Germanshepherdsmum
If it’s a job you could do, you should apply for it.
Please tell me that you don’t use your garden as a lavatory.
Yes I have had to when it is flooding and blocked!
*JaneJudge - yes I am eligible for a fully funded DFG for an adapted wet room and a stairlift. However, because of my medical conditions, I just cannot wait for a stairlift to chug me up to the bathroom, particularly in the night time, as that is when it is worse - after my 29 tablets, I am rather discombobulated and just cannot get there quickly enough sometimes anyway. The thought of piddling on a stairlift mechanism isn't filling me with pleasure, and who is going to clean it every day, I can't? It'd be stinking! My real NEED is for a fully functioning downstairs loo. I bought this house because it did have one, but it is a macerator and it needs a completely new unit at almost £700, that is Monopoly money to me! My daughter, 2, husband and 2 small DGD's moved in with me and we were going to borrow some money to make this pretty spacious 3 bed semi work for us all. I live in the conservatory, we wanted to put a proper roof on it, solar panels, & create a downstairs bathroom for me (we needed 2 anyway) from the utility room, have a new kitchen, with a door out to the garden so that everyone didn't need to disturb me to get outside and give me some privacy., Then my other daughter had to move back in as her MH took a massive downturn - so then there were 6! Unfortunately NOBODY would lend on the house because it is an ex-council house, not even equity release! Ridiculous as there's nothing really wrong with it other than it needs some updating etc. So daughter 2 and family move out, leaving me & daughter 1 who then committed suicide in November 2022 leaving me rattling around in a house too big, unable to repair it. Can't sell it as it wouldn't give me enough money to buy again, so I am stuck!
So the LA came and I asked them instead of a stairlift etc could I have my utility room converted and a proper downstairs loo, I'm certain that once you've added £5k for the stairlift, it'd be cheaper). The answer was NO because 'you already have a downstairs loo and it's yours to maintain'. I know that, but I don't have the money! I've tried charities and all sorts so far to no avail.
So, I have enlisted the help of my local town councillor who I believe has taken it to the Director of Adult Social Care, and someone was supposed to come and do a new Care Act Assessment (on time remarkably as the last one was 18 months overdue). That meeting has so far been cancelled 3 times, but she is apparently coming out on Monday, so we'll see, as using plastic bags and the garden really is not ideal, especially in the depths of winter!! Fortunately nobody can see me ...