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To drive or not to drive

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Kali2 Mon 17-Jan-22 18:04:31

If there is any time that your foot can lose feeling, I am so so sorry to say, but you should not be driving.

rosie1959 Mon 17-Jan-22 18:00:41

Difficult to say if you live somewhere like I do being without a car would be tiresome there is just one local taxi service so hit or miss if you can get one
The bus service to the nearest city is OK but getting to a decent supermarket is hard work.
Saying that I use on line shopping for groceries and meat delivery and our local market for vegetables, but again this would be a mile or so walk.
I also go to regular meetings which need a car for access buses limited.

Mattsmum2 Mon 17-Jan-22 17:52:23

My mum is nearly 80 and I can’t ever imagine her not driving and was a passenger with her when she had to stop in an emergency and her reaction was amazing. We’ve talked about when she gives up and she says she will probably take a taxi as bus routes are non existent where she lives. She’s just spent a lot on her car and will never change it.

kittylester Mon 17-Jan-22 17:46:13

Sorry, GranySomerset, x posts.

Or great minds etc........

kittylester Mon 17-Jan-22 17:45:03

But what if there is not a taxi or bus when you need it. There are no taxis to be had in our village till 9.30 as they are busy taking children to school. The buses, currently are errati and being cancelled quite often.

GrannySomerset Mon 17-Jan-22 17:42:51

It depends on where you live, too. Getting a taxi round us isn’t easy and in term time most of them do school runs so are not available at certain times, so that is a huge limitation. I too think it’s worth keeping a record of when and how you use the car to help you decide. I am not keen on having to depend on other people so will continue driving as long as my children think I am safe. They will be the first to suggest I hang up my car keys!

Nannarose Mon 17-Jan-22 17:36:35

This comes up every so often, and there are so many factors to take into account. It is true that simply owning a car costs quite a lot of money that can be spent on taxis etc.
You definitely need to look at a typical month or two (not easy given the last 2 years!) and work out how you would get about and organise your life.
In principle, I agree with 'mothball it and see how much you miss it'. However, if it is already needing a lot of money to make it roadworthy, then that may not be a sensible option.

Redhead56 Mon 17-Jan-22 13:48:54

It depends on your local amenities if everything is nearby that’s handy for you. If you don’t drive when you are in pain you won’t miss the car. Maybe for shopping get a taxi or delivery you will be saving money not having a car. I think you sound already decided and don’t seem that bothered.
I like the independence but admit don’t drive far from home. Unless my arthritis hinders me driving as my joints seize up I will carry on with mine. We have to at some point give in and admit defeat I won’t be stubborn I will when I have too.

PinkCosmos Mon 17-Jan-22 13:42:56

I would agree with AGAA4.

The money you would save on car maintenance, insurance etc. would pay for taxis.

Hopefully, you will have a bus stop close by and a free bus pass - depending on where you live

JillyJosie2 Mon 17-Jan-22 13:41:25

If money isn't an issue, why don't you keep it for another six months or a year and see how you feel then. I'm not 70 yet but I can't imagine giving up my car which I use, as you do, for short local journeys and general errands.

I'm a bit suspicious of taxis and prefer to be in my own space and to have the car there if I really need it. Once you've sold your car, it will be harder to find and buy another. That's my thoughts!

AGAA4 Mon 17-Jan-22 13:35:53

My mum gave up her car in her 70s as she wasn't using it much. She used buses and taxis and saved money as the car was costing her a lot to just keep it mostly on her driveway. The saving on MOTs, servicing, road tax and repairs was more than adequate to pay for a taxi when she needed one.

nannycake Mon 17-Jan-22 13:27:57

My cars MOT is due in March but it’s not going to pass unless I spend a lot of money on it and as it’s ancient I don’t want to. My dilemma is should I buy another vehicle or give up driving and use other means of transport. I’m 74 and have peripheral neuropathy in my feet and when my feet are cold I don’t drive because I lose feeling in them. Basically I hardly use my car except for shopping and small local journeys. It seems such a luxury to keep a car when I hardly use it but it does give me comfort knowing it’s there if I need it. What does other G-netters think or would do?