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Would you expect your grandchildren to be layered up?

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mokryna Fri 26-Aug-22 19:06:05

A mother on the tv this evening said she couldn’t ask her three-year-old to layer up this winter.

Agreed no-one likes wearing layers. I didn’t have the money to heat where I lived with my three-year- old in the 70s, and because I wouldn’t go into debt, my daughter went to bed with a long sleeved vest, warm pyjamas and jumper plus socks. Daytime, she was wrapped up very well.
Would you expect your grandchildren to layer up or is it a question of fashion?

Fleurpepper Tue 30-Aug-22 18:22:56

Gaiters? Rememember when they came back with a vengeance after Flashdance? I think they will be back soon.

Callistemon21 Tue 30-Aug-22 18:13:42

SueDonim ???

Can't waste time on here, must get on with my knitting.

Callistemon21 Tue 30-Aug-22 18:12:19

Doodledog ???

I remember those gaiters, I had a blue wool cloth pair!

SueDonim Tue 30-Aug-22 17:23:06

Spherical toddlers. www.thedailymash.co.uk/news/health/toddlers-become-spherical-for-winter-20161110116965

I remember once, when we lived in a freezing cold house, my 20mo fell over outside and couldn’t get himself up again because he had on so many clothes. grin

Elizabeth27 Tue 30-Aug-22 16:47:35

I would expect them to wear whatever the parents deemed fit.

Mollygo Tue 30-Aug-22 16:42:24

Love the pic Doodledog.??

Doodledog Tue 30-Aug-22 15:24:31

Callistemon21

^I do think the OP came from the young woman interviewed on the news saying 'she could not possible ask her 3 years old to put on extra layers if its cold'.^

Don't ask, don't even tell, just put on a jumper.

grin

Caleo Tue 30-Aug-22 11:53:53

Many doctors receptionists and other office workers are required to wear summer weight clothing such as blouses and skirts or trousers all year round. Consequently many offices are over -heated.
I stopped donating to the Oxfam shop because they kept their shop door open in the coldest winter weather.

Callistemon21 Tue 30-Aug-22 11:17:36

I do think the OP came from the young woman interviewed on the news saying 'she could not possible ask her 3 years old to put on extra layers if its cold'.

Don't ask, don't even tell, just put on a jumper.

Baggs Tue 30-Aug-22 07:38:27

I would (do) expect my grandkids to wear – with encouragement from their sensible parents – clothes that are appropriate wherever they are and whatever they're doing. Surely this is what all normal people expect. Ditto footwear.

Saying you can't ask (ask?! shouldn't that be tell?) a three year old to put on an extra layer or two when it's cool/cold is just plain silly.

Allsorts Tue 30-Aug-22 07:23:40

Parents would make sure their children were warm before they were.

M0nica Tue 30-Aug-22 07:20:36

I would think if a 3 year old was cold they would be crying wimpering and really miserable, and once the extra layer was on would be so much more cheerful.

I mean no one is suggesting that the child be layered up like a Michelin man. just put on a fleecy top, or a pair of trousers.

I am sure if the child was clutching a sharp knife she would find it possible to ask them to put it down. What is the difference? In fact, I suspect in the second incidence she would order the child to ut it down, or even take it from the child.

Fleurpepper Mon 29-Aug-22 18:36:23

Daddima

Norah

I'd expect parents to decide their children's attire, not me.

You and me both, Norah!

Of course, but if heating is very expensive, then common sense should prevail. I do think the OP came from the young woman interviewed on the news saying 'she could not possible ask her 3 years old to put on extra layers if its cold'.

Barmeyoldbat Mon 29-Aug-22 18:29:32

The worse bit is getting up to go to the loo during the night. Lying in bed, nice and warm and thinking do I really need to go, at least these days you get out of bed onto a carpet and not Lino

M0nica Mon 29-Aug-22 17:21:38

WItzend ......and the window was not even double glazed!

Daddima Sun 28-Aug-22 20:26:29

Norah

I'd expect parents to decide their children's attire, not me.

You and me both, Norah!

Witzend Sun 28-Aug-22 20:13:41

Who else remembers the TV ads for central heating in the 60s -‘Mrs 1970’ walking around the house in a bikini with snow falling outside at night - all clearly seen through a huge picture window!

Callistemon21 Sun 28-Aug-22 19:20:25

Hithere

Why no hooks for coats in schools?

Because you can split your head open on them. I have the scar to prove it.

Hithere Sun 28-Aug-22 18:12:30

Why no hooks for coats in schools?

saltnshake Sun 28-Aug-22 18:06:35

Anyone here think the liberty bodice might make a come back if it gets really cold {grin}

Calendargirl Sun 28-Aug-22 18:01:05

One reason secondary school children round here don’t seem to wear coats is they don’t have hooks or lockers at school, and have to carry their coats round with them all day.

My teenage GC fortunately live near the school, but still get wet on a rainy day.

M0nica Sun 28-Aug-22 16:52:35

Children and layering depends on the age of the child.

Hithere Sun 28-Aug-22 15:16:54

Doodledog

Thank for your post and have a great Sunday!

Doodledog Sun 28-Aug-22 15:14:20

Hithere

I would expect the kids to wear what they want and the parents support

Not everybody tolerates getting dressed several times/ layers and in dressing layers to match the indoor outdoor weather

For some young kids, it is hard enough to get them dressed in one layer already, or make them wear socks

If parents decide to invest on heating, who is to tell them they are wrong?

You did say exactly that grin.

GreyKnitter Sun 28-Aug-22 14:30:45

When my children were young in the late 70’s they all wore plenty of layers and the boys wore tights under their trousers too. Accepted it as what was required and just got on with it. Ps. The boys didn’t have to wear the tights when they went to school!