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Most disliked words of phrases

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lizzypopbottle Sat 16-Dec-23 20:56:40

I just saw a headline about Anthony Armstrong Jones and his regular affairs. It said he had a secret 'love child' while married to Princess Margaret.

All three of my children were 'love children' but I was married to their father i.e. my husband. I really dislike the accepted idea of a 'love child' as the product of an illicit affair. What does that say about the child or children conceived and born within the marriage?

Do you have word of phrase you dislike?

Whiff Sun 17-Dec-23 06:38:43

Late husband. In life my husband was never late for anything. He died or is dead is the correct term.
Also when someone says someone has past. Past what ?

I am guilty of using late husband and hate when I have had to it.

In a moment. When they mean now.

Have a good day said by shop assistants.

BlueBelle Sun 17-Dec-23 06:43:00

‘It s what it is’ is the go to phrase at work sodapop 🤣
My hates are
Fur baby
Rainbow bridge
(both so sugary🤮)
Being called Hon by an unknown woman well anyone really but especially some lady I don’t know ie shop assistant etc

BlueBelle Sun 17-Dec-23 06:47:07

I thought it was Passed not past which makes a bit more sense Whiff 😂
Just remembered my absolute hate is when a man says WE are pregnant or WE gave birth NO You aren’t and NO you didn’t at best you had fun and then watched

Grannynannywanny Sun 17-Dec-23 06:59:35

Have a great rest of your day

I’ve heard that a few times lately. Mostly on the phone to call centres but occasionally at the supermarket checkout . It takes have a nice day to another level !

eddiecat78 Sun 17-Dec-23 07:31:53

I'm another who doesn't like "passed" rather than died (Passed what? The salt?)
Also when a man says THE wife, rather than My wife

Visgir1 Sun 17-Dec-23 09:14:50

Can't stand.. Yes.. 100%

Witzend Sun 17-Dec-23 09:16:34

At this time of year, ‘gifting’!I hate it and it’s everywhere, including in emails from the likes of Boots - ‘’Ace your gifting game!’ 🤬

maddyone Sun 17-Dec-23 09:17:30

I also dislike ‘passed’ instead of died

I also dislike ‘gained his/her wings’ or ‘angel wings,’ no, they’ve died

nanaK54 Sun 17-Dec-23 09:19:23

He/she 'turned around and said' - sheesh some people must be continually spinning

Germanshepherdsmum Sun 17-Dec-23 09:19:24

Oh yes BlueBelle, WE are pregnant. Ghastly phrase. 😡

Grammaretto Sun 17-Dec-23 09:23:15

Yes 100% 🤣
I agree Visgirl

It's the new training in Lidl grannynannywanny because so many shop after work in the dark.

Language changes though. We don't hear right every other word anymore or starting a sentence with so

Baggs Sun 17-Dec-23 09:50:14

Gosh! Er, no, I don't dislike gosh. I'm just amazed that people can be bothered to superlatively ("most dislike") phrases and words that are essentially inoffensive social WD40.

You all have a nice rest of your day now 😘

Chestnut Sun 17-Dec-23 10:03:25

Flowersinthegarden

Chestnut

sick - meaning cool or excellent, which is ridiculous.

Sick means you're ill or vomiting so how can it possibly mean something good.

It’s also a slang term. Slang terms can mean different things.

Yes, it can also mean in bad taste i.e. a sick joke but it always means something bad.

To twist it round to mean the opposite makes no sense to me at all. I've heard 'Shall we go to the beach today?' 'Ooh, yeah, sick'.

toscalily Sun 17-Dec-23 10:35:36

It is what it is
Sick (as above, revolting)
You know what I mean
See you later (no you won't)
I've got this!

Shelmiss Sun 17-Dec-23 10:36:55

“Hi, you ok?” - said by shop assistants. What happened to “can I help you?”

Galaxy Sun 17-Dec-23 10:40:25

Be kind

shysal Sun 17-Dec-23 10:51:46

Somebody using the word 'invite' when meaning 'invitation'.

silverlining48 Sun 17-Dec-23 11:55:31

I dislike passed for died too. Another Americanism we have picked up.

Also can I get instead of I would like. I always want to say yes it’s on the top shelf behind the counter.

Aw bless - probably meant well but to me it’s patronising

silverlining48 Sun 17-Dec-23 11:56:06

Being picky
Uni for university

FindingNemo15 Sun 17-Dec-23 12:05:14

Babe and hun.

Dickens Sun 17-Dec-23 12:13:11

MrsKen33

The ubiquitous WOW
You guys
Cool ( did that in the 60s)
Fur babies
Dog friendly ( what about humans?)

The ubiquitous WOW

I can tolerate that, but not:

WOW, just... WOW

Doodledog Sun 17-Dec-23 12:18:31

silverlining48

Being picky
Uni for university

'Uni' really irritates me, too. Specially when said by people too old to have used it when they were students. I think it was popularised by Australian soaps, and took a while to catch on in the UK, so anyone over a certain age will not have got used to using the term among their friends when thy were young. It sounds a combination of wanting to be 'down with the kids' and an affectation. Unreasonable, I know, but to me it's like hearing nails scratch a blackboard.

Also, 'purchased' instead of 'bought', particularly when talking about, say, a lipstick or bag of crisps, rather than a house or other large item. Even then, it sounds pseudo-legal - 'I purchased a property', rather than 'I bought a house', still sounds pretentious.

And while I'm on a roll, 'At the end of the day', 'I'll tell you what it is' (no, you'll give me your opinion) and 'I turned around and. . .' all annoy me.

Otherwise, I am remarkably tolerant and easy going grin wink

silverlining48 Sun 17-Dec-23 12:22:14

Oh yes all the turning round before saying anything.
There really is no need. hmm

Shelflife Sun 17-Dec-23 12:24:15

I too hate sat instead of sitting, I hear it so often from people who should know better, very unique also drives me mad!

Doodledog Sun 17-Dec-23 12:24:42

silverlining48

Oh yes all the turning round before saying anything.
There really is no need. hmm

At the end of the day, I was like 🤷‍♂️, so I turned around and like said that it is what it is.