I do wonder why medical staff seem so reluctant to listen to the patient, who surely knows best about how she feels? One close friend was forced to eat a cheese salad by a bossy Sister, who told her she wouldn't have her baby for hours yet and must have her lunch; twenty minutes later her daughter was born, and she had the satisfaction of being violently sick all over the Sister's shoes. Another friend gave birth to a boy, and was being wheeled back to the ward from the labour room, protesting that she was still in pain and something wasn't right - she was ignored, and promptly gave birth to a girl a few minutes later in the maternity ward.