Let’s liven things up a bit……..answer the following questions but not in order!

Grammaretto I think it means you didn’t know the other person was.

Grammaretto I was being a bit daft when I said ‘one way or another’.
I have never been unfaithful to DH, and we’ve been together since I was 25.

3 yes
2 no
I am shocked to read about all the affairs.
What do you mean you don't have to be married to have one?

3 yes 2 no

I plead the Fifth Amendment. I refuse to answer on the grounds that it may tend to incriminate me.

Three yes, two no.... I have a feeling I must have at some time pretended to be someone else, but can't think who or when, so have left it a 'no'. If it comes back to me I'll amend my answer ?

5 yes I’m afraid

4 yes 1 no

1 yes 4 nos. ?

Hmm, yes to all 5

4 out of 5?

One - yes Four - no.

Yes yes yes no no

Oh, that's disappointing! No to the affair one then.

kittylester As OP I can make up the rules, an affair IMO is having sex with someone outside of your relationship.

Extra points if it’s in a public place?

Yes to 3 of them. ?

Yes Yes Yes Yes No

Not necessarily in that order. Although clearly I'm not really a character in Bleak House with a dark secret so you can take that one as a Yes.

This thread is proving very popular.

Songstress
You don’t have to be married to have an affair ?

3 nos 2 yeses clearly haven’t been naughty enough lol

Could someone please qualify the exact conditions that qualify 'an affair'.

I've done four of them. Never been married so never had an affair. Done all the other ones.

Three yesses but I wish I had given in to a fourth.

prefer not to say. in case anyone knows who I am x

Oh dear! 4 yesses!