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Synonyms for ‘Fat’ that aren’t Cringeworthy…?

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FannyCornforth Thu 12-May-22 09:55:39

Hello! smile
I am fat.

But I do not like saying ‘I am fat’.

But neither do I like ‘curvaceous’ (probably the best of a bad bunch); ‘cuddly’ (bleugh); ‘curvalicious’ (give me strength); or the word de joure ‘thick’ (confused)

Can you think of any acceptable, non-cringe words for not being slender? Because I can’t

Thank you!

MissAdventure Thu 12-May-22 14:42:29

I find it attractive to see people who look well nourished and err.. sturdy (!) for want of a better word.

FannyCornforth Thu 12-May-22 14:31:23

MissAdventure

Womanly, I would say.
I'm a firm believer that this is how a grown female should look.

Thank you thanksbrew

GrannyGravy13 Thu 12-May-22 14:24:26

One of my GC told me I am more cuddly than when they were younger blush

Maggiemaybe Thu 12-May-22 14:19:02

DGS2 described me as a bit chunky the other day. Chunky!! I can’t say I was thrilled, especially as I don’t think I am. Perhaps I’m deluded. smile

MissAdventure Thu 12-May-22 14:11:06

Womanly, I would say.
I'm a firm believer that this is how a grown female should look.

FannyCornforth Thu 12-May-22 14:06:11

MissAdventure

Broad?

I am broad. Even when I was super slim (7 stone - I reckon I’m double that now)
Big shoulders and hips

MissAdventure Thu 12-May-22 14:05:26

grin

FannyCornforth Thu 12-May-22 14:04:59

Chrissyoh

Big boned ? ?

Oh no! I’m not a giantess!

MissAdventure Thu 12-May-22 14:04:01

Broad?

Chrissyoh Thu 12-May-22 14:03:11

Big boned ? ?

FannyCornforth Thu 12-May-22 12:49:23

I don’t particularly like Rubenesque as the women he painted looked very flabby, and a strange colour (a bit grey).
Degasesque is better. He painted nicely rounded, voluptuous women
Ditto Renoir.

Jane43 Thu 12-May-22 12:47:21

Bonny was a word people used when I was growing up and my friend’s mother used to say somebody ‘looked well’ if they had put on weight.

Jane43 Thu 12-May-22 12:45:31

henetha

We don't hear much of the word 'plump' these days, do we.

Plump was the word my friend used to use.

Blossoming Thu 12-May-22 12:45:02

Embonpoint doesn’t purely refer to the bosom, though it’s usually used for that nowadays. It originally meant plump and attractive, I think it still should smile

Nannagarra Thu 12-May-22 12:42:53

I agree with voluptuous but not plump sodapop.
Another word I haven’t heard for quite some time is ‘ample’.
I wonder if women pay more attention to those who have figures like Twiggy and men to those Rubens painted, or should I keep this one to myself?
?

Blondiescot Thu 12-May-22 12:40:41

I was once described as the 'wee stout lassie'...

Mollygo Thu 12-May-22 12:39:44

Voluptuous-entitled to wear whatever makes you feel good.
Traditionally built-I like that.

MissAdventure Thu 12-May-22 12:38:23

A colleague, originally from Zimbabwe told me "Oh, how lovely to see you again, and look how big and fat you've got!"

Mapleleaf Thu 12-May-22 12:37:06

I dislike the word “skinny” as well.
It’s a minefield though, when aiming to be careful how we phrase something in order to avoid offending - and this covers many other things as well as weight.
The fact remains there are people who are underweight, slim or overweight, but it’s how we say it without causing offence which is so hard.

Marydoll Thu 12-May-22 12:36:55

Voluptuous for me. Plump makes me think of elasticated, polyester, floral skirts, worn to accomodate the plumpness. wink.

GagaJo Thu 12-May-22 12:36:35

I'm just fat. It's just an adjective.

sodapop Thu 12-May-22 12:33:39

So far for me the winners are - plump and voluptuous. They conjure up good images for me.

Blondiescot Thu 12-May-22 12:30:27

I used to have a Garfield t-shirt which said 'I'm not overweight, I'm under tall' which pretty much sums me up!

JenniferEccles Thu 12-May-22 12:29:47

How about well upholstered?!!

MissAdventure Thu 12-May-22 12:29:06

I loved the number 1 ladies detective agency, and the traditionally built woman. smile