I got the bus home from school, alone, at 8. Mum met me at the bus stop as was a very busy road. Was also out and about on my bike at this age with the neighbours children!
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(140 Posts)In London I walked alone to primary school from the age of about 8. At 10 I took the 629 bus to dance classes about 30 minutes away, (Haringey). I think I was about 12 when I took the tube alone.
I could walk across the town to school when I was five . I took the bus for the second part of the road to school when weather was bad. Bus tickets were saved by all children for making card concertinas, valued possessions.
aged 5 was walking to school without an adult, walked with friend 6 months older than me, travelled by bus at 7, a 20 minute journey followed by a 15-20 minute walk down a busy high street, couldn't see my grandchildren coping with this
Where we lived is the outskirts of Liverpool it was farm land then. We spent days on end out of the house school holidays and weekends. Our dad worked shifts in the car factory so my mum packed us off with jam butties and dilute orange. We spent most of our days foraging all manner of things. We could have easily got into danger playing on building sites too.
We had to walk nearly two miles to our secondary school. I didn’t use buses much I was often travel sick. When I was 14 I got a Saturday job earning a pittance. It wasn’t much but I could afford the fare to go into town or visit our gran.
I used to walk to school on my own aged 5 . It was a couple of kms away. I caught buses by myself from about 9. That was London but things were safer then. Not many people had cars. My kids used to walk up to school here in Australia at about 6 years old and catch buses and trains from about 11 or 12. No one thought of abductions etc but I remember being on a London bus in Forest Hill with a girlfriend at about 12 years old and this old bloke exposed himself to us. We burst out laughing and he got off at the next stop.
I walked to and from school, but got the bus to come home at lunchtime and get back in time. My mum used to pick me up and walk with me until I was seven and she had my brother. By that time, my sister was five, and had started school. I was responsible for seeing that she also got on the bus (a public bus, not a school one) and got home safely. I can't imagine a 7 year old being allowed/expected to do that nowadays.
The conductor was always the same man, who must have had a regular shift on the route that went from the school past our house. He was a kindly soul, and used to sell the children who got on (we weren't the only ones) tickets to Fairyland - they were 2d, if I remember correctly. I was capable of getting off at the right stop, but I'm sure that he would have reminded us if we forgot.
I can understand kids who live rural (little public transport or narrow dangerous roads) needing to be dropped off. I was just reading about a boy of 13 who had never travelled alone without an adult. He preferred to wait in the after school club for his 15 year old sister to finish an activity so he could travel home with her. Ill bet a 15 year old is soooo pleased having to baby her 13 YO brother.
I lived in a country area but not rural on a new housing development.
I walked to primary school with other children from the age of about 8 ... a mile each way. ... and let myself into an empty house when I got home. Parents both worked as we had no money, and I'd be alone in the house for a couple of hours.
At that age I was also allowed to go on my roller skates to the nearest parade of shops approximately half a mile away.
From the age of 5 I played out on the village green with other children.
I went on buses alone from the age of 8 into the nearest small country town.
I played in the local woods picking wild flowers with other children and climbing small trees - boys and girls - from the age of about 8.
I cycled about 3 miles each way on main roads to the lido aged probably 12. Had no cycle training but used common sense.
I caught the bus to the grammar school at the age of 11, and then had about 3/4 mile walk from the bus station.
Looking back I am amazed I was allowed to do much of this. I was more careful with my own children when I became a parent.
biglouis - how strange to read your post!
I grew up in Liverpool and it was only a few days ago, I was telling my son that I would travel into the city centre by bus to meet my Dad from work, it was my weekly treat! He worked in Water St!
I would have been 10/11.
Initially he would meet me at the bus stop but after a few times, I was quite happy to go to his office alone.
I'd also visit my Aunt who worked in a local department store...with a well known statue outside.
I felt SO grown up.
I lived in Manchester. At age 10, I would get the bus after leaving primary school and go in to Manchester city centre, to meet my grandmother. Age 11 I started at grammar school. This entailed a journey of three buses there, and three buses back. One of which included crossing one of the busiest roads in the city. Never thought anything about it. I did, however meet a flasher on the way home one day and just totally ignored him because that was what my grandmother had told me to do if anything like that ever happened. I now live near primary School. I have lived here for 20 years. When I first came here, I hardly saw any parked cars delivering children to school. My house is now surrounded(I live on a corner) twice a day, rain or shine by five cars and the rest of the road is chockablock. I live in a very quiet small town. Times have certainly changed unfortunately not for the better.
Aged 9 I was taking my younger brother and sister on the bus from our home in the countryside to Primary School and home again
We had moved from a village where I had been in charge of them on our short walk to the local school, so I think my Mum thought I could manage , which worked ok till one day my brother didn’t turn up at the meeting spot , I put sister on the bus and went to the corner to look for him , the bus went off without me , he had been hiding and sneaked onto the bus , I was left !
I can’t remember how I got home ,
We walked to primary school, alone.
When I started at the grammar school at 11 I went by bus, it was just assumed that I would, no fuss.
I do remember that as a child I was fascinated by the "Spitting is prohibited" metal signs inside the buses, I couldn't understand how anyone could be so gross.....
We lived in the country, probably went on the bus on my own when secondary school age, but with friends also. No occasion to use trains or anything.
Cycled alone to the swimming pool, two miles away, across the local golf links in the evenings after school and weekends. This was from age 10/11. Looking back, amazed my fussy, over anxious mum allowed me to do this, but the thought of paedophiles lurking in the bushes seemed alien back then, the early 60’s.
How old were you when you began regularly and confidently using public transport as a child? Or maybe walking and cycling around your local area? Learning to navigate and use public transport develops important skills and independence in children.
I see a lot of threads on Mumsnet about children being ferried around like parcels - even when they live in urban areas. I am speaking of children as old as 14/15.
For such activities as we had then I walked from about age 8. A bit older I cycled.
I began using public transport - sometimes alone - but mostly with friends from about 11 years old. By 11/12 years I was travelling confidently into Liverpool city center and knew my way around all the large department stores and landmarks,
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