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schnackie Wed 30-Nov-22 13:42:08

I am fairly unemotional, most of the time. When the lovely Queen died in September, I was very, very sad but I can't say I shed a tear. However I recently saw a short video on social media of the family on the balcony (probably from the Jubilee) and Princess Charlotte was watching her great granny, and when she (the Queen) started waving, Charlotte took the cue and began waving herself. All of a sudden I burst into tears!! Not just a drop either. It occurred to me that this wonderful lady who we are so used to seeing on a regular basis, is no longer alive. Then, again on social media, today I saw a post which said (I'm not quoting) that a woman said to her daughter "I hope I don't get Alzheimer's" and the daughter replied "Don't worry mum, if you do, I'll love you and look after you every day" Then it said the woman had had Alzheimer's for 14 years (or similar). I'm weeping just recounting this story!! So unlike me. What things make you suddenly just lose it?

BrightandBreezy Sun 18-Dec-22 01:08:05

MadeinYorkshire and Hellogirl sincere condolences to you both. ๐Ÿ’

Antonia Sat 17-Dec-22 20:12:00

MadeInYorkshire

My daughter died unexpectedly on Thursday, I cannot stop blubbing, I am heartbroken ....

That is so awful, I can't imagine what you are going through. Sending love ๐Ÿ’–.

Shel69 Sat 17-Dec-22 19:53:32

Abide with me, it is a hymn that sets me off

Wheniwasyourage Sat 17-Dec-22 13:09:38

So sorry for all who have lost a child, at whatever age and however long ago. It must be the thing we all dread, and I feel sad for you all. flowers

Just finding myself tearful while reading "How Far To Bethlehem?" by Norah Lofts for the umpteenth time. It doesn't always have that effect on me, but it's such a lovely interpretation of the Nativity story and I reread it most years.

Aveline Sat 03-Dec-22 14:26:57

Leon Redbone quietly singing 'Moonlight Bay' does it for me every time. I don't know why but it does.

tictacnana Sat 03-Dec-22 10:52:45

I find that remembering my four years at university makes me weep. It was the only place I ever found true happiness and I dearly wish I could re-live it. Happy , happy days!

TwiceAsNice Sat 03-Dec-22 07:38:42

MadeinYorkshire I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my son years ago whilst he was still a child, you do not expect your child to die before you. It is horrendous

Music makes me cry a lot . Abide with me , 23rd psalm ( played at my sons funeral) many pieces of classical music and always the Welsh National Anthem ( I am proudly Welsh!)

A spectacular view ( makes me feel close to God)

My children/grandchildren in distress

Cruelty to animals

The Ukraine war ( or any war really)

jocork Sat 03-Dec-22 06:50:51

The Sam Teale Productions Christmas advert 'Christmas is made not bought' had me sobbing my heart out yesterday. A friend posted it on Facebook and admitted he'd cried. Checkout Sam Teale Productions on Facebook and I defy you to stay dry eyed!

My sincere condolences to those who have lost a son or daughter. I can't begin to imagine the grief of losing a child. It goes against everything we expect in life. Two friends of mine have lost adult sons who took their own lives. One of them also lost another son last year to natural causes, but still a sudden unexpected death. I really don't know how she carries on but I guess for her husband and remaining youngest son. These losses made me cry.

Minerva Fri 02-Dec-22 20:19:25

Heartfelt condolences to all the Grans who have lost a child. I canโ€™t let myself imagine the agony though I remember what it did to my aunt and uncle when my pregnant cousin died at 31 when I was a young mum myself. In tears I wish you strength.

123kitty Fri 02-Dec-22 19:43:38

Made in Yorkshire and Hellogirl I'm feeling so sad for you- my crying at opera feels almost self indulgent. My tears are forgotten so soon, but for you it must just be with you at all times. Except for my very elderly grandparents and parents (all in their 90s) I've lost no other family or friends and can't imagine anything of comfort I can offer. Thinking of you and it's lovely to see all the kind gransnet posts.

Georgesgran Fri 02-Dec-22 19:19:43

Bit of an unnecessary post songstress60 - given what had gone before.
Yes, we are all entitled to our say, but donโ€™t expect a bereaved parent to โ€˜man upโ€™ or call them a weeping willow, surely.

Saggi Fri 02-Dec-22 19:03:30

Canโ€™t say anything because Iโ€™m crying for you and your daughter Made in Yorkshire.

Kryptonite Fri 02-Dec-22 18:56:57

Hellogirl so sorry to hear you have also suffered a tragic loss, of your son. So awful for you. Sending you love and hugs too at this very sad time. xxxโค

Kryptonite Fri 02-Dec-22 18:46:33

MadeinYorkshire I am so very sorry to hear the sad news of your beloved daughter. Sending hugs and love to you. xxxโค

songstress60 Fri 02-Dec-22 17:57:39

It takes alot to make me cry, and I am sick of weeping willows who cry at the drop of a hat. Totally undignfied conduct. I love watching "Strictly" but when I see them well up I want to throttle them. I am the stiff upper lip type, and it seems I am a dying breed. The film "Haichi The Dog" made me nearly cry, but it is a true story. Don't like weeping willows. They make me want to scream "man up"

Anneeba Fri 02-Dec-22 17:52:20

MadeinYorkshire and Hellogirl so sorry for you. Terrible, unimaginable pain you'll be feeling. Yes, we seem to have robins accompany us on walks after each of our close family losses. They are so bold and follow along on walks for hours at a time it seems.

Little children being happy or sad make me cry and the thought of anything happening to them. Plus various music, Chasing Cars affects me too. Looking back at sad life circumstances seem to get me now too, though I lived through them with determination and some anger at the time. I'd like to give myself as a child and teenager, before I escaped to university (thank the lord for full grants), a big hug. Plus maybe a few quid for the necessary things I needed then but couldn't afford!

Forestflame Fri 02-Dec-22 16:51:26

Sorry, some of those emojis were meant to be flowers ๐Ÿ˜“๐Ÿ˜“

Forestflame Fri 02-Dec-22 16:50:25

Made in Yorkshire, Barmyoldbat, Hellogirl1 and all other GNrs who have lost their beloved Children ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐ŸŽ‰๐ŸŽ‰๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ’”.There are no words XXX.
As to what makes me cry- these days absolutely anything!!

kittypaws49 Fri 02-Dec-22 16:26:01

So sorry for your loss Made in Yorkshire, I lost my son suddenly last year, never thought that a person could feel that much pain. What else can I say ?

hazel93 Fri 02-Dec-22 16:23:24

Should have replied to the original question but somehow did not feel appropriate after my last post.
So, for me it has to be "Nimrod " when played at the Cenotaph each November, I refuse to listen to it any other time as the first few bars and I am gone, blubbering wreck !
There are a few others but Nimrod is worse than dicing Spanish onions.

Rosina Fri 02-Dec-22 16:21:46

I cannot imagine anything worse to endure, MadeinYorkshire, my heart goes out to you. x

Nanatoone Fri 02-Dec-22 16:04:42

HelloGirl1
I so sorry for this awful news. Itโ€™s unimaginable to lose a child, you have my most heartfelt condolences.

Nanatoone Fri 02-Dec-22 16:00:19

Made in Yorkshire I am heartbroken for you. This is just the saddest thing. My most sincere condolences on your dreadful loss

posset Fri 02-Dec-22 15:53:38

MadeInYorkshire

My daughter died unexpectedly on Thursday, I cannot stop blubbing, I am heartbroken ....

My heart goes out to you, MadeInYorkshire, like some others, I can empathise with your sorrow, having lost a daughter too. Time will help, which is probably no comfort to you right now, but it is true.

grannybuy Fri 02-Dec-22 15:50:38

MadeinYorkshire and Hellogirl, my heart goes out to both of you.