I don't enjoy eating the huge portions that are served, and always have to have half of it packed up to take home. Having said that, we ate out this evening and although I felt full afterwards, the food was very good and there was no music playing at all.
My mother always preferred to cook and eat at home - eating out was not a treat for her. My father was a travelling salesman and had to eat out several times a week, so, as my mother was such a good cook, this was fine by him.
We hardly ate out at all when I was little.
Nowadays it's nothing special to eat out, except for the fact that when there are a lot of us, we like to go to a restaurant as there is more space and no one is dashing backwards and forwards to the kitchen, and no one has to think about the washing up.
Generally, I can take it or leave it, though.