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Portmeanne Sun 17-Apr-22 12:35:49

My siblings never consider mum ( 96yrs ) who lives alone during holiday time.
I am not well so unable to visit her this weekend as planned.
Not one of them seems to consider changing their plans so she has some company.
Any suggestions about how to discuss future such holidays ?

Elizabeth27 Sun 17-Apr-22 12:49:53

If they do not want to be with her willingly it would be an unhappy visit for all, maybe they do not have the relationship with her that you do.

LOUISA1523 Sun 17-Apr-22 16:46:56

I doubt your Mum would want them visiting if they didn't want to....I would rather be on my own than visited by people who have been talked into visiting but didn't really want to