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What do you think will go with us older generations?

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VioletSky Tue 31-May-22 19:28:30

I think:

Printed newpapers

Landline phones

DanniRae Tue 14-Jun-22 12:30:26

Mr R still uses cotton hankies. Well I'll wash them for him but I won't iron them!

Mollygo Tue 14-Jun-22 11:10:29

DH persists in using them, though a box of tissues is always on hand. Many opportunities for discussion about the environment- reusable v disposable, hot water for washing or paper usage.

Bellanonna Tue 14-Jun-22 10:03:12

Cotton handkerchiefs (or have they gone already?). I no longer have any.

Shel69 Mon 13-Jun-22 16:58:58

I agree ,landlines

Mollygo Thu 09-Jun-22 11:39:11

Miserable for you if your mum doesn’t like what you give her. I’ve had similar experiences with ‘the wrong brand/perfume/size’ with my mum. Lockdown was more successful as I could ask my sister who lives near Mum to get whatever had been asked for and give it from me. My lovely sister never ever bought the wrong brand, even if it was exactly what I’d asked her to buy, so everyone was happy. If fuel prices keep rising, meaning we cut down on long distance I might continue doing that.

Doodledog Thu 09-Jun-22 11:06:54

Mollygo

And the cost of electricity to charge your devices and send e-cards. Do you think celebrating festivals will go in our time?

No, but I think the importance some attach to cards and gifts will die off. My children don't want 'stuff', and nor do I really. I would rather have a cake or a night out.

Doing something that marks the occasion is one thing, but sending a card with someone else's words in it, and buying a gift that the recipient doesn't really want probably will die off. I can't remember the last time I bought a present for my mother that she liked (and she makes if very clear that I've got it wrong). It's stressful for me, clearly disappointing for her, yet she'd be hurt if I missed Mother's Day, Christmas or her birthday. To be honest I think that's because she likes to show her friends how many cards and presents she gets from her children, grandchildren and great grandchildren, rather than because she wants a gift.

She regifts all the presents, seemingly regardless of whether the new recipient will like them, so the whole process is a waste of time and money, and it's hurtful. (I do ask her what she'd like, but she always says she has everything she wants, which is true).

Mollygo Thu 09-Jun-22 09:28:27

And the cost of electricity to charge your devices and send e-cards. Do you think celebrating festivals will go in our time?

Doodledog Thu 09-Jun-22 08:41:43

Yes, that, too!

Bellanonna Thu 09-Jun-22 08:18:53

And the cost of postage , Doodledog!

Doodledog Thu 09-Jun-22 07:51:09

Bellanonna

Cmas cards

Oh, the sooner the better! All the angst, and measuring one’s popularity with bits of overpriced cardboard can’t stop soon enough for me.

Bellanonna Tue 07-Jun-22 17:27:45

Cmas cards

Sipti1983 Tue 07-Jun-22 14:55:46

Budgeting

biglouis Mon 06-Jun-22 23:06:16

Ive also found that many people cannot hold a conversation which is an exchange by two parties. It goes around in circles as if you were talking to a tape recorder. You explain something and people dont have the patience to listen or respond. Many folks nowadays have very short attention spans. Then they whinge because "nobody told me".

You get this a lot on forums. People with what I call a grasshopper mentality. Instead of replying to the posting they decontextualise a word or phrase and twist the thread to suit their agenda.

Callistemon21 Mon 06-Jun-22 23:01:18

Germanshepherdsmum

Very true! Mercifully, most men of my son’s generation iron their own. His wife is very fortunate there!

DH had to teach me how to iron a shirt ?
I was not allowed near my DF's or DBs' shirts with an iron.

Germanshepherdsmum Mon 06-Jun-22 22:50:59

Very true! Mercifully, most men of my son’s generation iron their own. His wife is very fortunate there!

Callistemon21 Mon 06-Jun-22 22:41:57

Germanshepherdsmum

Try working in the City without a suit and polished shoes! The tie may be in the drawer for meetings though.

And a well-ironed shirt ?

Germanshepherdsmum Mon 06-Jun-22 22:38:26

Try working in the City without a suit and polished shoes! The tie may be in the drawer for meetings though.

watermeadow Mon 06-Jun-22 20:14:42

Ironing has already gone for most people along with men’s ties, polishable shoes and suits.
I wish bras would go the way of corsets.
General knowledge is disappearing - who needs to know all that when you can find the answer instantly on your phone?

Reggie20 Mon 06-Jun-22 13:24:03

I don't suppose 'tech' will disappear now.. I'm fine with my PC but do NOT want to change to a smartphone.. I just don't! I'm fed up with having to learn new things. I didn't want a 'smart' tv when my old one broke down, but guess what? The 'non-smart' ones cost more money.
My sister was in tears when she had to figure out how to sign a property document she recieved on her smartphone. I rang the solicitors & said I would go into their office & sign with a real pen & form. Easy peasy!

I'd like to keep my proper train tickets too.

Things I will regret losing.. dialects. Love them. My Yorkshire grandad spoke of meyt, peys, watter.. wonderful! A flat cap, too, & my Nan's little furry suede boots with the front zip.. headscarves & pinnies..

A new idea I am jealous of - period pants! I have no idea how they work, but as one who had to fiddle about with pads & belt when I first started, many moons ago..

Nanniejude Sun 05-Jun-22 19:56:02

Hopefully racism, sexism, homophobia and all those other archaic things!
Please not the monarchy, it definitely brings people closer together.

M0nica Sun 05-Jun-22 11:14:27

If only intolerance, like jealousy, love, kindness, anger are hardwired into humans - and many other anmals.

Bellanonna Sat 04-Jun-22 22:39:47

Intolerance, hopefully

Hetty58 Fri 03-Jun-22 18:06:52

What we call 'common sense' is really life experience, a collection of facts remembered and lessons learned - relevant to our time. In the future, it will, inevitably, be different.

Allsorts Fri 03-Jun-22 18:00:13

Common sense.

Chestnut Fri 03-Jun-22 17:53:37

University students don't seem to believe in male and female any more so we'll probably all be gender neutral in the future. People are harassed and 'cancelled' for saying a woman is an adult female.