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dogsmother Thu 06-Oct-22 11:20:05

I’ve been waiting for years for this news but finally it’s in, my eldest is expecting a new baby in the new year.
My eldest was born in ‘82 so you can imagine I’d almost given up hope of any but surrogate grandchildren coming my way.
I’m allowed to choose what to be called as it’s the first but I’m happy to go with whatever (within reason). In my head I’m crying with joy “I’m going to be a granny” so probably should be that ?‍♀️

annodomini Wed 12-Oct-22 09:32:47

Congratulations. dogsmother. I recognise that thrill when you get that joyful news. Thirty two years since I first felt it. And all over again, a year ago when that first DGD told me I was going to be a great granny. Do, please be a 'granny'. It was good enough for the Queen and her mother and so is an honourable title!

Grandma29 Wed 12-Oct-22 08:35:02

Congratulations?.
I became a Grandma earlier this year to a beautiful little girl.
This my second Grandaughter, unfortunately I no longer see my first Grand child but now have another chance to be a Grandma. I absolutely love it!
Enjoy every minute?

grannyro Mon 10-Oct-22 12:37:02

Best thing ever, being a grandmother. All the fun with less responsibility. I have always been "nanny Ann".

Susiewakie Mon 10-Oct-22 07:46:13

Congratulations there is no greater joy ! My 2 DGDs are such fun ( now 5 and 7) I'm Granny ...it was good enough for the Queen x?

Serendipity22 Mon 10-Oct-22 06:50:30

Awwwwww congratulations ..... fantastic.

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LJP1 Mon 10-Oct-22 06:44:07

Hurrah! flowers
Excellent news and every good wish for the parents. Settled parents are often able to take the changes in family life more confidently so there is every chance they will feel more able to share their new family. They seem to have waited till the pregnancy is well established before telling you, so with luck, the next few months will be plain sailing.

Have fun!

Frankie51 Mon 10-Oct-22 05:29:56

How lovely and exciting! Such a great feeling! I have 6 grandchildren now. 3 live abroad .I chose Nana , the other grandmothers to the children chose Nanny and Granny .Grandma of grandmother sounded a bit too formal. Enjoy !

Lapwing7 Sun 09-Oct-22 21:48:39

When first DGC arrived there was some debate about my name…I hoped to be Grandma but DD wasn’t keen, whereas I was reluctant to be Nanna. The compromise was Granna which I’m very happy with! Now have 4 adorable DGC…very blessed!

JackyB Sun 09-Oct-22 21:04:48

Congratulations to all new grannies/nannas/nannies

Can I join in? Our fifth grandchild was born last Wednesday - a beautiful girl, healthy and with quite a lot of hair!

Coco51 Sun 09-Oct-22 20:49:03

Congratulations! It’s the most wonderful feeling in the world

Poppyjo Sun 09-Oct-22 20:10:11

I am so happy for you.best thing in the world ❤️

Bijou Sun 09-Oct-22 19:56:06

P.S. I was 46 when I was a grandmother.

Bijou Sun 09-Oct-22 19:52:01

Congratulations?
My fifty year old grandson has just announced that his four nine year old wife is pregnant!
His dad, my son, was twenty two when he was born.

Blossom5 Sun 09-Oct-22 18:55:55

My son and his partner have given us our 8th grandchild earlier this evening, baby boy 8lb 10oz smile

Madmeg Sun 09-Oct-22 18:41:12

Congratulations Dogsmother, and hoping everything goes well. But I am green with envy cos my daughter was born in 83 and no sign of children. Sadly a very long-term relationship ended after 8 years so she was well into her thirties when she married a fabulous loving man and she says they want children. Naturally, I keep stum but hope is fading. Fortunately for us our elder daughter has two lovely kiddies who are the light of our lives. I'm sure your grandchild will be the same for you.

Retired65 Sun 09-Oct-22 18:31:52

How lovely! Congratulations to your daughter.

singingnutty Sun 09-Oct-22 18:02:09

When my first GC was born I really wanted to be Nanna but I thought DIL’s mum (senior grandma by tradition) would have that title. To my delight it ended up that she was Nan and I am Nanna. The GC decided on that by the time there two of them.

Resources6564 Sun 09-Oct-22 17:54:47

What a lovely happy post!
Many congratulations.
Being a grandma has been one of the best times in my life

kwest Sun 09-Oct-22 17:35:23

I too longed to be a granny. Eventually it happened. Both my son and daughter took a long time to get around to it but both are happily married with two children each so now granny to four teenagers. I am very proud to be called Granny. We were given a choice and my husband chose to be called Grandfather.

Bazza Sun 09-Oct-22 17:05:02

Many congratulations Dogsmother! I left the choice of what I was to called to our first grandchild, and she insisted on Barry to the amusement of our two daughters. We now have another three, and it has stuck. Incidentally I notice that the queen’s grandchildren spelt granny as grannie, but apparently when George was smaller he couldn’t manage it and called her Gary for some time! I hope all goes smoothly.

Nantotwo Sun 09-Oct-22 17:04:24

Congratulations, what wonderful, exciting news. In my family we have always been 'Nan's' and I remember my Nan with great affection. My Mum was Nan to all her grandkids as were my sisters. If you dont have a family tradition or one you remember fondly, Granny is lovely but a quick Google can bring up something more unusual if you like that kind of thing as I do. Often though the mispronounciation that little ones come out with are a cute alternative that often sticks.

Whiterabbit1956 Sun 09-Oct-22 17:00:38

Congratulations, that's brilliant news. I wish you all the luck in the world. Grandparents are so wonderful. I have fond memories of being with my grandparents, and often think of them fondly. So many day-to-day triggers remind me of them because of their care and devotion. My grandmother passed away the same day as John Lennon and my grandfather followed her 12 years later while I was at teacher training. Grandparents are so important for children's development (IMO).

Wren5 Sun 09-Oct-22 16:39:29

Congratulations! Wonderful news for you & your family .smile

123kitty Sun 09-Oct-22 16:34:24

What lovely news, I'm so excited for you. I wish GNs wouldn't be such snobs about the word Nanny, it feels so mean when we all know so many GNs are known by that name. Whatever you are called, it's wonderful to hear your little one saying it to you. (I'm a granny- so no axe to grind)

Applegran Sun 09-Oct-22 16:22:28

CathSoc62 I am sending you good thoughts and so sorry that you have to face what you are facing now. I hope you are getting loving support at least some of the time and salute you for sending good wishes to the grandmother - to - be and the baby. I hope you can find a pathway which works ok for you. I am sure there are others in GN who are also sending you loving thoughts.