Does anyone think of themselves as a "typical" Gransnetter? I certainly don't, unless you restrict it to female, over 50, and with Grandchildren, but I don't think that's what you mean, as you're clearly referring to shared life experiences. As for the idea of some being "unfortunate" whilst you are "fortunate", that's also a very subjective judgement, as "into every life a little rain must fall", so where do you make the cut-off? Infinite variables apply, so "typical" doesn't really feature in any meaningful sense, other than within the very limited parameters I've described.