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Can’t be bothered, 🎄 fatigue.

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Callistemon21 Mon 05-Dec-22 22:43:26

I haven't made any yet.

Tennisnan Mon 05-Dec-22 22:43:06

Yep that's me exactly.

nanna8 Mon 05-Dec-22 22:43:02

I love mince pies, just chuck some over will you ?

Witzend Mon 05-Dec-22 22:41:40

We will be having a quiet one - just me and dh, but some pre Christmas family socialising that was planned for very soon, now isn’t going to happen, because one lot (A) have a very nasty bug, which we can’t risk passing via B to C, who’s very vulnerable anyway, and is only just beginning to recover from a serious illness on top.
So I’m feeling a mite deflated.

I’ve been consoling myself with the mince pies made yesterday (2 dozen) of which there are now just 2 left 😱 and for once I can’t accuse dh of pigging most of them.
In my defence I did give 2 with his cup of tea to the young chap who looks after the communal landscaping.

nanna8 Mon 05-Dec-22 22:37:15

Usually I am excited and keen but not this time. I’ve bought most of the kids’presents and I am getting Christmas bags for them, can’t even be bothered wrapping ‘em up. Maybe I need a stiff drink ( but it is only morning here, not such a good idea).

Callistemon21 Mon 05-Dec-22 22:27:59

Yes, I have, I'd just like to hibernate.

We had Covid about 8 or 9 weeks ago and I'm having to push myself.
We've got a few social events in the next week or so and I'd usually be looking forward to them all.

Wyllow3 Mon 05-Dec-22 22:22:12

Yes I have CFS too quite bad atm but even without it I just done like all the pressure and its lovely to see family/friends at a less pressured time.
I don't feel there has to be a reason, nor that the whole full. monty is a "norm" I am departing from.

Grammaretto Mon 05-Dec-22 22:21:25

As I make my bed in the morning I am very tempted to climb back in!
You are certainly not alone.

nadateturbe Mon 05-Dec-22 22:18:06

Yes, that's me this year, and M E. doesn't help.
I'm doing things like wrapping presents, and trying hard to care, but the feeling isn't there.
And I agree with Barmeybat about the causes, plus now we have scarlet fever. Its all so depressing.

Wyllow3 Mon 05-Dec-22 22:11:55

I'm quite happy with a small quiet day. The full monty just isn't for everyone and never was for me tho made a big effort when DS was small. Hoping for a sunny crisp day for a walk.

Patsy70 Mon 05-Dec-22 22:08:20

Yes, me too, nanna8, although I’m trying to rise above it. I just wish ‘Christmas’ didn’t start so early. If only it wasn’t so commercialised, I think I’d feel differently.

Barmeyoldbat Mon 05-Dec-22 22:07:15

Nanna8 you are ahead of me I haven’t even written my cards yet,mi don’t think I am going to send many this year. I also find it hard to do anything and I am not depressed but I just can’t be bothered with anyone. What’s more Mr B and I are going to have Christmas on our own by choice. About the only thing I do is go out for a cycle ride a few times a week and that’s it. I have put it down to the time of year, the state of the country and family deaths. Hope next year will be better for us all

nanna8 Mon 05-Dec-22 21:58:32

I don’t know what it is about this year, maybe some sort of post Covid comedown but I really can’t be bothered doing much. We have a lot of social events lined up before Christmas but I’d just as soon stay home and vegetate. I have only just sent my overseas Christmas cards out, cut them down significantly because of the outrageous postage cost. I don’t particularly want to deal with anyone other than family ( we have a lot of them ). I don’t feel depressed or anything like that, just inert and, dare I say it, a tad grumpy.
Anyone else got this ?