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downtoearth Tue 09-Jan-24 10:53:58

This happened to me last night.

The phone number of my grandaughters work place showed,and I know she was working.

I was in a deepish sleep,and all sorts went through my mind,especially as my son is a night worker also.l answered the phone to be told her mobile wasnt working and she had her bus ticket on there and she had panicked.

The phone obviously was working at 07.30 this morning as she brighteyed and bushy tailed decide to wake me up again after taking hours to get back to sleep.

I feel exhausted and discombobulated,and several cups of tea have failed to put this right.
I think today is a write-off and I have physio later.

Has this ever happened to you?

halfpint1 Fri 12-Jan-24 11:48:24

My daughter was working in Egypt as a Travel Rep. She had
been on an evening airport run and they were returning when
the minibus was held up at gunpoint. As she was the only one in a uniform she got the gun to her head while they robbed
the passengers. The company sent her for therapy afterwards.
However I think I needed it as well after she rang me at 3 a.m.
to have a good cry.

Sennelier1 Fri 12-Jan-24 11:47:33

Oh yes, like when my son called me if I please could come and pick him up because train was cancelled. 30 km.away that was and at 2 a.m. It's all in a (grand)mother's life 🤷🏼‍♀️

Redcar Fri 12-Jan-24 11:44:10

My MiL was in hospital after a fall and one of the doctors rang at 1.30am to ask various questions about her and when she had been diagnosed with dementia. At that stage she hadn’t actually had a diagnosis although we suspected she had it. As the phone was on my bedside table I answered the call. DH slept through it!

Twig14 Fri 12-Jan-24 11:41:41

My elderly neighbours phone rang in the early hours of the morning a few years ago. She answered and a man was singing ‘I just called to say I love you’ she listened and then said I think you’ve got the wrong number. He was mortified and so apologetic!! We laughed over it

MadeInYorkshire Fri 12-Jan-24 11:37:33

Yes landline calls maybe 30 odd years ago now - our number one as digit removed form the local taxi drivers ... drove my dad insane!

Now that I am sick and disabled, have disastrous nights despite being heavily medicated, I'm worse than useless before around 10.30am, so get really cheesed off when someone from some office somewhere calls me in a very cheery voice at around 8.30am ... and woe betide my carers if they turn up before 10.30am too!

Nightsky2 Fri 12-Jan-24 11:35:08

We got a few calls in the small hours from the police to let my DH know that someone had put a brick through the office window. It happened a few times.
The police didn’t always wait and DH would let himself in to turn the alarm off in the pitch black.
I used to worry until he was back home in one piece. One was a very angry man who was going through a divorce and he did the same thing a few weeks later and was arrested. It was a long time ago but we would be awake for most of the night.

Chicklette Fri 12-Jan-24 11:30:52

During lockdown my DH had a very serious stroke. I wasn’t allowed inside the hospital with him and had to leave him at the door in a terrible state. I hardly slept that night (and indeed the whole time he was in). I finally fell asleep in the early morning, then the phone rang at 5am. I was convinced the hospital was ringing to say he’d died, but it was a really kind nurse who had rung to tell me he had just been transferred to another hospital.

He was in there for 2 weeks, without being allowed any visitors, but the good news is that he recovered completely. He’s almost like a normal person now!

Missiseff Fri 12-Jan-24 11:30:30

A few times

pen50 Fri 12-Jan-24 11:30:03

When my children were teenagers we lived out in the country, about two miles from the nearest bus stop. They knew that they could ring me any time, day or night, and I would come and get them, no questions or recriminations. I'm a light sleeper so getting going was not too difficult, even at three or four in the morning. I often found I had to deliver one or more of their friends home too; it amazed me that their parents were happy to leave them to dodgy minicabs, potentially drunken lifts, or worse...

mousemac Fri 12-Jan-24 11:25:21

I had a repetitive heavy breather at 2am while my twins were weeks old.
The house phone was next to the room where they slept and at 2am, with new babies, being woken any time was not favourite.
You couldn't leave the old phones off the hook, because after a fixed interval they would scream.
Finally we wrapped the phone in several towels every night and managed to shut it in the kitchen at the end of its string.

kwest Fri 12-Jan-24 11:23:51

This very morning my phone went at 04.58 . It wasn't the ring tone it was the message tone. I ignored it but it happened man times over the next hour. Finally as my phone was downstairs and I was upstairs I thought I had better see what was happening. the message was from my friend's phone and she would not do that sort of thing. There was no indication where the rest of the messages came from. I contacted my friend after 7am but it was not her who tried to message me and she lives alone. So I have no idea what that was about.

grannybuy Fri 12-Jan-24 11:21:27

Got calls in the early hours from a friend who’d become an alcoholic. Time meant nothing to him. In those days, my parents were alive, so I had to have contact.

TheMaggiejane1 Fri 12-Jan-24 11:21:21

The two times I have been woken up by the phone in the middle of the night was my SIL to tell me DD was in labour and would I go round and look after the older children so they could go to the hospital. At the time we lived about 30 minutes away and DD has fairly quick labours so it was a mad dash to pack a bag and get out of the house. Both labours were a few weeks early so the call wasn’t expected. It’s amazing how quickly you can wake up when you need to.

Mollygo Fri 12-Jan-24 11:21:15

Pre mobiles we used to get calls late evening or in the night, from people wanting a solicitor. Our number was almost the same and we eventually wrote down the correct one.
We either told them that they’d rung the wrong number or gave them the correct one.
Sometimes, if it was stupid o’clock and they’d woken me up, I’d ask what the problem was or how could I help before I told them.

Mallin Fri 12-Jan-24 11:21:01

My phone is on silent between midnight and 8 am. Only one person I know is likely to phone during those times and if so it would be because there’s an emergency, so her number is allowed to call. In the past 8 yrs she hasn’t had to

Nanatoone Fri 12-Jan-24 11:19:02

I had a late call saying my daughter (17) had been attacked. It was the same day that they found a young girl’s body (Milly Dowler). I have never moved so fast in my life. She luckily survived this random assault (sexual). Knowing what happened to Milly helped me to deal with it, I was so grateful to have her still with us. My BIL died at 5 am one NYE, so that was another one and recently my sister died suddenly in the late evening. Late night calls scare me silly.

albertina Fri 12-Jan-24 11:16:31

After leaving teaching I worked on the shop floor in Tesco in Devon for a while. I was loading up the shelves on aisle 22 when a rather nice man stopped to asked me where a particular product was.

We ended up standing and talking for a long time (fortunately no supervisors around) He told me he lived in Dorset and was on his way home. There was such a lovely spark between us, I felt sad when he left the store.

I decided to put an ad in a local paper in Dorset. It said something along the lines of "Tesco lady on aisle 22 wishes she had got to know you better" and I included my phone number.

He didn't ring, but one morning at 3am my phone rang and it was a woman on the line. She said " I saw your ad in the paper. Did you want to have sex with him ? " She rattled on rather madly for a while till I told her she was crazy and put the phone down.

Buttonjugs Fri 12-Jan-24 11:13:05

But did she find her phone or get a bus ticket? 😟

cookiemonster66 Fri 12-Jan-24 11:12:51

there is a latest scam going round where supposed relatives, kids etc say phone not working, been robbed, this is their new number send money to get home, I have had them call / text me a few times saying it is my daughter and she needs help, be very careful especially now with the new AI phones they can even recreate loved ones voices

Summerfly Wed 10-Jan-24 00:09:36

That made me laugh out loud Gwyllt. 😂

hollysteers Tue 09-Jan-24 23:34:19

My late BIL became confused at the end of his life in a nursing home and would phone me during the night. He thought my DH was still alive (who’d had dementia). I’m a night owl anyway so I just chatted as if nothing was unusual, but the calls always gave me a start.

Charleygirl5 Tue 09-Jan-24 23:11:37

My landline used to be one digit different from the local pizza shop. Heaven knows when they closed because occasionally I would receive calls from children around 1 am.

I got so fed up that I started to say "This is X police station, how may I help you?" After a few weeks, I thought perhaps I should stop that because I am sure the local police get food delivered and I would be in trouble impersonating the police!

It stopped at the start of Covid so sorry, you will have to look elsewhere!

Gwyllt Tue 09-Jan-24 22:58:23

Pre having a mobile I answered my landline in the wee small hours and this very sexy voice said “hello Suzie get your kit of and I’ll be round in half an hour”
I told him what a fantastic offer and asked him who he was
“Oh he replied your not Suzie are you. “
Unfortunately not was my response
A very apologetic guy said Sorry.

Imarocker Tue 09-Jan-24 21:41:37

My mobile is on 24/7 and sits next to my bed. Many was the night when my mother would ring at 2.00am to say she had a headache and could I go give her a paracetamol. She would also manage to lie on her emergency call bracelet and we would rush round to find her fast asleep and oblivious to the fact that we were there. She died in June and I almost miss those call outs.

downtoearth Tue 09-Jan-24 19:41:38

I don't have a landline,I dont like to turn my phone off overnight in case of emergency for my grandaughter,or my son,or for myself as I live alone and it stays by my bed.

My grandaughter has been reminded tonight as to what constitutes an emergency,and that nanny needs her sleep.