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kircubbin2000 Sat 07-Oct-23 16:49:50

This morning , about 11.00,I bumped into a lady I used to see occasionally before covid.We spoke and remembered each other's names but as soon as I got home I took a complete blank and couldn't remember her name.
I was so annoyed I searched for old lady names and went through my address book but still a blank.
Now, at almost 5.00 her name and surname has just popped up in my brain! Not losing it after all which is a relief as I've just heard that 2 other friends have memory loss.

biglouis Sun 08-Oct-23 01:37:32

A few days ago I struggled to recall my landline number and had to look it up.

Its called age related recall problem.

Forgetfulness can be a normal part of aging. As people get older, changes occur in all parts of the body, including the brain. As a result, some people may notice that it takes longer to learn new things, they don't remember information as well as they did, or they lose things like their glasses. I often put down my door keys and experience mild panic if I cant immediately see them.

These usually are signs of mild forgetfulness, not serious memory problems, like Alzheimer's disease.

nanna8 Sun 08-Oct-23 04:05:25

My memory is dreadful and getting worse by the week so I do a lot of word games and read a lot to keep what remains. Someone told me that if you are worried you might have Alzheimers, you haven’t got it. I cling to that thought !

BlueBelle Sun 08-Oct-23 05:16:34

Nanna8 that’s what I cling on to I still do lots of puzzle games word and numbers and still good at them
(I still can’t remember the old boyfriends surname though)

Esmay Sun 08-Oct-23 09:02:05

When I'm walking down the road /on the bus /shopping someone will ask , hello , how are you ?

In between visiting a friend and meeting up with another on Friday a guy came into my friend's shop and seemed to know me .
I have absolutely no recollection of meeting him before .

Walking down to meet the other friend I met three people who all greeted me as an old friend .
Luckily , I remembered their names .
The only time , I've been thoroughly embarrassed is when my companion has said , aren't you going to introduce me to your friend ?!

Witzend Sun 08-Oct-23 09:10:10

With me it’s often the ‘delayed-action’ thing. Something I know I know (e.g. a word I need for a crossword) will come to me many hours later.

Sometimes there’s a mental block on something. For quite a while I had trouble ever recalling the name of a very common shrub in the garden - mahonia.
Eventually the ‘block’ disappeared, I have no idea why it either came or went.

kircubbin2000 Sun 08-Oct-23 09:24:16

I also forgot my pin number when Iwas shopping. It's a number I use in most of my passwords!
I had the numbers right but in the wrong order. Luckily I had enough cash.

nanna8 Sun 08-Oct-23 12:55:19

We have this awful weed which I have a mental block about. Just had to ask husband its name yet again though I have dealt with it for years and years-oxalis. Every day I pull some of it out and every time it rains - there it is in full strength again, flowering as well. Hate the rotten thing. Whatever I do, I forget it’s name.

Callistemon21 Sun 08-Oct-23 15:49:32

nanna8

We have this awful weed which I have a mental block about. Just had to ask husband its name yet again though I have dealt with it for years and years-oxalis. Every day I pull some of it out and every time it rains - there it is in full strength again, flowering as well. Hate the rotten thing. Whatever I do, I forget it’s name.

I've been pulling oxalis out of pots this morning but really, it needs to be dug out because it grows from little bulbs under the surface.

There are worse weeds in my garden! Bindweed (what's it's proper name again?)

Callistemon21 Sun 08-Oct-23 15:50:08

And the one that grows feathery seeds .....

Aveline Sun 08-Oct-23 15:59:33

This thread is a huge relief to me! Thanks everyone.

biglouis Sun 08-Oct-23 16:10:59

I did a very stupid thing a few days ago. I nearly sent 1000 euro to the wrong recipient but fortunately the system flagged it up as an error. Ive been transferring money abroad with that service for about 10 years but I still made a silly mistake. Once sent it is not always possible to get the money back if you transfer it to the wrong recipient,

Ailidh Sun 08-Oct-23 16:21:41

I keep for the word "reflexology". I don't know why. I know what it is, I enjoy receiving it but sometimes in conversation I have to resort to "that foot massage thing". Odd.

kittylester Sun 08-Oct-23 17:11:04

www.alzheimers.org.uk/about-dementia/symptoms-and-diagnosis/how-dementia-progresses/is-it-getting-older-or-dementia

This is a link to deciding whether your memory problems are just age related or not.

Ailidh Sun 08-Oct-23 18:22:33

Ailidh

I keep for the word "reflexology". I don't know why. I know what it is, I enjoy receiving it but sometimes in conversation I have to resort to "that foot massage thing". Odd.

Haha! I keep FORGETTING!! That was a typo, not memory loss!

Ali08 Mon 09-Oct-23 04:18:31

kircubbin2000

I did try that but I was convinced her name began with S but I was wrong!

I was waiting for this comment!
The times I have forgotten a name, even my DD has, and we've been convinced it started with a particular letter and it didn't!!
I have always had a bad memory, so I'm not sure I, or anyone close to me, would realise if my memory started waning off!

4allweknow Mon 09-Oct-23 11:44:56

There is a plant in my garden no matter how many times I have tried to remember I have to go online to find the name. Even now I can't recall. I know it begins with G, is very common, but nope, complete blank. I call it stubborn memory loss.

Aveline Mon 09-Oct-23 11:50:46

Geranium?

Daddima Mon 09-Oct-23 11:54:44

My friend calls it joining the ‘Craft Club’.

Cant remember a f*#king thing!

Daddima Mon 09-Oct-23 11:55:22

Like the apostrophe in ‘can’t’.

Callistemon21 Mon 09-Oct-23 11:56:36

4allweknow

There is a plant in my garden no matter how many times I have tried to remember I have to go online to find the name. Even now I can't recall. I know it begins with G, is very common, but nope, complete blank. I call it stubborn memory loss.

Geum?

I normally forget that one
But intemembered it this time 😁

Callistemon21 Mon 09-Oct-23 11:57:14

I can spell, it's the computer

nipsmum Mon 09-Oct-23 12:09:42

I can remember what happened 10 years and more ago, just not where I usually keep simple everyday things in the kitchen that are used frequently.

Juicylucy Mon 09-Oct-23 12:17:07

It’s awfully scary. Sometimes my family think I do it on purpose to evade a situation. My diary is jam packed with everything and anything.

MadeInYorkshire Mon 09-Oct-23 12:34:56

Funnily enough, I went to have memory screening a couple of weeks ago!

I have a good long term memory, but since my daughter died I have been having more and more memory lapses and trying to find the right words. Eg. My carer came and remarked on how nice the garden looked and I said "It would look much nicer if it wasn't for the wardrobe"! The word I wanted was 'wheelbarrow'! Then the evening before the screening, I was on the phone to my mum - we were discussing the fact that she hadn't been contacted by the local Link Scheme about her lift to the doctors the following day. We then tested her phone answering machine, which didn't work, so I said I would call them and try and find out what was happening, and she went off to watch some programme on the tv. I called them, they had left a message she hadn't received, so I thought, I would call her back after the programme ended. Next thing I knew the following morning she rang and said that it didn't look like she had got a lift - I forgot to call her back! I am always doing this now, and cannot remember taking my tablets for example, hence the screening.

As I expected, I went through the questions etc like a dose of salts, no issues at all, yet I still can't remember stuff! I can still even remember the name and address she asked me to memorise! Saw GP last Friday and he thinks it's the depression and anxiety that is taking it's toll, and he said 'it's not dementia' which I suppose was at the back of my mind, so at least that is one thing!

Jillypops Mon 09-Oct-23 12:37:56

nouns! they are the very devil