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What were you taught when you first started school.?

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Maywalk Thu 10-Feb-22 20:54:37

I ask this because my great/grandson started school at Xmas and I was rather shocked when seeing him on Facetime three weeks ago I asked him what he had been doing at school that day and him showing me some drawings he had done of a ship sinking and telling me that they all died who were on it.

I realised he was talking about the Titanic and could have said that they did not all die, some were saved BUT I did not want him dwelling on the horror of it.

In my opinion at the age of 5 he is TOO young to be taught this and I would have thought it more suitable for when he got older and was learning history.
To make matters worse two weeks later he asked his paternal grandmother if she was born when it happened so it seems as though it had played on his mind.

I could have made it worse if I had mentioned that I had an Aunt and twin cousins who perished on that ship when going out to America to join husband /father to start a new life.

What is your opinion??????

Maywalk Fri 11-Feb-22 21:44:42

welbeck

dear Maywalk, big up to you.
what was the evacuees' school like, do you remember ?

Yes I remember it well Welbeck because it was an old Baptist Church that had been confiscated by the government for the duration of the war to be used as an evacuee school.

I passed my 11+ while there to go to grammer school but my mother had neither the money or the coupons to get me a uniform and other necessary items to go to that school. it didn't bother me though and when I left school to start work at the age of 14 there was a paper shortage and my leaving certificate was written on a sheet of paper taken from an exercise book.

welbeck Fri 11-Feb-22 21:55:05

apart from the bombing raids, there were also many accounts of civilians being targeted by enemy fighter aeroplanes.

www.quora.com/Did-the-Luftwaffe-ever-attack-civilians-during-the-Battle-of-Britain-My-grandmother-claimed-she-was-strafed-while-putting-out-the-laundry-one-day

Galaxy Fri 11-Feb-22 21:56:53

That it was normal for a teacher to keep a bottle of vodka in their desk drawer shock

Granmarderby10 Fri 11-Feb-22 22:42:44

It all comes flooding back. “Wet” playtime = it is raining so we all have to stay in the classroom + the boys dominated all the good toys like “wooden” Mechano (yes) and left us with a crumpled pile of ancient comics and a mangled lump of smelly khaki green plastercine.

There was a dappled rocking horse that I never got to go on and the bossy boots in the “baby class” hogged the Wendy house and there were 2 playtimes in those days.

Also, stubby dark pencils, exercise books cut in half horizontally (to save money?) fat wax crayons that always went over the line when colouring in, and prayers before school dinners and at the end of the day : this one…
“ Thankyou for the world so sweet/ Thankyou for the food we eat/ Thankyou for the birds that sing/ Thankyou God for everything” before putting our chairs up on the desk to make it easier for the caretaker. ?

rascal Fri 11-Feb-22 23:24:08

I remember we was taught about animals etc in Primary 1 (Scotland). The teacher was very nice and let us pull a cord under the animals neck to hear what sound the animal made. She also could play the piano and we liked singing. I hated school after Primary 1 as all the other teachers were frightening. Further on in school we were taught a poem by Walter de la Mare and I can still remember it. That was nearly seventy years ago. The poem is called Silver by Walter de la Mare:
Slowly silently now the moon
Walks the night in her silver shoon;
This way and that, she peers and sees
Silver fruit upon silver trees;
One by one the casements catch
Her beams beneath the silvery thatch;
Couched in his kennel, like a log,
With paws of silver sleeps the dog;
From their shadowy cote the white breasts peep
Of doves in a silver-feathered sleep;
A harvest mouse goes scampering by,
With silver claws and silver eye;
And moveless fish in the water gleam,
By silver reeds in a silver stream.
This may not be completely correct as it was taught a long time ago. smile

Callistemon21 Fri 11-Feb-22 23:37:40

I'd forgotten that lovely poem until I saw your post, rascal
Yes, I learnt it at school.

I loved The Song of Hiawatha too and his love for Minnehaha.
It's far too long to post here and we didn't learn it by heart, of course.

M0nica Sat 12-Feb-22 08:00:25

welbeck I spent my war years, all 21 months of them in Hither Green, Lewisham. I lived there and started school there, all 3 weeks at my first school was there.

In January 1943, just before I was born, our local primary school was deliberately bombed during a lunch time raid. 36 children were killed and 6 teachers. It is said one of the accompanying fighter planes then flew low over the school and strafed those in the playground. en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bombing_of_Sandhurst_Road_School This reference refers to the location as 'Catford'. That is wrong, it was Hither Green, Lewisham.

My mother said that for the rest of the time we lived there wherever you went, whether standing in a shop, or in a queue, at the doctors, there would always be someone present who was related too or had a close connection with one of those who died.

BlueBelle Sat 12-Feb-22 08:17:10

My only first memory was the frieze around the room with a for apple and a big picture of an apple and we used to recite it together a says aaa for apple b says baa for ball etc etc and also reciting the times tables which I m still good at today not reciting but knowing my multiplication tables I don’t really have any many other memories until I min senior school
We also had a dappled rocking horse grannymardarby and a reading corner and Wendy house but don’t have any recollections if going on or in them

LullyDully Sat 12-Feb-22 08:20:13

I can remember the excitement of learning to read. Kitty sees Rover was boring until I got into real stories, The Three Little Pigs eetcI felt I had arrived. I can remember how I felt. Wow.

LullyDully Sat 12-Feb-22 08:21:05

Sorry etc

Grandmagrim Sat 12-Feb-22 08:44:10

I remember learning about snowflakes and having to fill in the dreaded news book. I remember making Easter baskets out of squared paper and being the only child who didn’t get an egg from Easter bunny, so after school the teacher took me to a shop and bought me a chocolate chick.

Baggs Sat 12-Feb-22 09:08:58

To read and do simple sums.

Not to brrrum my toy car loudly on my desk.

And that, although I might see my older brother at school, I couldn't join him in the playground because my first school had separate playgrounds for boys and girls. Which apparently upset me. Though not for long.

Mamardoit Sat 12-Feb-22 09:46:03

The juniors used to do a show for parents at the end of the summer term. Sir always taught us new songs for the performance. I remember learning a sea shanty which started... Sally Brown she's a bright mulatto (sp?) Way! Hay! a roll and go.
She drinks rum and chews tabacco. Spend my money on Sally Brown.

Not the sort of thing 8 and 9 year olds would sing now.

Mamardoit Sat 12-Feb-22 09:52:33

I've just googled the song to remind me of the other verses. I can't believe we sang something like that to our families and the vicar!

sazz1 Sat 12-Feb-22 10:37:38

My daughter learned about the Titanic at infant school. Caused a lot of problems taking the ferry to France for a holiday. She was terrified. Ok on the ferry coming home thought

Joesoap Sat 12-Feb-22 10:38:19

When I was in kindergarten about five years old, I remember there was a litle "shop" built in the classroom, it was such fun buying and selling, at the same time learning to count.
Those were the days.

Juliet27 Sat 12-Feb-22 10:38:45

I remember learning at the age of 4 that my teacher didn’t have much sympathy for a shy, sensitive child!!

Yearoff Sat 12-Feb-22 10:41:13

My granddaughter has been obsessed with Egypt and Tutankhamen since she was 3. We had been to the museum and the Egyptian exhibit caught her attention. It’s wearing off now she’s 4.5 - more interested in unicorns!

anxiousgran Sat 12-Feb-22 10:42:08

Not about myself, except we were taught how to draw a 5 and an 8 on slates.

DS lives in Norway and a friend’s son’s school has focused on climate change for 2 weeks. It has frightened the young lad (aged 8) to the point he has developed some strange behaviours and now needs counselling.

What a shame for these children having the weight of the world put on their shoulders.

rascal Sat 12-Feb-22 10:42:13

Sorry about the grammatical error in my first sentence! I was mortified when I read it this morning! Obviously a
predictive text error. shock We were taught very well. I remember Parsing. I did like English
even although I hated primary school because of the teachers I got. I even noticed then that the married teachers seemed nice but not the older unmarried ones that had the 'pleasure' of teaching us. I had no married teachers at Primary school. The ones we seemed to get seemed very bitter and it seemed they resented us. hmm
Yes Callistemon21 I liked that poem too. It was trying to memorise all the poetry that was the problem! Also the spelling and the times tables. But looking back I think it was to help exercise our young brains. wink

Blondie49 Sat 12-Feb-22 10:43:42

Maywalk I don’t suppose your g/ children live in N Ireland. Mine actually go to the school named after architect and definitely get to know the history, though don’t know what age ?

LuckyFour Sat 12-Feb-22 10:47:18

In my first year at school I learned to read and enjoy books, although I think I had a head start at home so it all came quickly and easily to me. I was assigned to help another girl in my class (who happened to be the daughter of our next door neighbour). She struggled to read the first 'Old Lob' children's early reading books, but I think I was kind and patient. I don't think she ever made much progress, but I often wonder how she's getting on.

Shinamae Sat 12-Feb-22 10:47:46

Learning to read with the Janet and John books. Nature study with a huge radio must’ve been about 3 foot-2 foot wide!! Going from pen and ink to ballpoint pens……

semperfidelis Sat 12-Feb-22 10:48:44

Young children are interested in all sorts of difficult subjects. When my friend's dog died my granddaughter (5) asked me where he was buried, whether he was sitting up or lying down in the grave and then said that he must have gone on a long adventure! It depends on the child; if they ask difficult questions they are old enough to hear a simplified answer.

Blinko Sat 12-Feb-22 10:49:45

I remember we learned about the departure of the Romans and the subsequent invasions by Angles, Saxons and Jutes. Then Alfred the Great and the Danes and Danelaw, Danegeld. I think I was about eight.

We learned about Norway and Fjords, I remember drawing them from imagination.

I knew my times tables by the time I was seven. I remember reciting them by rote in class.

Quill pens and inkwells. What a mess you could get into with those!

On the whole, I was glad to leave the world of education as soon as I could at age 17. I wanted more control of my life...