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Mumsnet promoting fabric softeners - oh dear!

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grandtanteJE65 Thu 06-Jan-22 14:34:18

I don't doubt that fabric softeners do what whoever wrote mumsnet's speil claims they do, but there is another side to the coin.

Nearly all fabric softeners, like laundry soap and soap in general contain perfume.

All of us who are allergic to perfumes suffer when we inadvertently sit beside someone who uses them in a bus, a lecture hall, theatre etc.

I have not infrequently had to leave the seat I had chosen or go home from an event, even when I had taken antihistamine before attending.

I realise I and others suffering from allergies cannot expect the entire world to change their lifestyle out of consideration for a minority, but please, do look for laundry soap, toilet soap, cleaning agents and fabric softeners that do not contain perfume.

Ordinary vinegar makes a very good fabric softener, if you must use one.

Atqui Fri 07-Jan-22 21:37:45

How much soda does one need ?

Atqui Fri 07-Jan-22 21:36:10

When I was teaching , children used to smell the un named sweatshirts to see if it was theirs! My grandchildren’s clothes really reek of Comfort and I loathe it

MayBee70 Fri 07-Jan-22 21:13:04

I once found my new car ( the only new car I’ve ever bought) was covered in dried on sap from a nearby pine tree. In a complete panic I did some Googling and it recommended using fabric conditioner. So, at 12 o’clock at night I smeared my car in it and it worked!

MissAdventure Fri 07-Jan-22 18:34:00

Incidentally, perfume itself is bad for the environment.

Summerlove Fri 07-Jan-22 18:25:04

Blondiescot

I'm not trying to be funny here, and I do sympathise with you, but I'd imagine that many people who use the products you've mentioned do so precisely because they contain perfume.

Exactly

Calistemon Fri 07-Jan-22 18:18:20

I don’t ever read the email - so that would be why not!

What email?

MayBee70 Fri 07-Jan-22 14:59:50

Isn’t it illegal to wear perfume in public places in some countries eg Canada ( or did I dream that up?). I used vinegar as a fabric softener now. Cleans the machine as well, I believe.

MayBeMaw Fri 07-Jan-22 14:39:50

grandtanteJE65

MayBeMaw

I'm still puzzled by the context.
What mumsnet spiel ??
Clearly I have missed something- can you enlighten me please OP?

It was the topic contained in the e-mail from Gransnet yesterday, I seem to remember you don't wait for their e-mail, so that will be why you didn't see it.

I clicked on it and a whole long article came up.

Unfortunately, I don't know how to access it without the e-mail, so this probably does not help.

I don’t ever read the email - so that would be why not!

ElaineI Fri 07-Jan-22 14:20:24

For goodness sake!

MaizieD Fri 07-Jan-22 14:17:39

I've always understood that fabric softener gunks up your clothes, as well as your washing machine.

Not that I can see any point in using it, clothes are absolutely fine without it. The only washed items that I find are 'hard' without any sort of treatment are towels; I have to confess that mine go in the tumble dryer (not even line drying them on a breezy day leaves them anything but hard)

It surprises me that mumsnet appears to be promoting them (but then, have you ever read a mumsnet 'washing' thread grin)

grandtanteJE65 Fri 07-Jan-22 14:03:40

MayBeMaw

I'm still puzzled by the context.
What mumsnet spiel ??
Clearly I have missed something- can you enlighten me please OP?

It was the topic contained in the e-mail from Gransnet yesterday, I seem to remember you don't wait for their e-mail, so that will be why you didn't see it.

I clicked on it and a whole long article came up.

Unfortunately, I don't know how to access it without the e-mail, so this probably does not help.

Hiraeth Fri 07-Jan-22 05:35:20

Fabric softener is made of a mixture of ammonia and rendered fat from cows, sheep, horses etc. And is definitely not good for our environment .

MayBeMaw Fri 07-Jan-22 05:01:50

I'm still puzzled by the context.
What mumsnet spiel ??
Clearly I have missed something- can you enlighten me please OP?

nandad Fri 07-Jan-22 00:09:04

JackyB, I don’t think I’m allergic to the perfumes, they are just so overpowering they make my eyes stream. I think it’s because I used to suffer with sinus problems.

JackyB Thu 06-Jan-22 23:58:59

But,Nandad isn't the allergic reaction the same whether you can actually smell the perfume or not?

nandad Thu 06-Jan-22 23:52:49

One positive (for me) of Covid related anosmia is that I can’t smell washing powders and fabric softener. A friend uses both as well as the scented sheets that go in dryers. Sometimes I leave her house looking like I’ve spent the afternoon crying my eyes out!

VioletSky Thu 06-Jan-22 23:18:23

Definitely no perfume on public transport, even if by a miracle I'm not allergic to mine lol

AreWeThereYet Thu 06-Jan-22 23:05:14

I will certainly try to be more considerate of others wearing scents etc in future

I came very close to being very sick over the lady sitting in front of me on the bus. Her perfume was very cloying and very strong. Even when I moved further down the bus it was catching in my throat. Fortunately the bus stopped so I could get off and get rid of the smell. She'll never know how close she came ?

Shinamae Thu 06-Jan-22 23:02:23

I use white vinegar and a dash of lemon disinfectant in my conditioner drawer. I also run a 90° wash about once every month with soda crystals and white vinegar…

MissAdventure Thu 06-Jan-22 23:00:57

I never used to use it, but I do now, against my better judgement.

VioletSky Thu 06-Jan-22 22:45:33

I will certainly try to be more considerate of others wearing scents etc in future

I think I don't smell ours and assumed it didn't have a strong smell but maybe I'm just used to it

Witzend Thu 06-Jan-22 21:05:58

I stopped using it ages ago, after reading that it (and the laundry pods) cause a build up of gunk in your washing machine.
As advised I did a 90 deg empty wash with just soda crystals and it was amazing, the dirty looking foam that appeared. And again with a 2nd ditto wash, but less.

Nowadays I just use powder - I lot less than I ever did - and soda crystals in every wash.

pinkprincess Thu 06-Jan-22 20:50:46

I hate fabric conditioner, never use it.
I have Emphysema and the scent, like other products, makes me ill.Fabric conditioner also destroys washers, just have a look at the gunk it leaves in the detergent drawer.

Calistemon Thu 06-Jan-22 20:32:33

VioletSky

I just use asda sensitive non bio. Fairy sensitive non bio actually caused a reaction for us, I'd forgotten that as it was years ago

I find Fairy doesn't rinse out very well either, especially when washing towels.

Namsnanny Thu 06-Jan-22 19:57:44

I suppose it's possible Josieann, I never like to make a fuss so....
Usually I take my own pillow cases and sheets! Yes, what a palava it is too!
More often than not, we stay in self catering so we can do as we wish.
I recently stayed in a lovely hotel for a family occasion, and to my amazement the sheets were unscented, and so was the room.
It can be the case that chemical fragrances are sprayed around which is just as bad.

JaneJudge I dont think my cleaning routine would suit many.
I wash my clothes in sensitive washing up liquid (Waitrose) after spot cleaning with white vinagar.
The sheets are washed in ordinary cheap unbranded washing powder, on a high temperature, then re washed in the above washing liquid (to wash as much of the scent away). Then, left to line dry for as many days as it needs to blow the scent away.
Thats the only way I can find around the problem.

It was a complete nightmare when the children lived at home. You know how teens are with their personal hygiene, sprays everywhere, X4. It got to the stage where I had to ask/insist they sprayed whilst outside!! Not practical with deodorant though, so I had a permanent headache and streaming eyes for around 15 years grin