis.

Katie59 Sat 30-Oct-21 09:48:11

Giving up the car will come to most of us at some stage and it is never going to be easy, living close to shops etc a mobility scooter is a good alternative even if you’re fairly mobile. The saving over running a car is great and will easily pay for the longer trips you might make.

henetha Sat 30-Oct-21 09:52:28

I live out in the countryside. Heaven knows what I am going to do when I give up my car. I intend to hang on as long as I feel I am not a danger to others.

sodapop Sat 30-Oct-21 12:32:16

Well done Franbern it took courage to do that, sounds like you have all the bases covered to get you out and about.

Nannarose Sat 30-Oct-21 12:56:16

Well done! It is more difficult for those whose public transport has been cut (our community bus doesn't even come near me any more) but I think it makes sense for you.

Although you have good support, I would suggest that fairly soon, you do a couple of taxi journeys (ask around for recommendations).
Around me, where there aren't a great many taxis, and many of them get booked up at popular times. They will prioritise regular / known customers, so it worth 'establishing' yourself with one of them.