So sorry about the scam. I really hope you get your money back.
There are LOADS of scams though. This is a constant thing, so
Please
please
please
please
please
do. not. talk. to. people. who. cannot. prove. who. they. are.
I think a lot of scammers are targeting older people who eagerly pick up the phone and are willing to talk because they are lonely. Please make sure you learn about healthy boundaries and learn how to say no.
No one who is phoning you has any right to any information about you. If you are not sure they are who they say they are, ask them to prove it. Ask for it in writing! Or ask them to email you. If they are who they say they are, they will have your postal address and email address already. If that's not "ok", you will know they are fraudulent.
Even the police are not above corruption. Look what has happened in the Met.
I am not condemning anyone or saying they are stupid but these criminals are opportunists that will prey on your weakness or politeness. So please stop being polite and saying yes when you should be saying no. Every day someone tries to scam me, so it's happening to everyone and anyone.
I hope the crooks are caught. Meanwhile, we need to be alert and never do anything without playing detective.
You can always say you can't talk right now and ask for their number to ring them back- or ask them to ring you back- then get their number and google it.
Please do anything you can to avoid giving money or info to anyone.