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What is the best advice you have been given ?

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Floradora9 Tue 26-Jul-22 16:25:06

I always remember my mother , who was a health visitor , telling me when I had a small baby not to worry about dirty old men but to worry about lovely clean children harbouring germs. In those days measle , mumps and chickenbox were still common. It still is a good piece of advice.

mauraB Sat 30-Jul-22 10:52:26

My English teacher said "Read every thing you can, question every thing you read".

silverlining48 Sat 30-Jul-22 08:12:40

Do as you would be done by

Juliet27 Sat 30-Jul-22 07:57:38

Aldom

Written in Granny's autograph book, March 9th, 1913 by Daddy.

Don't look for the flaws as you go through life,
And even when you find them,
It is wise and kind to be somewhat blind,
And look for the virtue behind them.

Wise words.

Wise words indeed. If only I could live by them, being an over critical Virgo. Must try harder!

DanniRae Sat 30-Jul-22 07:39:52

"Life is how it is - not how it should be"

lizzypopbottle Fri 29-Jul-22 23:43:37

My dad told me, "Start as you mean to go on." Sounds easy but sometimes you start without necessarily knowing how you mean to go on. Then you might have to start again.

Honeysuckleberries Fri 29-Jul-22 22:40:31

Don’t borrow trouble.

Milest0ne Fri 29-Jul-22 22:36:55

Give it away and it will come back to you three fold. Try a smile smile

Sapphire24 Fri 29-Jul-22 22:35:28

My dad, upon meeting my now husband for the 1st time. "He's a good lad him. Don't you ever let him go!" He was right, and I didn't let him go. One of my greatest regrets is, that my dad didn't live long enough to see us get married. ?

Chewbacca Fri 29-Jul-22 21:05:06

If you keep doing, what you've always done; you'll keep on getting what you've always got.

effalump Fri 29-Jul-22 21:02:13

Not so much advice, but just talking my huge, gigantic problems through with my mum, would shrink them to pocket size. I really miss her.

Enid101 Fri 29-Jul-22 20:50:20

This too will pass.

LJP1 Fri 29-Jul-22 20:17:59

You only have to take the next step (don't panic about the future)

Avoid anything immoral, illegal or fattening.

Fix the roof while the sun is shining / Be prepared!

Armorel Fri 29-Jul-22 19:57:08

Fennel My dad:
"When in doubt - Don't!

Bazza Fri 29-Jul-22 18:31:30

Treat people as you would like to be treated and be kind.

nexus63 Fri 29-Jul-22 18:10:17

my gran said to me to remember if it's for you it won't go by you (english version rather than glasgow), i think that is why i don't get upset about the things i can't change, i have had cancer twice, i never got angry about it, nothing would change even if i did. no matter how bad things have got over the years i have always just got on with it.

Grandmagrewit Fri 29-Jul-22 17:59:49

My mother's stock phrase when either my brother or I were worried about anything was "Life's too short to ......... (add in whatever the worry was) and, in her case, it sadly proved very true. She was diagnosed with early onset Alzheimer's at 59 and died far too young.

Vintagenonna Fri 29-Jul-22 17:56:44

Advice from a much missed god-mother :

"Better to be an old man's darling than a young man's fool".

Sadly, I failed to take it.

Happysexagenarian Fri 29-Jul-22 17:49:22

Not sure it was the best advice, but my GM often said
"Never explain and never apologise". She pretty much lived by that.

Pudding123 Fri 29-Jul-22 17:02:53

My lovely mum said two things that I have tried to live by when I got married she said always keep some money in your own bank account and the one quoted here if you can't say anything nice keep quiet.
Good advise

Aldom Fri 29-Jul-22 16:58:21

knspol

My driving instructor always said 'if in doubt, don't'. I still say this to myself when thinking of overtaking etc and it's stood me in good stead.

When I passed my driving test a friend's husband said 'Always remember you have a brake'. Never forgotten those words.

TiggyW Fri 29-Jul-22 16:21:00

Always trust your gut feelings.
Break down big jobs into smaller chunks to make them more manageable.

knspol Fri 29-Jul-22 16:13:47

My driving instructor always said 'if in doubt, don't'. I still say this to myself when thinking of overtaking etc and it's stood me in good stead.

LadyStardust Fri 29-Jul-22 16:01:34

Someone said to me when I was pregnant.......... Imagine how you think things will be when you've had the baby and then accept it will be absolutely nothing like that!!

Aldom Fri 29-Jul-22 15:50:53

Another entry from Granny's autograph book.

If wisdom's ways you wisely seek,
Five things observe with care,
Of whom you speak,
To whom you speak,
And how and when and where.

March 5th 1913

MissAdventure Fri 29-Jul-22 15:46:03

Never stop to pick up nothing.

Talk's cheap.