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Caramme Wed 29-Mar-23 10:40:31

It’s overcast here in N Cheshire this morning but I have risked putting my washing out on the line. Fingers crossed it will dry as I am fed up with damp stuff hanging around in my spare bedroom. These days my neighbour, also in her early 70s, and I are the only people who do actually hang washing outside. I assume others use tumble driers but I am wary of the costs of running these.
Last summer, one of my new neighbours who had just moved into a new build semi next-door-but-one said, ‘Oh yes, you’re the lady who puts her washing outside. My gran used to do that, but it doesn’t look very nice does it? No one wants to look at someone else’s washing. And it’s unhygienic.’ I was rendered speechless. Perhaps that was my first experience of passive aggression. She has ignored me ever since. For the record I do not ever put underwear on the line and my garden is relatively private. It upset me at the time as it was so unfriendly. I dried everything indoors for the rest of the year. I am wondering if I am doing the right thing by starting to dry my washing outside once more. It is just unacceptable these days?

Usernametaken Fri 31-Mar-23 11:31:33

kittylester

I dry mine on a pulley rail in the utility room as our garden isn't huge but please do hang your washing out.

In our last house, our lovely next door neighbour asked if I would ming not hanging underwear out as 'it upset' her husband. grin

This made me pmsl. Her husband must be living in the dark ages. Buy some really sexy knickers and hang them outside. That’ll either shut him up or give him a heart attack 😂😂

TanaMa Fri 31-Mar-23 11:31:20

Another one here who hangs all my washing out, weather permitting.
A pity one can usually not get out the required retorts, being too gobsmacked that a neighbour could be so rude. Being a bit if a rebel where my rights are concerned, I would have a line if washing out every day, including my undies - even if they were old clothes and hadn't actually been washed!! Where do these sanctimonious di-gooders come from?

Otis Fri 31-Mar-23 11:24:19

How very rude of her. I nearly always hang my washing out, weather permitting. I personally don't like the dryers with several lines. mine is one line across the garden with everything on display. If someone doesn't like what is on it then they shouldn't be looking into my garden !!

cc Fri 31-Mar-23 11:23:35

I think it's insane to suggest it's wrong or unhygienic to hang your washing outside! We live in a flat and our lease states that we're not allowed to hang washing on the balcony. I think this is a hangover from the idea that only council tenants hang everything out on balconies which in itself is ridiculous.

I get round this by having a low drying rack behind the wall, or by laying larger items like duvet covers out over the table and chairs. Towels dry pretty well over chairs too.

I don't think that it's possible to dry a superking duvet cover in a tumble dryer without having a long ironing job afterwards, but a sun-dried duvet is crease-free enough for me.

I think that I'll put hooks in the walls of the balcony when the weather gets hot and claim that the hanging sheets are hanging in front of the windows to keep the room cool!

March1 Fri 31-Mar-23 11:11:55

Oh gosh. Hang it out with pride. Sunlight is anti bacterial. Nothing like a good drying day. It raises my spirits. Need to get out moresmile

Delila Thu 30-Mar-23 11:09:08

Before completely cutting her off I’d have to ask her what she thinks is unhygienic about hanging washing outdoors!

biglouis Thu 30-Mar-23 08:15:02

Well I would be taking the advice of some other posters and buying (second hand) and putting out some really embarassing items - very big bloomers, split crotch panties or a few pairs of long johns!

But then I am wicked that way.

No neighbour tells me what to do.

Shel69 Thu 30-Mar-23 07:47:03

Take no notice, if she has nothing better to do than look at clean washing she's in need of a life, my friend has a neighbour like that, there's always one up themselves in every street, the best laugh my Friend had was when they housed a family in the street with lots of kids, they put a clothes horse out the front garden full of nice clean washing, and still do

TillyTrotter Thu 30-Mar-23 07:40:18

I would ignore her as she is probably a generally unfriendly, opinionated person.
Hanging washing on garden lines is as popular as ever it was - well round here it is anyway - and we have a mix of neighbours young and older.

Katyj Thu 30-Mar-23 07:26:14

What is wrong with people these days. So very rude! Put your washing out it’s the best thing ever for the environment and freshness never mind helping with your bills. I think sometimes it’s laziness anyway, it’s probably easier to put them in a dryer with very little ironing needed.
I got a full line dry yesterday it felt great.

cornergran Thu 30-Mar-23 03:50:12

Our late teen granddaughter berates her Dad for using a heated airer rather than a line. So no, drying washing outside isn’t just for mature folk.

Ours goes outside when the weather permits, always has. My ma in law back in the early 1970’s often did a sneaky wash on a Sunday to be hung out on Monday morning. I say sneaky because while laundry on a Sunday was frowned upon in her village there was an unofficial competition on Monday mornings to get the laundry out first and no, she didn’t always make it . grin.

rafichagran Thu 30-Mar-23 01:46:03

I hang out washing, and I do not hide my underwear.
As for the nosey neighbour, she would be told if she did not look, she would not be offended.
Your neighbour sounds pretentious, ignorant and extremely stupid.

pieinthesky Thu 30-Mar-23 00:44:20

Can’t speak for North Cheshire but here in West Cheshire lots of us hang our washing out. The air here is cleaner than where we used to live in London but I always hung my washing out there.It’s a far more environmentally conscious as well as an economic way to dry washing and also there are clothes that I never tumble dry.I find it easier to iron sheets etc that have been line dried as they don’t get so creased.

Doodledog Thu 30-Mar-23 00:28:37

Yes, my daughter hangs hers out. She's just had her 30th birthday.

Chestnut Thu 30-Mar-23 00:22:33

Patsy70

No, definitely not an ‘old ladies’ thing. My daughter and daughter in law have always hung washing outside, since they were in their 20s, including a variety of underwear! 😉
Remember the line of terry towelling nappies blowing in the breeze?

I was thinking more of people in their 20s or 30s now, a completely different generation. I'm sure some youngsters will hang washing out but maybe not the majority?

aonk Wed 29-Mar-23 22:27:39

I very rarely hang out my washing. I only do so in very warm settled weather. As I’m out for at least part of every day I don’t want to risk it getting wet.

Pudding123 Wed 29-Mar-23 20:16:17

Another one here who hangs her washing out whenever the weather allows including all the underwear.
My neighbour and I positively love the first time our bedding and towels are dried in the first sunshine of the year.

Doodledog Wed 29-Mar-23 19:43:18

Beechnut

I just had to sing that Doodle 🤣🤣

Don't encourage him grin

Patsy70 Wed 29-Mar-23 19:06:52

No, definitely not an ‘old ladies’ thing. My daughter and daughter in law have always hung washing outside, since they were in their 20s, including a variety of underwear! 😉
Remember the line of terry towelling nappies blowing in the breeze?

pinkprincess Wed 29-Mar-23 19:03:55

Would teller to shut her mouth

buffyfly9 Wed 29-Mar-23 18:59:09

Tell your nosy neighbour to get a life! She must be extremely thick if she thinks hanging washing outside is unhygenic. We live next door but one to the Vicarage. One day my lovely white washing was out and the Vicar decided to burn some noxious material in his back garden. It was a Sunday afternoon and I had to get it as it was covered with black spots. My husband (atheist) went round there and complained that he was smoking us out (it was indoors too!) . Vicar said " oh, I didn't think people washed clothes on a Sunday". I cannot repeat my husband's reply, suffice to say it was out out immediately and he never did it again. Stay strong, stick two fingers up to the neighbour and hang your stuff out. !!

BlueBelle Wed 29-Mar-23 18:39:43

Everything goes out, knickers and all, no one else’s business
My daughter hangs all her washing out so not sure it’s an ‘old lady’ thing

MiniMoon Wed 29-Mar-23 18:23:56

I have a washing line across my garden. Unfortunately we have shared pedestrian access with our neighbours and I really don't like blocking the pathway with sheets, duvet covers and DH's trousers etc.
I have just purchased a rotary washing line that I can fold up when I'm not using it. I'm waiting for my son in law to erect it for me.

Hetty58 Wed 29-Mar-23 16:51:18

I'd be inclined to hang my washing out at every possible opportunity - just to annoy her. What a damned cheek!

Still, right now it's on an airer in the garage (drizzly here), in winter it's in the little laundry room - where I run a dehumidifier (cheaper than a tumble drier) - and in summer, in the garden under a pergola. I'm wary of getting too much pollen on it, though, as I have hay fever. The sunshine kills many germs.

There's always the odd neighbour - or two who seem to think that they own the rest of the street as well. I ignore them when possible. In my case, there's an ongoing squabble about who parks outside my house. I refuse to comment or be involved. I don't have a car but do have a drive for visitors - so couldn't care less.

Beechnut Wed 29-Mar-23 16:36:49

I just had to sing that Doodle 🤣🤣