Let’s liven things up a bit……..answer the following questions but not in order!

Could someone please qualify the exact conditions that qualify 'an affair'.

3 nos 2 yeses clearly haven’t been naughty enough lol

Songstress
You don’t have to be married to have an affair ?

This thread is proving very popular.

Yes Yes Yes Yes No

Not necessarily in that order. Although clearly I'm not really a character in Bleak House with a dark secret so you can take that one as a Yes.

Yes to 3 of them. ?

kittylester As OP I can make up the rules, an affair IMO is having sex with someone outside of your relationship.

Extra points if it’s in a public place?

Oh, that's disappointing! No to the affair one then.

Yes yes yes no no

One - yes Four - no.

4 out of 5?

Hmm, yes to all 5

1 yes 4 nos. ?

4 yes 1 no

5 yes I’m afraid

Three yes, two no.... I have a feeling I must have at some time pretended to be someone else, but can't think who or when, so have left it a 'no'. If it comes back to me I'll amend my answer ?

I plead the Fifth Amendment. I refuse to answer on the grounds that it may tend to incriminate me.

3 yes 2 no

3 yes
2 no
I am shocked to read about all the affairs.
What do you mean you don't have to be married to have one?

Grammaretto I was being a bit daft when I said ‘one way or another’.
I have never been unfaithful to DH, and we’ve been together since I was 25.

Grammaretto I think it means you didn’t know the other person was.

All yes from me, I’ve had a rather interesting life ?

No Humbertbear, not even the stealing. There were extenuating circumstances (too personal to put in a lighthearted post such as this).

MrsKen33

Grammaretto I think it means you didn’t know the other person was.

I was going to ask this.
If you are ‘the other woman’, but aren’t aware of it, are you ‘having an affair’?
This has happened to me once.

OP here, just to clarify if you are not aware of being. “the other woman” no it doesn’t count.
You have to be fully aware you have a partner and should probably not be doing what you’re doing.
I’m not judging!
Just making up the rules as we go along!