I’ve not cried about my terminal cancer for a while. Been trying to take things day by day and have things to look forward to. Even had a fabulous week holiday. But this weekend I spent with DS DDIL and grandchildren and it was so nice it’s brought it into focus there won’t be that many more and now I’m sitting in my car weeping . Maybe I need a GN group hug
Oh Lucca. I don’t think we’ve interacted that much on GN but I am truly sorry you have this knowledge that you have to carry around with you. It’s heartbreaking, no other way to describe it. Sending a gentle hug your way. Xxxx
Isn’t it funny how moved you can get even for someone you don’t know a big big hug Lucca and a huge wish that maybe a miracle might happen ?❤️?
This is a lovely message and I agree and you never know where miracles are concerned. None of us know how much or how little time we have left and perhaps do not want to know especially if we are elderly right now, but it is hard Lucca to have been given your diagnosis where time is short.It means living life more intensely and enjoying as much as you can, which you do sound to be doing, but we are all human and cannot be brave all the time. I hope that you have many friends and family to comfort you.
I’m sorry Lucca, I am sending hugs, prayers and kind thoughts.
We had a friend and partner over for lunch yesterday, she is in the same position as yourself. Her health was never discussed. We had a lovely time, lots of laughter and fun, when she was leaving she said it was so nice to forget and feel normal for a few hours.
I hope you have as many normal moments as possible but don’t feel you have to be brave all the time.
Lucca a big hug from me in Urmston (where you’ve been visiting it seems). I think you’re pretty awesome. No wonder you feel weepy at the thought of not being with your family. It’s perfectly understandable but that doesn’t make it any easier to bear.