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No more kisses, I cannot stand it, it has to stop!

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Scribbles Sat 22-Apr-23 19:29:25

I wouldn't expect kisses from anyone who isn't a close friend and I don't want to be "blessed". But even less do I want to be told to "stay safe". It started during the pandemic and it sets my teeth on edge. Life isn't safe; get over it!

seadragon Sat 22-Apr-23 19:24:45

A major Covid bonus for me, I hereby confess, is that perfect strangers, on first introduction, no longer grab me and try to kiss me on both cheeks. That all started a few years ago for some mysterious reason. Even the family dog knew not to try and kiss me!!

Jaxjacky Sat 22-Apr-23 19:24:04

They do silverlining to their peers, children, everyone! It seems to be endemic, it’s annoying.

grannyqueenie Sat 22-Apr-23 19:22:35

Me too Kitty, I have to be careful when writing anything formal as I go into automatic mode! x

BlueBelle Sat 22-Apr-23 19:19:51

I always add kisses but try to remember not to to people that aren’t personal to me I certainly don’t in business notes
The ‘bless you’ drives my daughter absolutely crackers, me too but I m not quite as passionate about it as she is

silverlining48 Sat 22-Apr-23 19:18:07

I was ‘blessed’ by a young woman while doing a pedicure ( my first in 4 years) this week.
It sounds patronising though assume it’s well meant but do these young women also say Aw bless to younger people? I rather think not .

Theexwife Sat 22-Apr-23 19:16:55

The kiss could have been a mistake, I tend to end a text with a kiss to friends and family and have automatically done it when I didn’t intend to.

I started getting blessed when I reached 60, the person saying it means no harm but I do agree that it is irritating.

kittylester Sat 22-Apr-23 19:15:44

Oops, sorry Sago, but I find it really difficult not to add 'xx' to any email I send, even business type ones.

Blondiescot Sat 22-Apr-23 19:14:58

No you are not, on either count. I totally agree. I wouldn't expect anyone who is acting in any kind of professional capacity to add kisses to an email.

Hithere Sat 22-Apr-23 19:14:14

Same as religious people putting references to God in every situation- i learned to ignore it

Sago Sat 22-Apr-23 19:11:39

I’ve just liaised with a local councillor on line.
We have never met, I have never spoken to her in person and she signed off with a kiss.

Why do people and I assume she is reasonably bright think it is appropriate to use kisses at the end of texts and emails?
She is about 50!

Whilst I am ranting the other thing that has to stop is “Bless You” I bought a new phone the other week the sales assistant “blessed” me about 20 times, I think I’ve got a first class ticket to heaven.

I don’t want to be blessed or kissed, I want it to stop.

Am I being unreasonable?