Yes and no. My mother kept up the polite fiction that daddy was the head of the family to a certain extent. She did work, but at home, and dovetailed her working day to suit the demand's my father's practice as a G.P. made, as well as the demands two children made.
My maternal grandmother married late for her day and age, as she was 38 when she married. She refused to give up her teaching job, as my grandfather, being a British subject living in Denmark could not get at permanent teaching position, and gave private English lessons. It was as well she stood fast on her principles, as she was widowed three years after marrying, and left to bring up two little girls - my aunt was 2 and my mother 9 months at the time of their father's death.
My paternal grandmother was also a teacher, and gave up her job upon her marriage. She may have taught temporarily during the 1914-18 war when she was living with her parents in Edinburgh, while my grandfather was a liason officer between the British and French troops in France. I doubt that she did, as my aunt was a baby at the time.
Both my grandmothers made sure their daughters had further education or at least, in my mother's case, as she had never done well at school, a solid sectretarial training.
However, as I remember it, Grannie. like my mother, paid lip-service to the man being the head of the house, whilst dealing themselves with the family finances, which would have been a ghastly muddle if they had left them to their husbands and deciding practically everything from where to go on holiday, which school to send the children to, to finally where to live in their retirement,
I imagine that Grandpa like Daddy knew when to voice an opinion or objection and when it was wisest to say, "Very well, my dear, I leave it up to you." This particular answer was far more in evidence than any suggestions that ran counter to their wives' expressed opinions.