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Latchkey kids - were you ever one?

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nanna8 Sat 28-May-22 13:10:26

My mum wouldn’t give me a key so I had to wait in the garden shed in the cold until she got home - usually an hour or so. Eventually I did get one but not until I was about 14. Hard times, kids don’t know they’re born these days. I wouldn’t have dreamed of doing that to my children.

Mollygo Sat 28-May-22 13:08:50

Not all the time. Dad was in the Navy and Mum was a nurse so latchkey days were intermittent. Always jobs like food prep or collecting in washing for me to do. Not for elder brother!!!

MissAdventure Sat 28-May-22 13:06:04

No, I had a stay at home mum, but I used to yearn for a time when I could be more independent.

I did like the smoke curling out of the chimney, my slippers warming on the hearth, and the smell of a casserole when I got in on a winter's day, though.

buffyfly9 Sat 28-May-22 13:03:53

Apologies, I've posted in the wrong place. It should have been on the post about Helen Mirrenblush

buffyfly9 Sat 28-May-22 13:02:39

What on earth is she thinking of?? I hardly recognised her as she is usually very elegant. I wonder if her husband told her that it was not a good look!!

Grandmabatty Sat 28-May-22 13:01:53

Yes I was but probably when I was at high school not primary. I had chores to do such as peeling potatoes for dinner.

Sparklefizz Sat 28-May-22 13:01:29

I was a latchkey kid from the age of 7. I was always very nervous being in the house on my own.

GagaJo Sat 28-May-22 12:58:56

I was one. We had a key hung from a hook inside the letterbox. Which occasionally failed when I dropped it inside the door and would be locked out until 6.30pm. Not a problem in summer, but winter...

biglouis Sat 28-May-22 12:56:38

This was a phrase used back in the late 1950s/1960s to described very young children (some as young as 8/9) who had a door key hung around their necks and came home from school to let themselves into an empty house.

I was a "latchkey" kid from the age of 12 as my mother worked pat time at Vernon's Pools until 5pm. I had to come straight home, wash any dishes, set the table, and prepare the vegatables ready for when my mother got homs. Later I had to also put them on the stove and light the gas.

I was not allowed to stay on at school for choir or drama practice as my father considered those "sissy". However when I mentioned "sports" practice he relented because sport (even if it wasnt football) was good. My parents never found out that I wasnt staying for netball or hockey. I HATED sport with a passion and was never good enough to be in any team.

Later I had a young sister who had to be let into the house when she got in from school. Fortunately there was an aunt nearby where she stayed on my "sports" evenings.

I never really minded being a latch key kid as it gave me a feeling of responsibility.