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Synonyms for ‘Fat’ that aren’t Cringeworthy…?

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FannyCornforth Thu 12-May-22 09:55:39

Hello! smile
I am fat.

But I do not like saying ‘I am fat’.

But neither do I like ‘curvaceous’ (probably the best of a bad bunch); ‘cuddly’ (bleugh); ‘curvalicious’ (give me strength); or the word de joure ‘thick’ (confused)

Can you think of any acceptable, non-cringe words for not being slender? Because I can’t

Thank you!

CanadianGran Fri 13-May-22 22:39:36

A co-worker describes herself as cushy, which I think is nice.

HettyBetty Fri 13-May-22 21:58:21

A friend of mine was a bit disconcerted when giving her grandson a first cuddle after lockdown. "Grandma, you've gone all squishy."

My mother would use the term broad in the beam.

Mere1 Fri 13-May-22 21:01:25

Podgy.
Chubby.
Bonnie

BoadiceaJones Fri 13-May-22 20:50:04

My obese DM described herself as "magnificent". She had thighs like ponga stumps. "Junoesque" is good, "carrying extra avoirdupois" is kinda neutral. I'll "plump" for "bonny". Maupassant's heroine Boule de Suif (suet ball) is seen as extraordinarily sexy...those were the days, eh.

Bluemini62 Fri 13-May-22 20:29:55

I was called pleasantly plump once !

sunglow12 Fri 13-May-22 20:17:11

I heard someone once describe themselves as voluptuous and once overheard a shop assistant describe me as “that tubby lady over there”

faye17 Fri 13-May-22 20:09:47

'Well-covered' was my Mother's lovely description

Fiona44 Fri 13-May-22 20:06:10

Abbondante (abundant, plentiful) is used here in Italy, in an approving way. Bit like voluptuous.

Grammaretto Fri 13-May-22 19:49:21

I have a big head!
Seriously, I wanted to buy a summer hat after an operation for skin cancer on my face and tried the high street shops. I was told they come in one size only.
How ridiculous is that!
Shoes don't come in one size only.
I found a hat eventually in an outdoor shop which came in various sizes.

rugbymumcumbria Fri 13-May-22 19:40:21

My Mum always said she was ‘Well Upholstered’.
I am too.

FannyCornforth Fri 13-May-22 19:39:39

I can’t find Design100’s post.
But I definitely didn’t mean to say that KA is ‘too large’; or myself for that matter.
I was using Kirstie as an example.
I think that she looks great.
And to be honest, I think that I look great too, if a little ‘matronly’ smile

pinkjj27 Fri 13-May-22 19:36:51

Do you need a label ? Why not just say I have chosen these dresses as they flatter my shape. Or I feel these dresses work well for my size or figure.
Surely the thread is about the dresses and that is what readers should be interested in and focusing on not how big or small you might be.

Callistemon21 Fri 13-May-22 19:22:16

Design100

I ve always thought Kirsty large too
t b h. So understand what you meant.

Kirsty is buxom.

Callistemon21 Fri 13-May-22 19:21:44

Interestingly (or not!) I have some tops which are labelled Medium for USA and UK but are Large in France!

varian Fri 13-May-22 19:15:32

The last time I bought a dress, I was desperate to find something to were to a wedding.

When the assistant in Laura Ashley asked me what size I was I said "as big as you've got - gigantic - enormous" which she seemed to think was quite funny but they only go up to a size 18, which by some miracle I managed to fit into.

elleks Fri 13-May-22 19:11:15

I saw a great bookmark once-it had a teddy bear on it, and it said "I'm not far, I'm fluffy".

Ukcarolm Fri 13-May-22 19:06:41

You can just say I've been over blessed! That's what I say when describing my bra size! lol

Design100 Fri 13-May-22 18:58:08

I ve always thought Kirsty large too
t b h. So understand what you meant.

GrammyGrammy Fri 13-May-22 18:54:17

Why would I want to give acceptability to being obese, lardy, porky, chubby-chops, overweight, massive etc?
Look what doing so has created. Acceptance and Encouragement of being obese has created a whole generation of Bessie Bunters before they even get out of their teens.

win Fri 13-May-22 18:51:08

My OH suggests buxom I quite like that

win Fri 13-May-22 18:49:54

How about having an ample figure?

win Fri 13-May-22 18:48:42

Full figured gets my vote, I don’t mind plumpish either

annodomini Fri 13-May-22 18:26:05

I'll stick with 'cuddly' as my DGC seem to appreciate me as I am.

Jaxjacky Fri 13-May-22 18:21:47

Fair fa’ your honest, sonsie face.. OldEnough2noBetter

Taichinan Fri 13-May-22 18:17:48

How about 'a bit on the large size? Or well endowed? If you're anything like Kirsty Allsop you'll do though - I think she's lovely. And she has a WAIST!!