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Serendipity22 Tue 04-Jan-22 11:45:36

Ok, so picture the scene. I am wandering around the supermarket isles with my 5 year old GS. I am concentrating on the mental list of items i need to purchase, GS is pointing his toy cowboy gun at anything and everybody.

Some people have laughed, some have spoken to him in fun and 1 elderly chap held both hands up hahaha and yet there i was amongst my mental list consisting of milk, bleach etc, thinking is this wrong? should he be blatantly waving a gun about ?

I ended up feeling so uncomfortable just as i remembered i needed a block of cheese which was 3 isles back, that i told him to give me the gun, which he did and i thrust it in my bag.

At 1 time it was perfectly normal to see a little boy with his 'pistol' ...
maybe it just me who thinks this way. I dunno. What does everyone else think ?

smile

Caro57 Wed 05-Jan-22 18:18:57

My DS didn’t have a toy gun so would pick up a stick, point it and say ‘bang bang’ - it’s inbuilt into the age group. Equally he ‘fell in love’ with a doll that I had played with as a child and took it to my then in-laws where FIL promptly told me I was ‘bringing him up to be gay’!!!

Alioop Wed 05-Jan-22 18:31:23

I had a cowboy outfit too when I was a child complete with a cap gun, that banged so loud it would make you jump( I grew up in the height of the troubles in N.Ireland too! ). How times change that people don't feel comfortable with some toys we didn't worry about years ago.

Deedaa Wed 05-Jan-22 19:44:16

Oh how I wanted a cowboy outfit Alioop I used to get a Roy Rogers comic which was great fun but full of a lot of Americanisms that were quite beyond me. I played endless games of cowboys and indians with the boys, with a later diversion into Davy Crockett. One of my most treasured possessions was my pirate pistol which was a double barrelled flintlock pistol.

Two of my grandsons are 15 and 9 and the big success this Christmas was a pair of Nerf guns.

Saggi Wed 05-Jan-22 20:11:19

I really cannot believe this thread …. a toy plastic cowboy gun offends you!?!? Really?
I played with guns as did my many brothers…. my grandchildren have had /do have now guns. I have seen all these people grow up into respectable law abiding citizens…. we all ‘put away childish things’.
Is this the same theory that little girls get dolls and their prams thrust at them from as soon as they can walk….. what’s that saying to girls “ here this is all you’re meant for”.
I cannot believe anyone wouldn’t think this thread a joke!

Saggi Wed 05-Jan-22 20:15:00

…..oh just to ‘offend’ the righteous people more….. I gave my 10 year old granddaughter a ‘shooting’ game for Christmas … the targets were clowns faces….. now clowns are REALLY offensive! And she got given a punchbag ….. and another round of MixedMartial Arts payments as gifts. There’s one female creature heading straight for the gallows …no doubt!

MissAdventure Wed 05-Jan-22 20:17:24

Excuse me, I feel I may faint after reading that.
Where are my smelling salts?

happycatholicwife1 Wed 05-Jan-22 20:17:47

I had a holster set, caps, a fringed vest, and cowboy hat. I also had a fringed Indian get up, complete with bow and arrows, headband with feather, and a teepee large enough for me to crawl inside of. Santa Claus brought all of these. I played with them a lot and enjoyed them very much.

Chewbacca Wed 05-Jan-22 20:22:21

Clearly a kid heading to a life of criminality and skullduggery. I'd better not show you the pirate costume; that has........ whisper it quietly a sword. shock

MissAdventure Wed 05-Jan-22 20:40:22

grin

lemongrove Wed 05-Jan-22 21:27:24

Chewbacca

GS, aged 5, asked for Woody costume for Christmas and was given a cowboy hat, waistcoat, gingham neckerchief and chaps. But no gun. GS was dismayed but, being a born problem solver, he constructed his own out of the Lego set that he also got for Christmas. We spent a large part of Christmas Day lying down "deaded"; which was a bonus.

Hope it was on a comfy sofa??

Chewbacca Wed 05-Jan-22 21:34:22

We did our best to engineer it that way Lemonmeoldfruit! But RugRat#2 kept insisting we'd been "deaded long enough"! Drat!

lemongrove Wed 05-Jan-22 21:44:03

? I used to wonder ( as a child) why adults always needed to sit down and have cups of tea at regular intervals....I know now alright!

Calistemon Wed 05-Jan-22 22:38:42

Caro57

My DS didn’t have a toy gun so would pick up a stick, point it and say ‘bang bang’ - it’s inbuilt into the age group. Equally he ‘fell in love’ with a doll that I had played with as a child and took it to my then in-laws where FIL promptly told me I was ‘bringing him up to be gay’!!!

DS used to push his Action Men round in his sister's doll's pram.
He's a lovely Dad now ?

He looks really scary, Chewbacca ?
I've put my hands up!

Shropshirelass Thu 06-Jan-22 10:07:33

Nothing wrong with toy guns, if children don’t have a toy gun they will pretend to shoot with their fingers, can be part of normal play. We had toy guns as children and haven’t turned into murdering maniacs! Sometimes restricting certain ‘unsuitable’ toys makes them that much more interesting, just like ‘forbidden fruit’.

Bugbabe2019 Fri 07-Jan-22 19:12:47

It’s fine
Perfectly normal he’s not going to turn into a mass gunman because he has a toy gun!

Caleo Fri 07-Jan-22 20:57:08

Children pick up bad influences from their chums, but this is no reason for parents to buy their child harmful toys or approve of the kid pretending to shoot people dead in a supermarket or anywhere else.

MissAdventure Fri 07-Jan-22 22:26:03

I'm not sure there is any evidence to support the the idea that toy guns are harmful.
(Cue someone popping up to prove me wrong! smile)

Chewbacca Fri 07-Jan-22 22:46:40

Personally, I was grateful to be "deaded" on Christmas Day caleo, it was the only time I got to lie down for 5 minutes.

Chestnut Sat 08-Jan-22 09:57:14

Well here is my 3 year old grandson aka as The Sun Kid showing his fast draw. It's a fantasy game played at home and he's loving it. He's 8 now and doesn't play it any more. I'm more concerned about those ghastly murderous computer games he may come across when he's older.

Chewbacca Sat 08-Jan-22 10:02:21

A ne'er do well if ever I saw one Chestnut! grin
Isn't it lovely to see them in dressing up stuff and playing imaginatively!

Caleo Sat 08-Jan-22 11:09:30

Young children learn through play. Every infant teacher knows that!

Caleo Sat 08-Jan-22 11:11:59

Would you let the kiddies play at drive-by shootings? Or is it only okay to play at killing red indians, or shoppers in supermarkets?

Chestnut Sat 08-Jan-22 11:33:04

Caleo

Would you let the kiddies play at drive-by shootings? Or is it only okay to play at killing red indians, or shoppers in supermarkets?

The Sun Kid was in his own home (not a supermarket) and shooting a bad guy who had drawn his gun, not Indians. The Wild West has always been a fantasy world for children along with Harry Potter and sci-fi like Star Wars etc. You are taking this far too seriously.

Chewbacca Sat 08-Jan-22 11:55:09

Would you let the kiddies play at drive-by shootings? Or is it only okay to play at killing red indians, or shoppers in supermarkets?

Now you're being silly caleo! And the term "red indians" is deeply offensive and hasn't been acceptable for at least 2 decades. Native American or American Indian is their requested terminology.

MissAdventure Sat 08-Jan-22 12:30:00

I used to love playing with my toy ironing board, keeping house, and going off "shopping", wearing high heels.
None of which appeal to me in the slightest as an adult.