I can't remember what my first post was, I was pretty much on GN since its inception, way back in 2011 I think? I'd been on MN before that, mostly for the book threads, that's where I'm usually found
I think it was suggested that maybe the oldies might like to shift themselves over to the new sister site GN and stop cluttering up MN , something like that, but a bit more diplomatic. I was actually a quite youngish mid 50 something, a veritable youngster back then, although I had become a new first time grandma around that time, so I thought I'd give it a go, it did seem altogether more restrained that MN, which is a bit like the wild west in comparison, although I'd say there have been the occasional "shoot outs" on GN too.
I do remember some of the legendary posters like Greatnan and Jing who both could be a bit scary at times but I was sorry to hear of their deaths particularly GN whose accidental fall in the mountains she loved where she loved to walk killed her, I think that left many of us reeling.
Lovely to see you posting again Urmstongran, I think many of us enjoy your up beat posts and great sense of humour
sorry to hear of the worrying time you have had lately.