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You’re never going out looking like that?

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Foxygloves Wed 31-May-23 07:30:53

How many of us had that ringing in our ears in our teens when our Mum or Dad saw us dressed to go out?
I remember my mums insistence that I change out of my jeans, tucked into knee length black suede boots which I was wearing with my snazzy little leather bomber jacket -if I wished to accompany her into town on a shopping trip. (Dear Mum did tend towards the Ladybird Peter and Jane school of dress for shopping. )
I cannot imagine what she would have made of this style statement.
But I am happy to say neither my father nor DH would have even thought about walking the dog dressed like this. Carrie really needs to have a word.

Callistemon21 Wed 31-May-23 11:19:46

Marydoll

Yesterday, DH and I went for a run down the coast and DD asked me to send a photo of DH, to check his attire.
He is well known for his lack of sartorial elegance and he has a tendency to favour black everything.

After a few suggestions from me and a change of clothing, he was reasonably presentable and was allowed out. 😉

😁

Marydoll
DH often says "You'd better tell me if this matches before we get to the front door"

He sometimes reminisces about a boss he had years ago whose wife apparently used to lay out the clothes she wanted him to wear while he was in the shower.

Auntieflo Wed 31-May-23 11:15:12

Marydoll my DH belongs to the 'anything goes' type of apparel. I think he is colour blind, particularly the last couple of days. Doesn't take any notice of my comments, but I suppose after nearly 62 years of marriage, I have learnt to live with it, and him. 😍
My friend and their two daughters used to stand at the bottom of the stairs on Sunday mornings, and chorus, "you're not going out like that, are you?" to her DH, when on the way to Church.

eddiecat78 Wed 31-May-23 11:14:10

My mother once watched me ironing some jeans prior to an evening out and informed me I would never get a boyfriend if I didn't wear a nice dress. I was about to spend the evening with a group of Young Farmers - I've been married to one of them for 45 years

Callistemon21 Wed 31-May-23 10:59:22

Who else 🤔

Oh 😲 did you think I meant Boris?
No, I only have eyes for Dilyn

Mollygo Wed 31-May-23 10:55:24

Callistemon21

He's so cute!! I love him!!
Shaggy-haired and sweet.
I want him 🙂

I haven’t read the whole thread, please tell me you mean the dog!

Foxygloves Wed 31-May-23 10:49:43

Dilyn I hope gringrin

Callistemon21 Wed 31-May-23 10:44:50

He's so cute!! I love him!!
Shaggy-haired and sweet.
I want him 🙂

Foxygloves Wed 31-May-23 10:29:42

Siope

He’s an adult. Why on earth is what he wears his wife’s responsibility?

I couldn’t care less what he - or anyone, including my husband, children and grandchildren - wears. It doesn’t harm anyone, or affect my life in the slightest.

And I can’t believe that in 2023, anyone believes that what an adult man wears is a matter for his wife to co

Oh lighten up Siope !

Marydoll Wed 31-May-23 10:23:26

I should have stressed my post was "tongue in cheek*. DH is his own man and usually does what he likes!

vintage1950 Wed 31-May-23 10:17:20

In the early 1970s I did a year's placement as an assistant teacher of English in Austria. A teacher (male, middle-aged and the father of four girls) objected strongly to my parka because the hood was trimmed with fake fur, and it was summer. I said I couldn't remove the fur trim, so he actually took the parka from me, tugged at the fur, and said I was quite right, it was stitched into the seam!

Aveline Wed 31-May-23 10:09:41

Objected not injected!

Aveline Wed 31-May-23 10:09:25

My parents never said outright that they injected to anything I was wearing but I do remember seeing them deliberately swallowing any objection. They did well. I remember wearing some appalling things eg a jet black nylon wig or my red leather hot pants!
Cheap and nasty huge fake eyelashes to a severe Church of Scotland service one holiday was a particular low point. I must have looked like a 14 year old pantomime dame. confused

Grandma70s Wed 31-May-23 10:02:26

My mother never objected to what I wore, but my professor (head of department when I was a young university lecturer) used to tell me not to wear such short skirts. I thought ‘Silly old man” - he was about 45 - and went on wearing exactly what I liked. It really wasn’t his business.

My sister in law had a very dictatorial father. She used to change her clothes in a telephone box once she was out of his sight.

M0nica Wed 31-May-23 09:54:06

DH and DS are both of a build - very broad shouldered large bodies and short legs - (only one is overweight) that means they tend to look 'casually' dressed, no matter what they wear.

They have the wisdom to avoid the Boris look by not wearing shorts unless on a beach, but otherwise cultivate the casual, building labourer look, as being as good as anything, given their builds. Fortunately both chose professions where this look is entirely normal.

I am a smarter dresser, but I have never tried to influence what DH wears, not even a hint, which he wouldn't notice any way!

MiniMoon Wed 31-May-23 09:49:32

I showed the picture to my husband. He said, "well, what's wrong with that?"

Jaxjacky Wed 31-May-23 09:39:49

If my husband tried to ‘inspect’ me before I went out he’d get a blunt answer, good grief!

fancythat Wed 31-May-23 09:34:41

I got the good underwear thing for a bus too.
Reminded my mum recently. She cant remember.

luluaugust Wed 31-May-23 09:32:43

It's the shirt hanging out that gets me grin
A friend nd I were saying yesterday that we wished we hadn't gone out in 4" heels as we might not have such bad backs now!

Siope Wed 31-May-23 09:31:29

Oh for pities sake - must proof read!

Siope Wed 31-May-23 09:30:58

He’s an adult. Why on earth is what he wears his wife’s responsibility?

I couldn’t care less what he - or anyone, including my husband, children and grandchildren - wears. It doesn’t harm anyone, or affect my life in the slightest.

And I can’t believe that in 2023, anyone believes that what an adult man wears is a matter for his wife to co

Louella12 Wed 31-May-23 09:23:28

TillyTrotter

Reaction to the BJ photo - what a lovely dog 😜?

Exactly what I thought 😀

Foxygloves Wed 31-May-23 09:04:26

Wouldn’t want to meet anyone looking like that on a dark night on Rosie’s bedtime walkie hmm

Mollygo Wed 31-May-23 09:04:16

Galaxy

My dog is up at 6. I put a coat over my pyjama top, dont brush my hair and pull some joggers on.

Me too, except at 7 am. At the moment it’s warm enough at 7 to not need a coat, so I feel honour bound to add a bra and top instead of my coat.

GrannyGravy13 Wed 31-May-23 08:51:33

Give the man a break he is walking the dog.

So pleased that I have never been papped

Juliet27 Wed 31-May-23 08:50:19

When I first looked at the small picture I thought ‘aww, he’s just a daft old codger’ but then I increased it and then thought ‘my god that’s the man who was in charge of this country, no wonder we’re in such a mess!’
Yes sweet little dog - doesn’t deserve its owner.