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Just musing and wonderiing.....

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annodomini Fri 03-Dec-21 09:57:16

I was looking for the quote: "Do good by stealth", thinking it was biblical, but tracked it down (thank you, Internet) to Alexander Pope's Essay on Man and the full line is : “Do good by stealth, and blush to find it fame.” In other words, be embarrassed if you get a reputation for 'doing good'. It's a good 60 years since I studied that poem, but the line - or half of it - had stayed with me.

Juliet27 Fri 03-Dec-21 09:51:55

Agreed Baggs

GagaJo Fri 03-Dec-21 09:50:34

That American phrase, 'Bleeding heart liberals' springs to mind. What is wrong with caring? We all should care.

Witzend Fri 03-Dec-21 09:49:14

AFAIK the term has always had connotations of bossiness. and/or interfering ‘for your own good’, though.

I don’t think it’s ever really meant the same thing as ‘people who do good’.

Baggs Fri 03-Dec-21 09:46:32

Without knowing the context of that local FB page comment, one can't really judge in this instance, but what I said above holds everywhere.

Baggs Fri 03-Dec-21 09:44:49

It's when so-called do-gooders are perceived to be interfering where they shouldn't or virtue signalling their goodness that people object.

In general actually doing good quietly and without boasting about it is as valued as anyone would want it to be.

Lucca Fri 03-Dec-21 09:35:21

‘‘Twas ever thus……

Franbern Fri 03-Dec-21 09:30:50

On my local area FB page, someone has made a derogatary remark about 'do gooders'. Set me wondering what sort of society we have when wishing to do good is seen as some sort of insult.

I do know the ....road to hell, etc. However, I really would that we lived in a Society where people wished to DO GOOD than one where making fast buck is seen as priority.