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Synonyms for ‘Fat’ that aren’t Cringeworthy…?

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FannyCornforth Thu 12-May-22 09:55:39

Hello! smile
I am fat.

But I do not like saying ‘I am fat’.

But neither do I like ‘curvaceous’ (probably the best of a bad bunch); ‘cuddly’ (bleugh); ‘curvalicious’ (give me strength); or the word de joure ‘thick’ (confused)

Can you think of any acceptable, non-cringe words for not being slender? Because I can’t

Thank you!

Skydancer Thu 12-May-22 12:28:55

I was once described as well rounded.

Marydoll Thu 12-May-22 12:27:41

Grandmabatty

I think that society is conditioned to think skinny/slim is the best way to look. It isn't helped by cadaverous models and actresses. Therefore the words associated with being rounder usually have negative connotations. I know about health benefits in being slim etc but that doesn't help women who aren't slim and who don't have a positive self image.

I totally agree, GB.

I used to be a size ten and now due to my comorbidities, medications and mobility, I am FAT.
However, even at a size ten, I had a generous bust and my doctor friend told me years later, that at university, I was described as the 8th engineering wonder of the world. My friends could never work out, why I didn't fall over! grin

Nannagarra Thu 12-May-22 12:25:12

Thinking of old-fashioned terms, do you remember ‘buxom’ (having a full figure and large breasts) or even worse ‘dumpy’ (short and stout)?
A friend of mine liked her husband to refer to her as ‘voluptuous’ as it suggested she was curvaceous and sexually attractive.

Germanshepherdsmum Thu 12-May-22 12:22:18

Wasn’t Mma Ramotswe in the No 1 Ladies’ Detective Agency ‘traditionally built’? I remember that in one of the books (you can see how highbrow some of my reading is) a gentleman complimented her by saying how fat she was looking. Perhaps moving to Botswana is easier than dieting. I’ll think about it.

FannyCornforth Thu 12-May-22 12:19:41

Well upholstered…
I do feel like a rather comfortable small sofa, actually .
In a flock fabric.
One with antimacassars, fringing, and little gold feet

AGAA4 Thu 12-May-22 12:18:26

My mum was always overweight. My dad referred to her as bonny. Much nicer than fat.

SachaMac Thu 12-May-22 12:10:33

Pudgy is quite nice or what about amply covered.

Daddima Thu 12-May-22 12:02:51

I am fat.

My mother used to tell of getting a new fitted coat ( she described it as * politically VERY incorrect * brown) when she was about 15, and her mum’s pal said to granny, ‘ My, Sarah, she’s a braw, braw lassie’ My mother’s joy was shortlived when she followed it up with, ‘ She’s just hingin’ in fat’.

toscalily Thu 12-May-22 12:00:51

With a well proportioned upper storey!

Lucca Thu 12-May-22 11:58:47

Blossoming

Embonpoint?

Well built, traditionally built, generously proportioned and the like make me think of bungalows grin

Your embonpoint refers to your boobs. I remember my dear Dad when I told him I was pregnant saying he rather thought so as I had more embonpoint than usual!

FannyCornforth Thu 12-May-22 11:55:55

Brilliant Ailidh!

FannyCornforth Thu 12-May-22 11:55:12

Blossoming

Embonpoint?

Well built, traditionally built, generously proportioned and the like make me think of bungalows grin

Characterful, with a double aspect.
Needs some work smile

Ailidh Thu 12-May-22 11:54:31

FannyCornforth

Statuesque is absolutely beautiful.
Like pre Raphaelite beauties (or ‘stunners’ - another bleurgh)

I have the girth to be statuesque but, sadly, the height to be diminutive.

Galaxy Thu 12-May-22 11:54:24

She can probably spell as well grin

Galaxy Thu 12-May-22 11:52:54

I just say I am overweight, its true. I have always thought of Kirsty Allsopp as wuite glamorous.

Blossoming Thu 12-May-22 11:49:01

Embonpoint?

Well built, traditionally built, generously proportioned and the like make me think of bungalows grin

Yammy Thu 12-May-22 11:42:15

I like statuesque I'll go with that.
After being married for nearly 50 years fatty and thiny have swapped over in our house.
The no figure long-haired female has gone and so has the stocky/chunky rugby player. When these terms are used about men they are acceptable.
My favourite is my GD description "Your like a big cuddly duvet gran".
What irritates me is when people say all women turn into their mothers both in figure and personality,unfortunately I have and they never say it about men. smile

Lucca Thu 12-May-22 11:37:29

giulia

The Italians say it best. Here, they use the English word "curvy", which is really nice. There is a whole breed of "curvy" models who are proud of their category.

Che parola usano ?? Cicciotto ?

toscalily Thu 12-May-22 11:35:49

Meant to say couldn't

FannyCornforth Thu 12-May-22 11:35:30

I’ve just remembered that a friend of mine, who is very large, says of herself, ‘there’s a lot of me’

Lucca Thu 12-May-22 11:34:31

Germanshepherdsmum

Reubenesque?

Damn. Beat me to it !

toscalily Thu 12-May-22 11:34:28

I don't think the term "plus" is very complimentary or kind. I think the term Petite is nicer than short so why could the fashion industry come up with something better.

FannyCornforth Thu 12-May-22 11:33:56

Vintagejazz

Funny I always pictured you as tall with plaits Fanny. I have no idea why.

Thank you! I think that I do too!

MissAdventure Thu 12-May-22 11:33:27

I always think of men if the term "well endowed" is used.

giulia Thu 12-May-22 11:33:24

The Italians say it best. Here, they use the English word "curvy", which is really nice. There is a whole breed of "curvy" models who are proud of their category.