How do I shut up my sil who vents about my daughter? I listen, as a sounding board and as a devils advocate. He complained last week that she only does things to make herself look good, to impress. I told him he was being harsh but I was gobsmacked. My daughter has lots of self esteem issues and is a bit of a perfectionist. I was taken aback at his comments. It’s not the first time and in the past I’ve told him to stop bitching about her. They’ve just had a baby and following s difficult pregnancy, a nightmare birth, (a court case is pending), and a baby who just does not sleep, they’re both stretched to the limit. I’m wondering if their marriage can survive. Btw I do help but somehow this seems to cause him resentment too.
apple trees not flowering this year. Anyone else?