Ahhh thats so annoying Esmay. Sorry to hear that. You didnt do anything wrong in asking him why he was washing his car during a hosepipe ban, but maybe after his wife explained it to him, he feels stupid ?
Its possible that he had dementia as well as MH problems for quite a long time before it was diagnosed. Saying inappropriate things can be an early sign of dementia. Maybe he was paranoid as he knew something wasnt right inside? Poor wife and kids, not their fault at all. Good you're friends with them. Who knows what his wife might be keeping to herself. Coldness could be her way of self control -holding it all in? I've heard people say they dont want anyone to speak to them in case they cry.
I'm glad I don't live in the conservation area I mentioned. I literally cannot think of anything worse than having interfering, busybody neighbors tutting if I didn't use the correct shade of paint or have my tv ariel perfectly aligned with theirs. These people even have a social media group where they discuss such "issues". It might even be the end if you had a porch constructed, seeing as it wouldn't be in keeping with the original design sigh.
I know professional people who were not accepted there, it's extremely snobby and controlling. I would not want to live there even if I was paid to.
Fruit flies - help needed please.
Army horses loose on London streets
Have any of you got all electric cars? Pros and cons please.