I’m so upset

So sorry but hope the labour and birth goes well and you feel better soon

Hopefully you can Skype or Face time soon after the baby is born, so you won’t feel too left out, I expect your daughter will miss you too!
Hope all goes well?

Ooh there's a lot of emotional baggage wrapped up in this event for you Grannyflower, no wonder it's hit you hard ?
Hopefully your husband and daughter will keep you up to date with photos and calls and you'll be able to join everyone soon.
Best wishes to all of you ?

Germanshepherdsmum

Sorry but I don’t understand why you can’t be there, presumably if everyone had covid three weeks ago they are all ok now?
Btw is a PE a previous engagement? What can be so important that you miss your child’s graduation?

I took PE to mean a pulmonary embolism!

It's easy to say, but try not to be too down, Grannyflower; this is just a moment in time, and it sounds as if you have a close and loving family that will pull together and help each other right now - that is such a blessing.
It does sound as if life has dealt you some harsh cards over time, but you are still here, and able to enjoy the new arrival as soon as you test negative. Keep that chin up; it's hardly surprising that you feel sorry for yourself, and you are allowed that, but not for too long! There is much happiness waiting ahead for you , and I hope you feel better soon. x

Enjoy your new grandchild. All this will be forgotten when you hold the baby in your arms.
Get well from covid soon. ?

Get well soon, Grannyflower. Being unwell has probably made your reaction to your upset plans much worse. Once you get a cuddle with the new baby it will all be fine.
To put it into perspective, I have had to wait almost 2 years to meet the grandson whose birth I should have attended, in Australia. I am finally here in Oz, and catching up on all the lost time with him, and my 5 year old GD. Unfortunately, after booking my flights, my UK granddaughter's graduation was re-scheduled for the time I was going to be out of England. It had been cancelled twice, and now I have missed attending it.
Life is full of uncertainties, and fretting about them only makes things seem much worse. I always say, "One day we will look back and laugh about it all."

How rude German Shepherd !

GreenGran how lovely you are finally in Australia! I too have family out there but things weren’t quite right for me to make that trip again. Enjoy every moment!

You poor thing. Covid has been such a disruptive time for everyone’s plans. I hope you are feeling ok and not too ill.
Once you have recovered you’ll have such a wonderful time with your grandchildren. Maybe your husband will have some precious time of his own with your grandchildren which otherwise he may not have had. Between the two of you your daughter is wonderfully supported. Well done both grandparents and massive congratulations to you all!

Sending a huge hug, Grannyflower. Of course you're upset, I would be, too. Hopefully, a safe delivery and many happy future times looking after your granddaughter and new grandson will make up for the sad feelings now. Wishing you good health. X

You poor dear! I'm afraid this awful virus is no respecter of plans, even ones that mean a lot to you. I join others in saying you will be able to meet your new grandson soon and often in his life. He will love you just the same.

Daisydaisydaisy

How rude German Shepherd !

Clearly you haven’t read all the posts and thus missed my apology when OP explained. Always a good idea to read everything before wading in.

How upsetting - and annoying that you didn't catch Covid when the others did but have got it now. I hope you don't feel too poorly and can see your new grandson soon Grannyflower.

The main thing is that Mum and baby are both well and you can see them soon.

PE. pulmonary embolism can be fatal

I have a PE, Pulmonary embolism. ie a clot in my right lung.

Grannyflower you feel you are missing out on an important occasion and the arrival of a GC is important. What is even more important is you and your health. You are being safe and protecting others too. You have happy times to look forward to when you meet your grandson. Congratulations and hope all goes well for everyone.

Some folk open their mouth without thinking!

I know it isn't much comfort but the latest strain of Covid appears to be very mild for most. It was all over in 10 days for us; we have only just tested negative. However, my son was getting negatives within 5 days so, if you have tests, keep testing.

I'm sorry you're not able to be there for your daughter. Such a shame.
But I think we all know plans may not happen now. It's a way of life really atm.
Bring ill is probably making you feel worse. Your daughter will be OK. Try to look forward to when you will see her and new baby. And enjoy the photos/videos which I'm sure you'll get.

jennil23

Surely if you had Covid 3 weeks ago they should all have recovered and you will be allowed to be there to help with your GD ?
Try ringing 111 for advice - There may be no reason why you can't be there for them.
You can't help being ill at important times, not as if you planned it, is it?

One day nearer to seeing the new baby and your daughter. Look after yourself as much as possible because you will be very busy when you are able to help ! I am sorry your plans were dashed. Get well soon. x

Oh no I’m sorry ?
Best you look after yourself and rest up and get well. Your daughter will appreciate some baby sitting for the next 12 years or so, so you’ll be able to help soon X

Hope you aren't feeling bad with dreaded Covid and get plenty of rest because I'm sure you will be in great demand for plenty of Nanny cuddles very soon.

Grannyflower, my best wishes to you. Hope Covid is mild.
Get the knitting needles, crochet pin or sewing machine our and make the baby and your granddaughter something even matching beanie hats. Cuddle time will come. Let us know when baby arrives.