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What to do if granny does something daft.

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Grammaretto Thu 08-Sept-22 22:40:40

A very sensible post florentina thankyou.
Condolences for you on the sudden death of your DH.
I hadn't considered this and although I seldom have sole care of the DGC it is something to think about.
Phones, whether mobile or landline are not easy to use unless you are familiar with them so a very young child might not cope.
Maybe teach them how to ask Alexa to call for help? First install Alexa........

icanhandthemback Thu 08-Sept-22 22:28:43

What a great post, fiorentina51.

LauraNorderr Thu 08-Sept-22 22:13:48

florentina flowers,
Thank you for sharing this great idea, I’ll make sure I implement these measures next time they all visit. Very sensible.

CanadianGran Thu 08-Sept-22 21:48:44

Florentina, first of all, my condolences; what a shock for you and I hope you are coping well.

You are right in being so sensible. I taught my children at an early age how to use the phone to call a nearby Aunt and also 911.

It is a bit tougher these days with cell phone use. We have a land line, and I have taught my GC how to call their mother, but I'm sure we need to practice again. Good reminder.

This is another case for not getting rid of landlines. Locked cell phones are harder to access, and are most parents showing their children how to access the emergency contacts? I do know there is an emergency button on mine that connects straight to 911 without a password.

Floradora9 Thu 08-Sept-22 21:29:36

I friend tried to talk to her GC about this as she had asthma and using an inhailer . She asked them what would happen if her inhailer was not handy and they replied that they guessed she would die . They did not seem worried about it .

Cabbie21 Thu 08-Sept-22 20:25:58

What a lovely, sensible and thoughtful post from the OP. Thank you.

fiorentina51 Thu 08-Sept-22 09:13:40

Thank you for your kind thoughts and words. X

Germanshepherdsmum Thu 08-Sept-22 09:01:28

Yes, I meant to send mine and forgot. Sincere apologies and condolences. A great shock for you.?

Calendargirl Thu 08-Sept-22 08:57:46

How sensible.

And sending belated sympathy on the sudden death of your DH.

Germanshepherdsmum Thu 08-Sept-22 08:54:51

An excellent idea. As I have asthma and epilepsy, I explained to my son when he was very young, probably 2, what might happen, in the least frightening way I could, and how to phone Granny (who lived nearby) or 999. Thankfully he didn’t need to, nor was he frightened by my explanation.

Mandrake Thu 08-Sept-22 08:00:20

That is a good idea. Even as a young 20-something I had a list of emergency numbers next to the phone for my children, and showed them how to call 999. You just never know what might happen.

fiorentina51 Thu 08-Sept-22 07:54:41

PollyDolly
Thanks for mentioning the neighbours. I'd forgotten them.
They will go on the updated list too.
I think I might suggest later on that the boys do a basic first aid course.

Lucca Thu 08-Sept-22 07:53:14

Good idea, I’ve always had the grandchildren stay and I I live alone. I taught the eldest at age 5 how to phone their parents and my bloke who lives close by but I still used to worry and imagine awful scenarios.

PollyDolly Thu 08-Sept-22 07:49:24

Excellent post!! I did something very similar with all my GC over the years. They also knew which neighbours to go to for help - not all were able to help in any emergency.
I made sure the address and postcode were by the landline phone and taught them CPR advising of updates to the current protocol when it was released.
It helped my GC to feel confident in an emergency too as one GD helped a man when he collapsed at an event.

Grandmadinosaur Thu 08-Sept-22 07:48:41

A very sensible idea.

baubles Thu 08-Sept-22 07:47:48

That sounds sensible fiorentina.

fiorentina51 Thu 08-Sept-22 07:38:28

The recent post regarding emergency "grab bags" reminded me of something I did with my 9 year old grandsons at the start of the school holidays. I thought others might find it useful, if you hadn't already thought about it.

My husband died suddenly and totally unexpected back at the end of March this year. He had an undiagnosed heart complaint, felt a bit unwell, went for a lie down and an hour later I found him dead.

We often had our grandchildren to stay over the holidays and weekends and obviously, I wanted that to continue and my twin grandsons were coming in early August.
The pessimistic side of me came out and I started to worry about what would happen if I should suddenly become ill, or incapacitated in some way. What would or should the boys do?

With my sons permission and on the understanding that I didn't scare the living daylights out of them, I decided to chat with the boys about if they knew what to do if "granny did something daft."
By that I meant say if if fell in the garden and knocked myself out (or worse, but I didn't actually say that!)
I was pleasantly surprised at what they DID know (many thanks to Beavers leaders.) And also surprised at what they DIDN'T know.
For example they knew how to put me in the recovery position and that if they had to call the emergency services, they should stay connected so that the location of the call could be traced.
They did not, however, know my full address or the number to call for emergencies or their parent's phone number nor how to operate my ancient mobile or landline.

We spent some time chatting about these things then wrote a list using bullet points. They decided where it should go, next to the phone.
The list will be updated now that I have a grab bag too.
It put my mind at rest now that I'm on my own when having the boys to stay.