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Caramme Wed 29-Mar-23 10:40:31

It’s overcast here in N Cheshire this morning but I have risked putting my washing out on the line. Fingers crossed it will dry as I am fed up with damp stuff hanging around in my spare bedroom. These days my neighbour, also in her early 70s, and I are the only people who do actually hang washing outside. I assume others use tumble driers but I am wary of the costs of running these.
Last summer, one of my new neighbours who had just moved into a new build semi next-door-but-one said, ‘Oh yes, you’re the lady who puts her washing outside. My gran used to do that, but it doesn’t look very nice does it? No one wants to look at someone else’s washing. And it’s unhygienic.’ I was rendered speechless. Perhaps that was my first experience of passive aggression. She has ignored me ever since. For the record I do not ever put underwear on the line and my garden is relatively private. It upset me at the time as it was so unfriendly. I dried everything indoors for the rest of the year. I am wondering if I am doing the right thing by starting to dry my washing outside once more. It is just unacceptable these days?

Caramme Wed 29-Mar-23 12:20:14

Thank you all. I feel heartened and determined to return to using my washing line. I might even risk the underwear. For now though it’s started to rain so have had to bring it all indoors.

Salti Wed 29-Mar-23 12:20:05

I have always hung my washing out given half decent weather. If I had the neighbour who had the husband who got upset I would just have to find some really "weird" underwear from somewhere to randomly hang out in full view regularly when I didn't need my lines for proper washing. shock I'm just a horrible person at timeswink

Calendargirl Wed 29-Mar-23 12:20:03

Ridiculous!

And why shouldn’t it be hung out front if it’s your own space?

We have a car port and on a rainy wash day my washing is hung under it to give the clothes a bit of a blow.

Hope the postman isn’t traumatised if he has to pass my DH’s underpants, or my knickers!

But I do try and put them at a more discreet angle than say the towels or pillowcases.

Lexisgranny Wed 29-Mar-23 12:17:16

How extremely rude and ignorant of your neighbour. Please don’t let your crass remarks influence you.

You have a perfect right to hang anything you want to on your line. Weather permitting like others my washing goes out all the year round, as does that of my neighbours.

On a lighter note, as a newly married I used to live next to a lady in her fifties of, shall we say, more than ample proportions. Every wash day she hung out the same teeniest tiniest lace bra and pants!

Greenfinch Wed 29-Mar-23 12:12:46

Growing up everyone in our road would hang their washing out and if it rained or there was a bonfire we would bring in our neighbours’ washing. I don’t think that would be acceptable nowadays.

Ziplok Wed 29-Mar-23 12:12:27

Ignore that silly and rude neighbour, Caramme, and continue to hang out your washing weather permitting.
There’s nothing comparable to the smell of freshly dried washing dried outdoors. As for unhygienic? 🤷‍♀️. Well, I can only imagine she might be thinking if it gets soiled by a passing bird! Annoying, yes, but if that happens, the item is washed again. Simples.
No, you hang out your washing. 😁

BlueBalou Wed 29-Mar-23 12:11:58

Tell your neighbour to look the other way if that affronts her! What a stupid woman, I can only assume she and her husband don’t wear underwear?
I love the scent of laundry dried outside, there’s nothing nicer.

PerkyPiggy Wed 29-Mar-23 12:01:47

Weather permitting I have always hung out my washing and will continue to do so. Your neighbour sounds like an idiot. I avoid those.

Sueki44 Wed 29-Mar-23 11:59:29

How rude of your neighbour! I’m originally from the North East and for my Grandma, Monday was washing day. However she used to say that she wouldn’t hang it out too early in case people thought she’d washed it on a Sunday which was frowned on. Thank goodness times have changed!

Witzend Wed 29-Mar-23 11:54:56

What a daft, prissy, prudish attitude! Hyacinth Bucket on speed, IMO.

Reminds me of comments from my FiL’s new neighbours, after he moved into a newish house years ago now. One, hanging his washing out in the garden wasn’t ‘nice’, and two, he needed net curtains at his front windows - they didn’t look ‘nice’ otherwise. They actually tried to tell him that these were compulsory!!
I’m glad to say he blithely ignored the prudish old bags.

Delila Wed 29-Mar-23 11:52:07

I have two washing lines and make full use of them in good weather. I have a small tumble drier but only ever use it if I’m desperate for towels as it seems to shrink things, and it’s not eco-friendly.

I recently tried to buy clothes pegs in Wilko and the young shop assistant was incredulous - she asked me what on earth I needed them for in this day and age! Undaunted, I did manage to track some down though.

I’ve discovered one of my Victorian ancestors was an east-end “laundress”, so I think it’s in the genes. I love seeing my washing blowing in the breeze.

Wheniwasyourage Wed 29-Mar-23 11:43:39

Chestnut, why should it not be acceptable to hang out washing in the front garden? For some people it's the only garden they have! Agree that this stupid and rude neighbour is trying to get involved in something that is none of her business.

I hang mine out every time when I can - if it isn't wet or too icy to get safely along the path to the whirly - and hang underwear out with the rest. Like Shelflife I enjoy doing washing more than other household jobs, and hanging it out is one of the best bits.

Kim19 Wed 29-Mar-23 11:36:15

Such nonsense. Just do your own thing. I would have asked her if she had always been this rude or was it a new acquisition.

Chestnut Wed 29-Mar-23 11:34:03

There may be rules around washing if you live in a flat with balconies or a communal garden, and of course it's not acceptable to hang washing in the front garden, but in your own garden you are free to do as you wish. It is absolutely none of her business.

Georgesgran Wed 29-Mar-23 11:33:40

I’d buy the biggest pair of bloomers and run them up a flag post!

Seriously though, very rude and uncalled for. I wonder if she’s rubbed other neighbours up the wrong way too.

Shinamae Wed 29-Mar-23 11:27:31

How very bloody rude of her.I always hang my washing out and anybody who said anything against it would get short shrift from me..

Granmarderby10 Wed 29-Mar-23 11:24:11

Ha ha! Caramme. Yes I have the “overtheshoulderboulderholder” size, still I don’t give a hoot😊

Caramme Wed 29-Mar-23 11:16:53

I don’t put my underwear out because I am a DD cup. A bit of wind and they’d be off across the Cheshire plain like a couple of barrage balloons. Since I still have a condenser boiler and an airing cupboard I just lob them in there.

Granmarderby10 Wed 29-Mar-23 11:16:40

Caramme your new neighbour in her newly built house is a freak
Believe me there is nothing finer than freshly washed laundry from the line both for you and the environment. I Can’t wait for those drying days to arrive.😀

and

kittylester Oooooh! So glad that wasn’t my neighbour😤, are you sure it was her husband that got upset by your washing?….just a thought.

Caramme Wed 29-Mar-23 11:12:40

biglouis

I would probably have gone nuclear and told her to mind her own bl***y business. I hate whining neighbours.

Ha ha! I had loads of really clever answers for her, but only after I was back in my own sitting room. Too late.

J52 Wed 29-Mar-23 11:09:36

Whatever next! I hang all my washing out on a good day, underwear as well.
Do some people avoid the underwear section of M&S? Do they buy underwear with their eyes shut? I’d be very worried if my DH said the sight of underwear upset him.
Not only are tumble dryers bad for the environment they also expel microplastics into our water and eventually into everyone’s body. ( I know I’ve mentioned this before)
I have a very fast spin washing machine which leaves the washing damp and put on the indoor airer overnight. Even jumpers dry overnight.

biglouis Wed 29-Mar-23 11:07:59

Is she has recently moved in then its not for her to comment on what the established residents do. I would very quickly have reminded her of her place in the pecking order.

Jaxjacky Wed 29-Mar-23 11:07:27

Ours goes outside on an airer, underwear on full display, we can do what we like in our garden, silly woman.

Whitewavemark2 Wed 29-Mar-23 11:05:12

Blimey 😄😄. It would never occur to me to “hide” my underwear.

Neither does it occur to me to notice whether and what a neighbour has hung out on their line.

Sara1954 Wed 29-Mar-23 11:05:07

Your neighbor is rude and ignorant.
I hang everything out whenever I can, I love the smell of it when it’s been outside.
My washing line isn’t visible to anyone, but everything goes on, knickers, bras, the lot.
If you ask me your neighbor is too idle to peg it out.