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Synonyms for ‘Fat’ that aren’t Cringeworthy…?

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FannyCornforth Thu 12-May-22 09:55:39

Hello! smile
I am fat.

But I do not like saying ‘I am fat’.

But neither do I like ‘curvaceous’ (probably the best of a bad bunch); ‘cuddly’ (bleugh); ‘curvalicious’ (give me strength); or the word de joure ‘thick’ (confused)

Can you think of any acceptable, non-cringe words for not being slender? Because I can’t

Thank you!

FannyCornforth Fri 13-May-22 10:53:41

I think full figured is still in the lead.
I do like voluptuous - but if you are describing yourself, you sound like you are showing off in a Nigella style way. And mad

MissAdventure Fri 13-May-22 09:31:52

Full figured.
Thicc..

FannyCornforth Fri 13-May-22 09:12:45

He certainly did varian, and I think that ‘traditionally built’ definitely has a touch of the Wodehouses.
I sure AMcCS is a fan

varian Fri 13-May-22 09:04:44

Did Alexander McCall Smith not describe
his lady detective, Precious Mbotswe, as "traditionally built"?

snowberryZ Fri 13-May-22 08:54:05

My great grandmother used to describe fat women as being Big Boned.

grannyactivist Fri 13-May-22 08:53:12

Right now I have clothes in my wardrobe that I wear day to day that range from size 16-20, so quoting a size may not be as helpful as you’d think.

I once surprised a man by making a very pertinent comment about a subject that he assumed I would have no knowledge of. My response was that to tell him that I wasn’t just well-rounded physically. (I’m shaped like a weeble right now, but the inches are slowly coming off.)

snowberryZ Fri 13-May-22 08:52:47

MissAdventure

Cuddly? Nah..
Built for comfort, not speed? Nah...

Bonny seems a nice descriptive word.

But not all fat people are bonny.
Neither are a lot of slim people.
So that wouldn't work.

FannyCornforth Fri 13-May-22 08:36:40

Indeed = intended hmm

FannyCornforth Fri 13-May-22 08:36:12

These are great! Probably not in the way I indeed, though!
‘Matronly’grin

What is that quote about Queen Mary I think, something about a ship at full mast ‘sallying forth’…?
Or is it Wodehouse? He will have some fabulous descriptions of the famous Wooster aunts.

Riverwalk re the thin lady buying a size 20.
I’ve always bought a lot things in a much larger size - I like them to hang and droop (there was another thread about this not so long ago).
When I was a size 8 I would buy jumpers and t shirts in a 16 say.

However, I’m definitely running out of sizes now! Many shops I like don’t even sell the size I want.

The advice to just say your dress size isn’t helpful, especially when many people seem to think anything over a size 16 equals ‘fat’.

I’m probably a size 20/22 but would prefer clothes in a 24.
Seasalt size 22 is perfect.
I can no longer buy dresses from Weird Fish, and I’m ‘just about managing’ with Boden.

Thanks all.
Keep ‘em coming smile

downtoearth Fri 13-May-22 08:21:09

Maybe nicely rounded ?

downtoearth Fri 13-May-22 08:20:17

Broad across the beam,by my grandmother who was also broad,as she described herself.

Daddima Thu 12-May-22 20:49:33

varian

Does "comely" not conjure up an image of a lovely curvy woman?

To me, ‘comely’ must always be teamed with ‘wench’!

Daftbag1 Thu 12-May-22 19:36:09

My grandson described me as 'soft', it was in the context of a description of why he loves Grandma, and he write ' I love my grandma because she is all soft when she gives me a cuddle'.

I'm fat and unashamed!

Katie59 Thu 12-May-22 19:34:48

I’m cuddly and proud of it, most of all OH just loves it.
I still wish I could loose some but I’m happy and healthy.

MissAdventure Thu 12-May-22 19:25:14

Buxom? Is that just for large bosoms?

Grammaretto Thu 12-May-22 19:18:12

I quite like comely, too.
Chubby?
I used to call toddlers chubby - if they were.
As I said, I was surprised the friend chose the larger size Riverwalk but it looked fine . I guess she could always take it in if too large but squeezing into a size too small is no fun.

varian Thu 12-May-22 19:10:02

My Mum, who had a sweet tooth but never put on weight no matter how much she ate, described someone she knew as "easier to jump over than walk round"

I know, it's hardly flattering.

MissAdventure Thu 12-May-22 19:09:12

Oh yes.
smile

varian Thu 12-May-22 19:07:40

Does "comely" not conjure up an image of a lovely curvy woman?

sodapop Thu 12-May-22 19:03:42

I like plumptious AuntieFlo sounds like a very jolly person.

downtoearth Thu 12-May-22 18:47:54

gringrin

MissAdventure Thu 12-May-22 18:37:09

I think you can only say the word "matronly" if you do it in a Kenneth Williams voice.

Riverwalk Thu 12-May-22 18:32:53

Gawd, not matronly - it's on a par with stout!

As for portly, I think of that for short fat men.

downtoearth Thu 12-May-22 18:29:34

Chubby ?
Or pleasantly plump
Matronly

LtEve Thu 12-May-22 18:25:15

I use well upholstered for myself.