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biglouis Tue 03-Jan-23 13:22:50

There was recently a thread on MN where posters expressed the view that using sh**t and f**k were ridiculous and there was nothing wrong with the actual words.

Probably most of us use swear words in moments of stress or anger, including stubbed toes and banged elbows. However I was brought up to believe that people who expressed themselves mostly by swearing showed a poor vocabulary and lack of intelligence.

Mostly I steer clear of people who are constantly effing and blinding. My father worked on the Liverpool docks as a young man and I never once heard him use the F word.

springishere Thu 19-Jan-23 15:51:21

What I can't understand is why the same f word is used as a noun, adjective, adverb, subject, object, when there are so many other words in the dictionary. Boring!

Chestnut Sun 08-Jan-23 00:07:41

Bloody hell. I'm not swearing, just using swear words that have nothing to do with bodies.
Bloody hell hardly qualifies as swearing compared to the others, and is often in general use even by people who don't really swear!

lixy Sat 07-Jan-23 21:13:47

Not on an online forum but I didn't use any asterisks when I fell over on the pavement today, just full-blooded AngloSaxon !

volver Sat 07-Jan-23 18:25:35

Let's face it, all swear words are either body parts or body functions.

Bloody hell. I'm not swearing, just using swear words that have nothing to do with bodies.

"By the lady", is the origin, I think

Chestnut Sat 07-Jan-23 18:12:06

Let's face it, all swear words are either body parts or body functions. Apart from the worst one of all (as I said) which is mother**** which to me is just unspeakable but is heard quite casually in American movies. It makes me cringe and why they think it's acceptable is beyond me.

Maybe someone from the USA can explain why that word is deemed suitable in movies?

sparkynan Sat 07-Jan-23 17:04:45

I worked in a young offenders institution for 11 years, there is no swear words I have not heard. The only one I truly object to is C* . When I used to hear it used in the prison I would ask the offender or prison officer
why they were calling me or who ever, a Vagina???? I honestly believe half of them did not even realise what the word means. It certainly started a few conversations...

mumofmadboys Sat 07-Jan-23 16:41:58

No Blondiescot - not touchy at all. Just simply giving my opinion.

Caleo Sat 07-Jan-23 11:31:39

'Shit' has become vey common, if TV films are any indication. When 'shit' is a metaphor for personal baggage of belongings or ideas it's a worthy metaphor, as baggage is subjective and can be dispensed with, same as faecal matter.

'Cunt' is often unpleasant as when it's a swear word it's always linked to sexist attitude, even when the user is unaware of the link.

Personally , and despite I'm what most believers would call an atheist, I almost shudder when the name of God is casually used as a swear word.

Blondiescot Sat 07-Jan-23 11:24:33

OOh, ok then! You do seem to be very touchy on the subject though.

mumofmadboys Sat 07-Jan-23 11:23:17

My faith is not shaken by someone blaspheming!

Blondiescot Sat 07-Jan-23 10:36:07

mumofmadboys

My faith is very important to me and I find it upsetting when someone uses God's or Jesus' name so lightly and , to my mind, disrespectfully

Fair enough - but surely if one's faith is so strong, it's hardly going to be shaken by someone using blasphemy. If I remember rightly, this was one of the reasons I used to get into trouble at Sunday School, for questioning this type of belief.

mumofmadboys Sat 07-Jan-23 09:29:11

My faith is very important to me and I find it upsetting when someone uses God's or Jesus' name so lightly and , to my mind, disrespectfully

MerylStreep Sat 07-Jan-23 08:28:21

Dickens
It’s when you get adds for stuff you have only spoken about in your home: not searched for on line. That’s when you need to be concerned.

Blondiescot Sat 07-Jan-23 08:13:57

mumofmadboys

I am more upset by blasphemy than swearing.

Why? Genuine question - what upsets you about it?

mumofmadboys Sat 07-Jan-23 07:07:54

I am more upset by blasphemy than swearing.

happycatholicwife1 Sat 07-Jan-23 00:48:40

Not a fan of swearing. I do it sometimes in the company of my DH (or someone I'm really close to) if I'm very upset. I don't think it's an indication particularly of being intelligent or creative. Some of the most intelligent and creative people that I know don't swear at all. Actually, I think people who swear a lot are just lazy. They're too lazy to use language that is inoffensive, or more descriptive or more uplifting. The English language is so rich, the words are so fascinating, why dilute it with words that are in the lower echelon of aesthetics? However, I will say some British swear words make me laugh, and I think they're so interesting, whereas American swear words are pretty much just vulgar. Frankly, when someone uses a lot of swear words, I lose interest in what they're saying. My eyes just glaze over.

Elegran Fri 06-Jan-23 09:44:12

Dickens The ads ARE tailored on Google, and on any site which has opted into Googles ad scheme, unless you specifically select that you don't want tailored ads. They can scan the site page for mentions of - well, anything - and then place a relevant ad from one of their customers on the selling side. Gransnet has obviously opted in, to get some revenue from the site without actually selling ad space individually.

It is possible to stop the tailored ads, but you have to keep up your vigilance and check your settings frequently.

Callistemon21 Thu 05-Jan-23 20:11:43

.... did you Google the recipe for Arancini?

No, Dickens, I'd never heard of it!

I was joking when I said I'd planned it for dinner.
It will probably be Spag Bol as a DGD is staying.

VioletSky Thu 05-Jan-23 20:10:48

Idk

The word atheist seems a bit of a swear word too...

Which is weird because there are over 2500 deities in the world and the vast majority of religious people only believe in 1 out of those 2500

I only believe in one less than them

Dickens Thu 05-Jan-23 20:04:54

VioletSky

When it comes to swearing , this is onething I really truly do not understand?

I don't see the difference between typing fuck and typing f**k

Isn't it realistically the exact same thing?

Why do we do that?

I think the strangest thing is when people type, "G*d"... I had it explained to me once but didn't understand the reasoning.

Can anyone enlighten me why God becomes G*d?

Dickens Thu 05-Jan-23 19:58:02

Callistemon21

JaneJudge

the funniest thing about this thread is the silent nigel slater video but I don't know if everyone else can see it grin

Ive got 'How to make Easy Arancini'

How did she know I'd planned that for Saturday dinner? 😲

... did you Google the recipe for Arancini?

I believe ads are 'tailored' sometimes. I was looking for information on adjustable beds the other day, and now I keep seeing adverts for them.

BTW, M&S do some rather nice Mushroom Arancini!

Yammy Thu 05-Jan-23 19:51:35

I've got Dementia "How to spot the early signs in time". We certainly don't need any lessons about that or do we.

VioletSky Thu 05-Jan-23 19:46:51

I got nothing

JaneJudge Thu 05-Jan-23 19:45:55

Slimming is a swear word in my house angry let alone a whole world of it

JaneJudge Thu 05-Jan-23 19:44:19

No I’ve got slimming world confused