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Things you think can make you look older than your years!

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Audi10 Mon 23-May-22 13:17:30

While having a discussion with two friends this subject came up! They were saying the way some people dress can look a bit matronly! I was saying but it’s not all about dress sense I think having a positive attitude and a smile makes you appear happier so therefore younger, it’s not always about how a person dresses! What do you gransnetters think!

Callistemon21 Mon 23-May-22 16:44:37

PeptoBismol Pink

I had to look that up.
Who could think that could soothe your stomach? shock

Callistemon21 Mon 23-May-22 16:45:57

Nell8

Going to the pub wearing a twinset and pearls then ordering a port and lemon

I was given a twin set when I was about 19 - it was lovely!!

MawtheMerrier Mon 23-May-22 16:46:11

Pleated skirts which have ridden up slightly at the back, pastel fleece jackets or raincoats, tight perms, tight sour expressions as they tut tut at the youth of today.

NotSpaghetti Mon 23-May-22 16:47:59

I don't actually care what anyone wears to be honest so sorry for the "old lady" colours- but the original post was looking for things that age us!

Cherrytree59 Mon 23-May-22 16:51:38

I try to avoid hair nets and Norah Batty tights .

HowVeryDareYou Mon 23-May-22 16:54:00

*MissAdventure *Those fleeces with pictures of wolves/cats/dogs grin. My neighbour and her husband wear matching ones.

Nell8 Mon 23-May-22 16:57:07

Callistemon Hmmm ... yes, I guess twinsets can look lovely on youngsters ... thinking of Country Life. I never managed to carry them off. Stuffing wads of paper hankies up the sleeves probably didn't help.

Nanna58 Mon 23-May-22 16:57:30

That reminds me of Howard and Hilda in Ever Decreasing Circles!

Callistemon21 Mon 23-May-22 16:59:01

Nanna58

That reminds me of Howard and Hilda in Ever Decreasing Circles!

We sometimes end up matching without intending to ?

ixion Mon 23-May-22 17:06:22

Marydoll

Callistemon21

ixion

And there was me thinking of attending a Gransnet meet up?
Maybe not, after all?

???

You would be fine and very welcome at the Glesca Grannies meet, Ixion. We are only there for a blether, it doesn't matter what you wear.

But Marydoll, even if I were to brave it, I would look like the village idiot (?Can I say that these days??), 'cos I wouldn't have a clue what you were saying - judging by your Meet Up invitation...
Do you have some sort of lexicon, or even a little phrase book you could recommend, perchance?

Marydoll Mon 23-May-22 17:07:21

Baggy, wide legged, cropped, trousers, with varicose veins or permanently bruised ankles on show. Not a pretty look, I should know!
Thank goodness, I saw the light! wink

Marydoll Mon 23-May-22 17:09:36

Ixion, we actually speak Queen's English at the meet ups! wink Anyway, there would always be a translator present. We are very accommodating. ?

Callistemon21 Mon 23-May-22 17:12:09

SO!!

What should we be wearing when we venture outside to face our critical public?

?

(Bearing in mind I'm getting on a bit, need new knees, need to lose a couple of pounds etc)

ixion Mon 23-May-22 17:13:51

You can't go wrong in a nice pleated skirt like this, ixion

I did wonder about looking out my House of Bruar catalogue, Callistemon but I guess it might be considered cultural appropriation.

And they look like a bunch I would not like to meet on a dark night upset readily?

DanniRae Mon 23-May-22 17:20:13

I was chatting to a fellow - lady - dog walker in the park recently, reminiscing about the outfit my mum made for me for Coronation Day and she said "Wow you don't look old enough to have been alive then!" That made me very happy and I was wearing my baggy, pull on trousers, tatty t shirt and hoodie. No makeup (I never wear makeup) and half grown out grey /dyed brown hair. So wear what you like ladies, be cheerful and pleasant and my most important advice be comfortable! smile

DanniRae Mon 23-May-22 17:21:58

BTW I am 74 in a few weeks time wink

Callistemon21 Mon 23-May-22 17:22:10

Other firms and retailers available!

All dressed in similar fashion, long boots not compulsory

MissAdventure Mon 23-May-22 17:23:12

I think comfort is one of the best ways of looking relaxed, stress free, and perhaps a tad younger?

Callistemon21 Mon 23-May-22 17:24:25

And they look like a bunch I would not like to meet on a dark night upset readily ?

Did you mean the House of B models or the Glesca Grannies, ixion? wink

Maggiemaybe Mon 23-May-22 17:28:48

I’d have said pastel fleeces till I saw Weird Fish were selling them. I dusted off one that had been hidden away for a decade (or two) and it was admired by my very stylish DD. Result!

luluaugust Mon 23-May-22 17:41:55

I think my problem is that at 74 clothes can just look different on me. For instance my DD and DIL came to see me yesterday, they both had this years dresses, long, floaty, short sleeves etc. They looked lovely but I just can't see me in them however fashionable, for a start they have waists.

Maggiemaybe Mon 23-May-22 17:44:09

This is true, luluaugust. My DDs look adorable in massive prairie dresses. I’d look as if I’d escaped from somewhere and should be gently escorted back.

snowberryZ Mon 23-May-22 17:55:17

MissAdventure

I love pink.
It'll never be out for me, even though I'm wearing "pile of porridge" grey today.

I love pink as well. Some shades of pink are really flattering on older skin tones.

Callistemon21 Mon 23-May-22 18:02:29

I like a cerise pink.

M0nica Mon 23-May-22 18:02:49

'sensible' shoes, in black leather (or effect), black looser fit trousers with tunic tops. haircuts without any style.

My aim is to age well, I am not bothered whether that means I look older or younger than I am.