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soop Mon 12-Dec-22 16:23:52

Here we are again
All good pals and jolly good company.

A warm welcome to you all. Please make yourselves comfortable. wine cupcake brew flowers

brook2704 Thu 22-Dec-22 12:25:47

Sorry to hear such sad news annsixty 💐

Grannmarie Thu 22-Dec-22 12:13:44

Sending love and prayers to Hellogirl and her family on this most difficult of days. May her DS rest in peace. 💕🙏
Annsixty, what a shock for your friend, and for you, but maybe a blessing for her DH to go peacefully at home in his own bed.
Kitty and Grandmabatty, I hope your energy returns soon, I just feel frustrated that things take me twice as long now. My house looks like I have been burgled! I must put things in order ...

TOYA, especially those with illness, worries or sorrow.

Safe travels to those visiting family and friends, have a lovely time.

kittylester Thu 22-Dec-22 11:56:36

Thats such a sad thing Ann. Are you OK?

The world is full of sad events at the moment, isn't it?

Grandmadinosaur Thu 22-Dec-22 11:55:33

That is so very sad Annsixty and a shock for you. A blessing though that he went peacefully and is not suffering any longer. Sending a virtual hug. 💐

SueDonim Thu 22-Dec-22 11:52:37

Sending you strength and love for today, Hellogirl. flowers

Annsixty, what an awful shock for your friend. flowers

gillgran Thu 22-Dec-22 11:51:17

Sorry to hear your sad news, annsixty, a sad day indeed.

Warm thoughts for you all, take care. flowers

Sar53 Thu 22-Dec-22 11:18:09

My thought are with you on this very sad day Hellogirl.

How sad Annsixty.

Love to you both xx

Nannagarra Thu 22-Dec-22 11:06:30

Thinking of you today Hellogirl and sending love.

Grandmabatty Thu 22-Dec-22 09:57:08

That's very sad Annsixty. A peaceful end though.

annsixty Thu 22-Dec-22 09:52:16

My friend of 55 years has just rung to say she woke up yesterday to find her H had died in his sleep beside her.
He had stage4 cancer and was having chemo but was not expected to just go like that.
Her D was there having just come for a few days.
He and I were really good friends as he liked the company of women in the very nicest way.
He would make me “ very special “ coffee and we had a good laugh together.
Sad day all round.

ixion Thu 22-Dec-22 09:12:09

Thinking of you today Hellogirl 🕯

Grandmadinosaur Thu 22-Dec-22 09:09:19

A rare visitor here popping in to wish hellogirl love and strength on this difficult day. 💐🙏

ShazzaKanazza Thu 22-Dec-22 09:07:27

Sending my love and thoughts on such a difficult day Hellogirl💐

MawtheMerrier Thu 22-Dec-22 08:59:58

Special thoughts and love to Hellogirl on this difficult day, we are with you in spirit just as your loving family and friends are with you in person flowersflowers 💔💔

Susan56 Thu 22-Dec-22 08:46:31

You will be in our thoughts and prayers today Hellogirl.Sending virtual hugs and lots of love.

Yiayia4 Thu 22-Dec-22 08:32:06

Thinking of you today Hellogirl lots of love.🌹

dragonfly46 Thu 22-Dec-22 08:25:56

Sending you a virtual hand to hold today Hellogirl.

Naughtyneine Thu 22-Dec-22 07:59:27

I'll be keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers today Hellogirl...xx

cornergran Wed 21-Dec-22 22:41:35

My thoughts will be with you and your family tomorrow hellogirl. My love to you all.

Yes. ann I do understand. Hard sometimes isn’t it? A hug for you.

Good to hear not a heart issue neine although hiatus hernia isn’t fun. Rest well tonight.

Keep getting better kitty. The only way is up now. Hope all poorly folk are mending.

Thinking of baggs, sued and all containing worries about family. This time of year can hold a magnifying glass to our worries I think.

We’re very proud of ourselves today. Managed to do all the (boring!) jobs needing to be accomplished. The car is now a recognisable colour, dust is removed, bathroom sparkles, kitchen is sanitary, floors vacuumed, ironing done and towels washed. We even managed to go out for an hour. I should be tired, strangely I’m not. Will I be tired tomorrow? For certain. smile. Odd that but usually the way.

Sleep well everyone, or rest if sleep should be elusive. TOYA.

annsixty Wed 21-Dec-22 22:24:16

You did extremely well Jaxjacky I would have been delighted
Yes my D and GD go home tomorrow, a huge sigh of relief , partly that they have gone, partly because it went off ok.
I find it hard to explain, so I won’t even try but my D has had a whole life without me.
Uni, marriage, living abroad, separated from her H for many years, divorce eventually due next month
Two adult children with mental health problems, both very bright, but no personal skills.
We are very different people from 50+ years ago.
I am sure we feel for each other but….
Some of you may understand.
Loving thoughts to all Hellogirls family tomorrow.
It will be hard.

SueDonim Wed 21-Dec-22 22:22:58

I’ll be thinking of you tomorrow, Hellogirl on such a difficult day that no parent should experience. flowers

Glad you’re ok, Neine! I hope others who’ve been under the weather are feeling better.

Once again, thank you for all the kind thoughts coming my way. It’s much appreciated. Xxx

Jaxjacky Wed 21-Dec-22 21:38:46

Off to bed soon, severe lack of sleep last night and I’m ‘jet laggy’. Might have a no wet hair quick shower as we’re under threat of low pressure/no water for two days.
My daughter is usual unwell at every school holiday Urms touch wood, ok this time.
Really good fun at local pub’s Christmas draw last night, we did well.

Urmstongran Wed 21-Dec-22 21:15:27

‘Evening All’

We’ve had a busy day. Helping with the grandchildren as their mum has been laid low for a second day with a nasty viral infection. Not Covid but she aches all over, heavy eyes and a high temperature. Teachers eh? Holidays seem to pounce on them.

We went upstairs on the bus, the kids loved it. Lunch in their favourite cafe (and we didn’t do too shabbily either). Back on the bus, lurching to our seats ha! Then took the Boy Wonder to his Turkish (fancy Dan) barbershop. Trendy cut and he looks very smart - but whenever did a lad’s haircut cost £17!

Skint enough, we returned home with just enough pennies out of ‘our bit of pension’ to enjoy sharing a bottle of wine in the bar below before coming up here for mackerel pate on toast which, by 7pm was Food of the Gods.

My thoughts and sympathies will be with you tomorrow Hellogirl. It will be a sad day indeed for you. One to be got through.

Happy anniversary to the dragonflies! Who said it would never last? 🤣

Neibe glad to hear you’re okay. You had us all concerned there.

Lovely photo of Rosie Maw. Greyhounds look such elegant dogs. Muscular but lithe at the same time.

annsixty I hope you are enjoying your family visit. Home tomorrow I think? Then we can breathe and kick back.
😁

gillgran Wed 21-Dec-22 21:05:38

May I add my warmest thoughts for you & your family tomorrow Hellogirl. flowers

Jaxjacky Wed 21-Dec-22 20:11:42

Difficult day tomorrow Hellogirl, my thoughts will be with you x

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