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Useful tips I’ve learned over the years.

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crazyH Wed 11-Jan-23 21:57:00

Thanks Urmstogran

Casdon Wed 11-Jan-23 21:54:02

Make a mental note where your glasses are every time you take them off. Looking for them when you don’t have your glasses on is the most frustrating thing ever - bitter experience.

rubysong Wed 11-Jan-23 21:46:07

Don't put it down put it away! (If only I could practice what I preach.)

welbeck Wed 11-Jan-23 21:34:57

say phone numbers more slowly on the phone.
i find them difficult to take down.

Urmstongran Wed 11-Jan-23 20:39:23

Ah. Without a smiley emoji after a comment it’s not always easy to work out!

lixy Wed 11-Jan-23 20:34:26

Don't try to wax both legs at the same time.

Smile and say 'good morning/afternoon' to people.

Thank people who give way. hold a door open.

You get further with the doctor's receptionist if you are relentlessly cheerful and can make them laugh even when you just want to scream at them.

volver Wed 11-Jan-23 20:32:36

I was just kidding Urmstongran wink

Urmstongran Wed 11-Jan-23 20:25:11

Oh volver yes of course you’re right! I didn’t mean to imply anything - just that I’ve spent a fair bit of time with my 90y old this past 2 weeks and had to explain some aspects of his treatment and realised I was rushing it a bit. Just because ‘I knew’ didn’t mean that he did straightaway. And his friend who called was 87y and a bit deaf.

It just made me more aware is all.

volver Wed 11-Jan-23 20:24:42

🤣

Aveline Wed 11-Jan-23 20:20:48

What's that volver I didn't catch what you were saying?

Newatthis Wed 11-Jan-23 20:20:22

Never go to the supermarket hungry or on date lonely because both times you’re going to come back with something you don’t need.
Always take your makeup off before bedtime.
Never put your job before family.
My mum use to say ‘the more you do for a man the worse he’ll treat you.

volver Wed 11-Jan-23 20:16:04

Speak more slowly to the elderly. Give them chance to compute what you’re saying.

Jings, Urmstongran! We're not all in our dotage yet!!

Urmstongran Wed 11-Jan-23 20:04:27

Leave a party when people would still like you to stay a while.
Put moisturiser on my cheeks well before bedtime to give it chance to sink in and not just rub off on the pillow.
Cut tubes of any cream to scoop out what won’t squeeze - this is sometimes quite a lot.
Use a lip brush to access that last half inch of lipstick inside the tube. You’ll be amazed how many weeks worth are in there!
Never discuss important issues after 9pm. Save that conversation for tomorrow. It’ll keep.
Use an exfoliating face product when in the shower - it’s much easier than trying to rinse it off over the sink with handfuls of water.
Whenever you need to ring about a service, note the date, time & the name of the person you are speaking to.
Learn your mobile phone number! It’s only 11 digits and so handy to be able to reel it off without faffing about looking it up.
Really listen to new friends. Remember the names of people they chat to you about. Or write them down when you get home for recall next time. It highlights you were interested and bodes well at your next meet up.
If you are a grandparent, respect the wishes and boundaries of the parents. You had your turn. Now it’s theirs.
Do kind things without keeping a tally. It’s its own reward.
Speak more slowly to the elderly. Give them chance to compute what you’re saying.
Value yourself. If you don’t, how can you expect others to? You are just as important as anybody else. Not more so. Just the same.
Put your phone away when enjoying company. Or at least, stop looking at it for a while.
Compliments are nice to give and only take up a minute of your time.
If you ask people ‘how are you?’ be prepared to listen while they tell you. If you haven’t the time or the energy then just say ‘oh how nice to see you again!’.

Have you any tips to share?
We can learn from one another!
😊