What is a claque please?
Definition:
a group of sycophantic followers.
I think we're being told to push off. Politely.
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What is a claque please?
Definition:
a group of sycophantic followers.
I think we're being told to push off. Politely.
Sadly I think this thread should be closed.
What on earth would our dear friend Phoenix make of it?
Words fail me. Unlike ones trying to pick holes in the thread. So sad.
Well, if a claque arrives, then they can be politely asked to leave the theatre
Are you politely asking those of us who want to reminisce about a lost friend to leave Gransnet, StarDreamer?
Now, I am lost.
What is a claque please?
If this thread wasn’t ruined before it certainly has been now. That is totally uncalled for StarDreamer and not a little hypocritical. A dreadful way to behave in a thread celebrating a dead friend.
Lucca wrote
> So your view is that posters can comment how they wish on a thread without accusations of derailing ?
I did not write that.
There is a balance of what is reasonable and what is not, and there is an uncertainty as to the dividing line.
For example, there was a law case some years ago that may help to clarify.
A female actor performed in a play which the public could attend.
A newspaper sent a theatre critic and the newspaper published a review of the play.
Within the review there was comment about the size, shape or prominence of the female actor's bottom.
She complained to the newspaper. The newspaper took the line that the play was a performance that the public could attend, so they had a right to publish a review.
The dispute went to court.
The judge rules that as the play was open to the public, the newspaper had a right to post a review of the play.
However, although they had a right to comment upon their assessment of the performance, to express an opinion as to how well or otherwise the actor had expressed and interpreted the content of the play, they did not have a right to comment upon the shape or whatever of parts of her body as that was not about the play or her performance.
I consider that, given the way that the original post was presented to the public, no reference to it being in remembrance of someone, that it was entirely reasonable for the phrase "nasty thing" to be used about the text presented, and thus having been published, in the illustration.
That was a comment about the content of the original post.
I have tried to be objective about this, though as I too consider that the text in the illustration in the original post is nasty, that may have biased me.
I consider that the text having been written by a woman about a man is no excuse. There should be no "woman about a man" exemption to decency.
To clarify, if say, a thread were started on the topic of, say, Polish culture, it would not be reasonable, in my opinion, for someone to post, "Ah, culture, there is Spanish culture, that is a culture too, I'll post about Spanish culture in this thread."
> Or being told to start another thread ?
Well, if a claque arrives, then they can be politely asked to leave the theatre.
kittylester
To be honest, it is nothing to do with anyone who didn't know Phoenix and is just reminiscing fir those of us who. So leave us alone.
But if only you'd explained. How could others know. Now we do ...
SD. *It has been published.
Therefore it is A Matter of Public Interest.
Therefore the OP has opened the door for public comment on what the OP has chosen to publish*
So your view is that posters can comment how they wish on a thread without accusations of derailing ? Or being told to start another thread ? Good, that’s clarified then.
This thread may have been confusing at the start but it has been explained that apart from anything else the Curse poem was………..A JOKE !
StarDreamer
But the opening post did not say so.
There was no context other than what was in the post.
How was anyone expected to know the context?
By asking politely ? Pleasantly ?
Callistemon21
^People were just asking for clarification - what’s wrong with that?^
Jumping in and attacking the OP wasn't just asking for clarification.
Asking for clarification would be: "I don't understand, could you explain please?"
This
Honeysuckle deserved an apology.
Time some people tried to listen and hear.
I've nothing more to add.
Well said Blossoming so unnecessary at a time of fond remembrance.
Crossed posts Callistemon
Oh for heaven’s sake! Enough of ‘who started it? She did. No, she did’ .. Just leave it will you? Let us remember our friend in peace.
nadateturbe
Posts are open for everyone to comment.
Why did everyone keep telling Honeysuckle she didn't get it instead of explaining. As if you were an exclusive group.
You spoilt the thread.
Perhaps because honeysuckle was extremely rude? There are ways of asking.
No, not an exclusive group at all, just many posters who remember phoenix fondly.
It's just puzzling why some people continue to post just to keep arguing and causing distress.
Posts are open for everyone to comment.
Why did everyone keep telling Honeysuckle she didn't get it instead of explaining. As if you were an exclusive group.
You spoilt the thread.
To be honest, it is nothing to do with anyone who didn't know Phoenix and is just reminiscing fir those of us who. So leave us alone.
nadateturbe
Becjett your post is just rude.
Not rude just stating my opinion - some people DO appear to have had a sense of humour bypass
I remember Phoenix with fondness.
I am not offended by the post.
I understand now that it's been explained.
I don't think it is right to be rude to those who didn't understand.
I don't know why posters persist in arguing about phoenix, her name, the fact that you don't "get" the OP and, even when all is explained, carry on with self-justifying posts.
If you have no clue about her and her humour then there are lots of other threads to post on.
Some posters are remembering her with fondness.
MerylStreep
Beckett
Because an awful lot of people have been indoctrinated not to offend anyone
If Phoenix had ever gone into stand up comedy she would be cancelled. She would have been bloody good, though ?
I so agree! It is a true that some of us have been here a long time and 'know' each other why should be deny that connection.
How was Phoenix hounded off GN?
She always struck me as a feisty person who could stick up for herself if she was being got at on the site.
It’s particularly unpleasant though as she was so ill.
Germanshepherdsmum
nadateturbe
There is no mention of Phoenix in the OP.
I knew Phoenix and didn't get the connection.The title, Phoenix’s Curse, wasn’t enough for you?
For me, Phoenix is a town in Arizona.
Beckett
Because an awful lot of people have been indoctrinated not to offend anyone
If Phoenix had ever gone into stand up comedy she would be cancelled. She would have been bloody good, though ?
That was to Beckett.
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