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NanKate Mon 10-Jul-23 07:54:10

A few years back I started one or two new threads which brought up some very interesting comments. As many of the contributors are no longer on GN I thought I would see what the present Gransnetters have to say. So here goes.

How does my jewellery get knotted up when I place it in one of my jewellery boxes ?🤔

I have a very visual memory and I view the year in the shape of an egg lying down/elipse shape. Starting from bottom right I see September, moving up and round we move through Autumn and at the top in the middle is December, moving down now and round the egg shape we come to Spring and so on. Have I lost you yet with my odd description ? How do you view the year? The week goes from left to right in a straight line.

0ddOne Wed 12-Jul-23 19:35:41

I don't see the year as you do but like others here, I've always seen the days of the week as different colours, most months have a colour too. I've recently discovered (at age 60) that I'm on the autistic spectrum and apparently this is quite a usual trait for autistics to have. It's called synesthesia and has many forms. I also experience ASMR and this, along with the synesthesia, always made me feel like the odd one out growing up (no one else I knew experienced these). It's still nice to know I'm not alone in my oddness! Lol!

biglouis Tue 11-Jul-23 22:45:41

I have a lot of jewellery for my online shops. Each necklace is kept (fastened) in a separate poly bag so there are no others for it to tangle up with. Thats how I ship them. So they should arrive at the customer with no tangles.

paddyann54 Tue 11-Jul-23 22:18:23

In this house its the naughty fairy who tangles chains and my lovely GD who sits patiently with two pins untangling them .They are then put back in their boxes and into a drawer and most wont see the light o day until the fairy has done her work when Miss K will get out the pins and do it all again .

NanKate Tue 11-Jul-23 22:08:05

I love your description grandetante 👍

AreWeThereYet Tue 11-Jul-23 17:56:21

Jess20 How weird - I'm a bit like that. I can differentiate between things that happened very recently and things that happened a long time ago but really have no concept of when. I know if it happened at the same time as something else but years and dates really have no meaning. I can remember dates like birthdays no problem.

We often joke that if I ever needed an alibi for the police I would need MrA to remind me of what was happening at about that time so I could work it out.

Gundy Tue 11-Jul-23 17:16:07

I’ve never thought of days of the week as colors. For me more of a crescendo, but not musical.

If I attached colors to my days, here’s how:
• Monday - light green, soft start to the week
• Tuesday - yellow, proceed with social
• Wednesday - orange, keep going, you’re on a roll
• Thursday - blue, a rest day if needed
• Friday - purple, best day, “date” night, social, friends
• Saturday - red, last chance to tie up the week - whatever you feel like!
• Sunday - grey, NEVER on Sunday

Thank you for making me think of my retirement days. This was fun!
USA Gundy

grandtanteJE65 Tue 11-Jul-23 16:38:08

I love school as a child, so the year began in September, and I visualized it as sloping gently down like a hill to a valley where my November birthday, Christmas and the New Year lay shining brightly. January to April a dark, dreary slog uphill.

May to September moderately interesting, but by the time the Scottish school holidays had wound their way from around June 21st to August, and there still was a whole month to get through, I was very bored indeed.

Callistemon21 Tue 11-Jul-23 16:08:11

Wyllow3

nanna8 the time speed up thingummy bob.

I sort of worked out it out the older you get, the more years accumulate, the smaller and quicker any time segment gets like "from now to Christmas".

Hence when you are age 6, 6 weeks summer holiday is a greater segment of time relative to your time lived and feels "forever".

I've not put this very well I hope people get it but apparently "time speed up" is a psychologically recognised function many of us feel.

Yes!

Great thinking, that would explain it.

Callistemon21 Tue 11-Jul-23 16:07:17

NanKate

Here I will add another dimension to this thread Revisiting inanimate objects which seem to have a life of their own.

I’m quoting from another Gransnetters who said she could never leave a baked bean in a tin whilst putting them in a saucepan, as she thought he/she/it would be lonely 😩

I sometimes think of inanimate objects having a life of their own. I know the men in white coats will be collecting me soon. 😳

Me too.

I talk to the doorstop (well he is an owl) and other inanimate objects.

Wyllow3 Tue 11-Jul-23 16:04:26

nanna8 the time speed up thingummy bob.

I sort of worked out it out the older you get, the more years accumulate, the smaller and quicker any time segment gets like "from now to Christmas".

Hence when you are age 6, 6 weeks summer holiday is a greater segment of time relative to your time lived and feels "forever".

I've not put this very well I hope people get it but apparently "time speed up" is a psychologically recognised function many of us feel.

NanKate Tue 11-Jul-23 15:57:46

Here I will add another dimension to this thread Revisiting inanimate objects which seem to have a life of their own.

I’m quoting from another Gransnetters who said she could never leave a baked bean in a tin whilst putting them in a saucepan, as she thought he/she/it would be lonely 😩

I sometimes think of inanimate objects having a life of their own. I know the men in white coats will be collecting me soon. 😳

NanKate Tue 11-Jul-23 15:51:46

Snap JdotJ. My year goes round anti-clockwise too, but mine starts bottom Right of me egg shape starting with September. As I used to teach that always seems the beginning of the year to me.

Jess20 Tue 11-Jul-23 15:18:33

Oddly I've always found it hard to manage thinking about the past and present without the visual representation of a diary or calender. I understand intellectually the passing of time, history both recent and remote, but find I'm very stuck in the present. Very odd and I've only recently understood quite how odd it is. I can plan for appointments and deadlines but it's by having a copy of my diary either in real form or pictured in my head. Probably something to do with being dyslexic. Most days are either blue, yellow or grey depending on what they are filled with.

Ohmygoodness54 Tue 11-Jul-23 15:17:12

This is the first time I have been tempted to post, after enjoying just reading for some time.

I have a friend who sees colours for each musical note. She remembers the notes to tunes that she plays in order of the colours. Fascinating!

Personally my days of the week are in a line from left to right. The year is a circle, with January at the top going clockwise, no idea why 🤔.

Granmarderby10 Tue 11-Jul-23 14:49:28

Monday is light orange Tuesdays is blue, Wednesday a dark orange, Thursday is dark red Friday a dirty rusty brown, Saturday a lighter red Sunday a bright white neon sign.
These are immutable facts.😃

montymops Tue 11-Jul-23 14:36:47

I see the year as a flat circle with months going round clockwise. I am watching from a distance! I see numbers in a definite pattern too - the line snakes around going up,along, down, round bends, turning back, in an endless line . 😂😂

Supergranuation Tue 11-Jul-23 14:25:47

I once read on here that if you do necklaces up they don't get tangled. Haven't tried it myself yet as I'd have to untangle them all first but if I ever get round to it I'll let you know!! I've not read all the comments so apologies if anyone has already suggested it smile

Mamma7 Tue 11-Jul-23 14:17:35

I see numbers as a clock face which continues from 12 to the right as a straight line - a very long line.
Months of year go from right to left in my head weirdly.
I have to have tv volume 11 or 22 or 33 etc
Jagged pointy edges get to me too - yikes!

p0Sy Tue 11-Jul-23 13:45:12

I see the days of the week as people, Monday is a baby in a buggy, Tuesday a small child at a party, Wednesday is an old person , doubled over with a stick, Thursday an old fashioned butcher in a boater, Friday is a fisherman, Saturday is a woman with a shopping bag and Sunday's a vicar. I don't know why. Maybe I had a wall chart as a child. They're all quite Enid Blytonesque in appearance.

Stillstanding Tue 11-Jul-23 13:43:05

I have synesthesia which started with seeing numbers as colours and whether the colour was pale or dark or shaded would elongate the number. When I was young my sister (the arty one) said this was because I needed bashing so I kept quiet about it for many years. I had it in the various forms that some people have mentioned here. It does wear off with age but I am now 78 and still have some of what I now believe is a gift. Certainly seeing year year as various shapes and even seeing people as certain colours is still with me. I cannot take to pale coloured people as I think they are hiding something and all through my life I have found myself to be totally unjustified in this way of thinking but I still cant help it.

It is definitely a gift. I was told this by a man who just came up to me in Oxford Street and held my hand and told me "you see colours" and we talked about it. It was in the sixties so for an old man to approach a teenager and discuss what you can see was acceptable. Im glad I listened to him because he taught me what a gift synesthesia is.

Sueki44 Tue 11-Jul-23 13:42:50

I too see days of the week as colours - some stronger than others! Wednesday is orange and Friday is red. Tuesday is green and Thursday yellow. Not surprisingly, Sunday is white!

Musicgirl Tue 11-Jul-23 13:19:11

I am a musician and have perfect pitch, which is very useful for a violinist/violist, although my principle instrument is the piano. I read music before I play it and hear it at pitch in my head in the same way I read words (l am a very aural learner). None of this is affected by my accompanying deafness (I wear two hearing aids). This has always been part of me, in the same way as having brown hair, and I thought all trained musicians did this. I was sixteen when I found out that this was not the case and relatively unusual, even among musicians. I have music on a continuous loop in my head all the time - different melodies so not earworms.
I also have synesthesia. I sense, rather than see, the musical notes and keys as different colours. C minor is black, D minor is indigo, F major is orange and G major is green, for example. I also get a sense of different scents for words when reading prose. Romance is a lovely word that conjures up the smell of roses and favourite gives me the smell of Ritz crackers!
I am also fairly ambidextrous. I write with my right hand but do most things with my left, including typing on the tablet. I am left footed and left eye dominant. Again, it’s useful for music as l don’t feel any difference in strength between the hands. It comes at a price, though. As an adult I have realised l have mild dyspraxia. As a child, I could read and spell anything and found maths quite easy from a very young age but found writing incredibly difficult - I was around two years behind with writing compared with reading and spelling - and finally taught myself to write legibly and neatly when I was sixteen. Not long ago, I asked my mother if I was very undecided about which hand to use when I was small. She said that she thought I probably was “but, of course, we encouraged the right hand.” I think if I had been left to my own devices I would probably have chosen the left hand. It was the thinking of the time and my mother is extremely conventional. Reading the above back, no wonder she has described me as eccentric since the day I was born. She is proud of my musical achievements, though.

Pjcpjc77 Tue 11-Jul-23 12:56:38

Completely lost.
However I do appreciate your post.

Katcoffee Tue 11-Jul-23 12:44:20

Oh I forgot. I hang chains now so they don’t tangle - very frustrating when they do

Katcoffee Tue 11-Jul-23 12:42:54

I’ve always seen days of the week as blocks in shades of grey from left to right. Wednesday is a large block (cuboid) whilst Saturday and Sunday are conjoined. I also see numbers the same way. I didn’t know others didn’t see like this until I was about 16 and mentioned it to friends who didn’t know what I was talking about. It’s nice to know there’s others out there.