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cornergran Sat 12-Mar-22 06:38:17

A neighbour living alone and immobilised after surgery following an accident was told social care could not be provided on discharge as it would be 14 weeks before an assessment could be carried out. As she said being entitled to something does not make it available.

GrannySomerset Fri 11-Mar-22 23:07:26

Unless you are exceptionally lucky you need to organise and pay for care yourself, and even then it’s something of a lucky dip and carers come at the wrong time for the recipient, or are late because too much is expected of them. As far as I have observed, only the seriously well off can afford really good care.

kittylester Fri 11-Mar-22 16:58:48

Not my anecdotal experience either.

welbeck Fri 11-Mar-22 16:52:53

i guess they have to tell themselves that.
certainly not my observed experience.
reminds me of the, lessons will be learnt, mantra.

Iam64 Fri 11-Mar-22 14:06:13

Lucky girl - I’m surprised at the mums et group saying social care is working. I wonder if they’d say that if they were on the receiving end. My experience of social care for elderly friends/ relatives has been you need to know the system inside out to get it to work . We’ve helped friends get essential care packages they’d been refused

The same goes for children and families . That’s made worse by lack of experienced good quality social workers

Luckygirl3 Fri 11-Mar-22 12:57:02

I have been on a thread on Mumsnet where care for people on discharge from hospital is under discussion. As many of you will know my experiences getting proper care for my OH 2 years ago was appalling and I spent my time banging my head against a brick wall. It was stressful in the extreme and the quality of care left a great deal to be desired - and I had to fight for it every inch of the way.

There are Social Workers on the Mumsnet thread saying that my experiences were out of the ordinary. And that the system is great - no-one goes home without proper care etc. etc. I am not social worker bashing here (I used to be one!) but I think they are burying their heads in the sand, and the incidences of it not going well are very common.

Any thoughts from your experience. Was I just unlucky?