DS and family spent this Christmas with DDiL's family, but arrived with us yesterday and will be with us for the New Year, which we will spend together at home, doing what we do most evenings at Christmas when they are here, play games, read books and talk. We will see the year in on the tv, then go to bed.
But like Greyduster, with both children home I will be remembering years past. We had a long standing family relationship, parents and children, based on the close friendship between us, two women. When the children were still living at home, we always spent the New Year together .
This year my friend died very suddenly and her husband, just diagnosed with dementia, just fell off a cliff, metaphorically speaking, and is now in care and unable to remember anything, or even recognise us. So with all of us at home this year New Year will be a mixture of joy and sadness, looking back and looking forward.